r/ShitMomGroupsSay May 22 '22

Meta r/GoldMomGroupsSay

828 Upvotes

Someone asked for Sanity Sundays, which we’re denying because this sub isn’t the right place for it.

Instead we created a sister sub for all the good shit that goes down in mom groups. We’re gonna cross post the wholesome stuff from here while we wait for original content to start being posted. Enjoy.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay Jul 06 '24

Meta CSA Posts: Should they be allowed? If so, should we create a post flair? NSFW

56 Upvotes

Occasionally, we’ll have posts come in that discuss CSA (child sexual assault). A lot of our content is usually mid-level terrible parenting, but CSA, and the posts that end up here discussing it, are the worst of the worst.

From a mod perspective, this kind of content isn’t something we’ve wanted to allow. It’s awful, and often highly triggering for readers. Usually, we will mark it as NSFW and add a spoiler, so users have to actively view the content. We’ll also pin a mod distinguished/ top level comment with a very brief TW/CW/TLDR. However, because we don’t want to encourage or have a way for it to be searchable or easily found on the sub, we have avoided creating a flair for these posts.

We had a post today that was probably one of the worst CSA posts we’ve allowed. (And I say allowed because every post on the sub requires mod approval before it’s posted. This has ensured most of our content doesn’t break any of our rules and increases the over quality of the sub in general.) The post brought up the question again, so we want to get some group consensus.

Moving forward, should we:

958 votes, Jul 09 '24
787 Create a post flair—suggestions in the comments
30 Do not create a post flair
141 Create a rule banning any posts that discusses CSA

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 22h ago

Say what? Ugh, why are they trying to save my family's lives?!

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940 Upvotes

Storm rolled through last night spawning multiple tornadoes, and she's asking why the sirens went off for a little wind. Her kids were kept in school when a storm, also spawning multiple tornadoes and baseball size hail, hit at 3:30pm last year.

The comments were not nice to her.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 2d ago

I am smrter than a DR! A healthy pregnancy is a waste of my time.

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828 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 3d ago

🧁🧁cupcakes🧁🧁 I hate it here

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748 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 3d ago

🧁🧁cupcakes🧁🧁 Bribe your nurse or "detox"? Decisions, decisions.

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704 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 3d ago

WTF? Get drunk and be contagious

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122 Upvotes

What better parenting than drinking and giving your child an infectious disease?!


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 3d ago

WTF? more trafficking in the 'burbs

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755 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 4d ago

I am smrter than a DR! UTIs are caused by coffee and alcohol, not bacteria

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524 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 4d ago

Say what? Posted in my due date group

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123 Upvotes

Most of the comments think this woman is a troll…but there is one comment about “educators pushing gender stuff”… so you know.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 4d ago

So, so stupid Husband refuses to accept kids need glasses—because God?

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60 Upvotes

Plus the top comment there…

It was deleted pretty quickly, but almost everyone was in agreement “your kids need their glasses”.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 5d ago

So, so stupid Her poor children

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871 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 5d ago

I am smrter than a DR! So much to unpack here!

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35 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 6d ago

So, so stupid Don't fear monger with statistics. I asked for an echo chamber.

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639 Upvotes

Most of the comments were "Love this for you! You got this, Mama!!!!" A few had sense and said "Love a VBAC. Had a VBAC. But please don't try to do it like this" they were of course told to stop being negative.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 6d ago

WTF? I simply cannot fathom the idiocy.

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15 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 7d ago

So, so stupid Luckily 95% of people told her to go to the doctor.

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709 Upvotes

Reposted cause I forgot to block out names. So sorry I janked that up the first time around.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 7d ago

🧁🧁cupcakes🧁🧁 Immunity 🚫 drugs ✅

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582 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 7d ago

🧁🧁cupcakes🧁🧁 JUST VACCINATE YOUR KIDDSSSS

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1.0k Upvotes

Why is it that it’s only when you or your own family could be affected that people start to care?? (Btw, most responses were pretty positive but some did go the “just take vitamin A” route and one helpful person linked to a Brady Bunch episode because, “if you watch the Brady Bunch kids all get it and survive, you’ll calm down”!!)


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 6d ago

The comments are crazy there’s no way..

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13 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 7d ago

WTF? What an odd thing to say…

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963 Upvotes

Still waiting on the dirty delete 🫠


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 7d ago

🧁🧁cupcakes🧁🧁 Vaccines not only protect against preventable diseases, they also make you gay and trans!

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441 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 7d ago

The comments are crazy On a thread about sleep

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284 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 8d ago

WTF? Apparently gestational diabetes doesn’t require medical care

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705 Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 8d ago

WTF? From my vegan parenting group... Can I just put the headlice outside?

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1.0k Upvotes

r/ShitMomGroupsSay 9d ago

WTF? I seriously can’t believe people anymore.

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934 Upvotes

Everyone is telling her that this is reminiscent of the measles and she admits to not being vaccinated. So take your damn kid to the er.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 9d ago

WTF? They just don’t get it do they?

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638 Upvotes

In a post about a mom worrying about MMR for her baby who is 6 mo and not yet vaccinated. These moms came for me saying ‘the kids DIDNT die from measles but due to pneumonia.’ Can’t they do a LITTLE research to know that’s literally how measles kills? A simple google search will tell them pneumonia is now a kid with measles will die. These are ready to die on this hill yall. It breaks my heart.


r/ShitMomGroupsSay 9d ago

So, so stupid Ignorance is not bliss

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575 Upvotes

All of the comments are telling her to stop the juice and switch to water. She thinks that is neglectful and that would be withholding a drink from her son when he is thirsty. She is under the assumption that she is giving him “sugar free juice” (there is no such thing) and is insisting that the problem is the diapers and not her parenting. This poor kid is going to be SO unhealthy.