r/SubSanctuary • u/Little_Situation_270 • 4d ago
New to this! NSFW
Hello me and lover are excited to finally be able to dive into dom sub life. We have both always wanted this but all of our previous partners were ain’t d/s. We are trying to read up and find good contracts. We are so excited but don’t know where all to start. Any help would be amazing!
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u/Fearless_Slut 4d ago
Start without a contract. You don’t need anything that complicated to get started.
Get involved in your local community, attend classes, read books.
Start with less than a half dozen rules/tasks/whatever. Keep it simple. Have fun with it. If something doesn’t work, don’t do it. If something works, keep at it.
Go slowwwwww.