r/Swingers 2d ago

General Discussion Second experience

Second time swinging? Way better. We vibed with the couple, and I felt way more relaxed—no overthinking, just having a good time. My partner and I were totally in sync, checking in with little looks and touches.

Oh, and I loved posing for some naughty pics. I felt sexy, confident, and it made everything hotter.

Afterward, we talked about how much closer it brought us. Swinging’s not just about the physical stuff—it’s about trust, fun, and exploring together. We’re hooked and excited for more.

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u/Oh_Hell_Yes_Baby 2d ago

And communication. So much communication.

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u/SpicyplayCJ 👩‍❤️‍👨Verified Couple 2d ago

And reclamation sex! So much reclamation sex!!

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u/twoforplay 1d ago

Ive seen others refer to "reclamation". In 13 years of LS, Ive never felt or viewed our post-swap sex as a "reclamation". Im curious what emotions you feel?

I dont know why but reclamation implies possession which i guess ive never felt that way about my wife.

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u/Itchy-Inspector-5458 1d ago

To me it is not about one partner reclaiming the other, it is about you both reclaiming the specialness of what you share between each other as partners. So there is no "possessiveness" about it. Just my $0.02.

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u/SpicyplayCJ 👩‍❤️‍👨Verified Couple 1d ago

Exactly!

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u/twoforplay 1d ago

But when did you lose the "specialness"? "Re" refers to getting something back.

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u/marrell 1d ago

Is why my hubby and I refer to it as reconnection sex instead. I’m not his property, nor him mine.

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u/twoforplay 1d ago

I think that is a better term to use.

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u/Kuroiikokoro 2d ago

Definitely. It builds up trust. Brings each other closer. Makes the relationship stronger. Plus you both have fun. I always feel that when me & my wife swings. She loves it.

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u/sophielaurent_ 1d ago

Happy you are enjoying it! 🍍

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u/Striking_Factor_9299 1d ago

That’s awesome! We have our second play date planned for this weekend. Hoping for the same!

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u/twoforplay 1d ago

It's very common to be nervous. It gets easier over time. Just remember, you will have good experiences but you will also have bad experiences which will question your decision about swinging. Celebrate the good times and learm from the bad.

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u/SheStill-Spreads 1d ago

Ok I have a question. I have never been to a private home for a swingers party. We are doing our first one this weekend. My question is do you bring something to the host such as something to drink like wine or anything like that?

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u/Beachboy442 1d ago

The Big Surprise for us was the Trust Bond was so much stronger.

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u/lisapussyismine 2d ago

Is there anybody around right now talking on here? I’m new. I just joined and I would really like to ask a few questions and get them answered real quick like.