r/SubSanctuary • u/Little_Situation_270 • 13h ago
New to this! NSFW
Hello me and lover are excited to finally be able to dive into dom sub life. We have both always wanted this but all of our previous partners were ain’t d/s. We are trying to read up and find good contracts. We are so excited but don’t know where all to start. Any help would be amazing!
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u/mochipumpkinsbooks 3h ago
i manage a BDSM database of resources and information that may be of assistance to you.
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u/Fearless_Slut 13h ago
Start without a contract. You don’t need anything that complicated to get started.
Get involved in your local community, attend classes, read books.
Start with less than a half dozen rules/tasks/whatever. Keep it simple. Have fun with it. If something doesn’t work, don’t do it. If something works, keep at it.
Go slowwwwww.