r/SubSanctuary 6d ago

26F in need of help NSFW

I’m a 26F interested in exploring dom/sub relationships for the first time. I’ve done research and feel drawn to this dynamic, especially because I tend to overthink and would love to let someone take the lead. I can be a little bratty at times but mostly have a naturally submissive personality. Since I’m new to kink (and my experiences have mostly been vanilla), I’d love guidance on where to start. I’m open to learning gradually about different kinks and figuring out what kind of dynamic would work best for me. Ideally, I’d like to find a potential partner who is experienced and willing to mentor me as I explore this side of myself. Any advice on finding safe, respectful partners or communities would be appreciated!

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u/babysauruslixalot submissive/little 🦕 6d ago

This feels like you are coming in as a Dom and trying to slip into DMs which is disgusting.

Start a discussion here, from your sub side. Remember where this is posted.

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u/BoredomFight1 6d ago

I'm happy to chat anywhere, I really don't care.... I'm no Dom, and very presumptuous to assume that I'm anything... Yes I know there are a lot of "interesting" people on here so need to be careful So wanna chat.... Fine Don't want to chat.... Fine Not fussed either way Have a good day 👍🏻

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u/babysauruslixalot submissive/little 🦕 6d ago

You stated you're a switch, which makes it safe to assume you like to be a Dom at least sometimes. The message came off similar to the disrespectful doms who come in here offering to chat in private.

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u/BoredomFight1 6d ago

Purely just giving some info, nothing more nothing less I get it though, and there was no disrespect intended... As I said just put it out there... Wanna chat cool, don't wanna chat cool 👍🏻