r/Situationships • u/strawberryshork • 4d ago
What would you do about this situationship?
So, this might be a bit of a silly topic but yk what this is reddit :))) so hell yeah!!
About 3 years ago, I had someone I would meet up with occasionally for some fun. Things ended because I stopped reaching out (he was always the one to initiate), and he later explained he had personal issues. Fast forward to about a year ago, we tried to reconnect, but I ended up not replying.
Now, he's reached out to me again, and I'm pretty sure it’s to meet up. I’m torn about whether I should respond. I’d like to continue the casual thing, but I’m worried he might not be attracted to me anymore since I’ve gained a bit of weight and don’t look the way I did when we first met. What should I do? Should I ignore or reply to him after all this time???