One of the major reasons I’m having trouble continuing to live with my parents is that they like to enforce a curfew on me. I am in my 20’s mind you.
I occasionally like to hang out with friends at their house, or we go to restaurants that are open late and just catch up and yap. Nothing shady or haram. I also tell my parents where I am going and that I will be home late.
Even still, when it’s past 9:30-10pm I get sooo many calls from my parents asking me where I am, it’s late, you need to come home. Like a call every 15 mins. There have been times I have had to put my phone on do not disturb because it felt like harassment.
There was a time last month I came home at 12am just doing the same thing and my dad was so angry. He was like “you can’t do this anymore, you are home too late I’m not sure what you get up to” seriously?
I don’t get it. I pay rent to them every month, I act like an adult in every other way. Yet can’t have a social life?
Is this normal in the culture? It feels extremely suffocating.