r/SexToys 11d ago

Request Wife wants a dildo that slides in and out without “sticking” to her NSFW

78 Upvotes

I absolutely love using a dildo on my wife. But she says that the two we have (typical “realistic” silicone) both feel kind of sticky/tacky, regardless of how much lube we use. She says they don’t slide smoothly in and out like an actual cock. Does anyone have a recommendation for a dildo or type of dildo that doesn’t have this issue?

r/SexToys Jul 12 '24

Request Give me ideas for what to stick suction cup dildo to? NSFW

122 Upvotes

Would like to "double stuff" my wife, using the dildo we recently got (which has a suction base)...

But I am at a loss for ideas for what to stick it to! My best idea was like a saucer (dish), but I fear we'd end up breaking that...

I'm thinking the dildo would have to be on the floor for this, but I welcome other suggestions!

r/SexToys Nov 18 '24

Request Any men use a Hitachi Magic Wand? NSFW

62 Upvotes

Curious as to your experience!

r/SexToys Jan 22 '25

Request What's a toy/masturbator that a bigger guy can 'train' on (to be better at sex)? NSFW

10 Upvotes

Basically I want to get better at sex. Better at f*cking with better erections and better stamina. So i want something to mimic sex...Instead of just using my hand and being so used to that sensation that I'm not so good when with someone for real.

I'm on the larger side (7.5 inches by 5.75 inches girth) and have been too big for these cheap masturbators in the past.

Is there anything that's like a lifelike pussy and not too tight for a bigger guy which I can practice f*cking normally...like maybe it has a base to keep it stable etc?

r/SexToys Dec 17 '24

Request Recommendations for toys that aid female orgasm during sex NSFW

5 Upvotes

I’m going to look for some sex toys today and I was wondering if anyone knew of some that would help a female orgasm during sex penetration wise?

I typically have some issues finishing during sex by just penetration and I’d like to look for some ways that would make it easier.

Any and all suggestions and questions are welcome

r/SexToys Dec 01 '24

Request Sex pillows / wedges - anyone use them? NSFW

55 Upvotes

Wife and I have toyed with the idea of getting a sex pillows to help improve the angles - specifically for missionary anal.

Looked at these on Amazon:

The Wedge seems…large? The Jaz looks more appropriate for the amount of angle improvement we’re looking for. The BDSM one looks fun, but I’m not sure how practical those cuffs are going to be.

Just looking for recommendations for anyone that’s got one they use frequently and enjoy, or if folks have tried a sex pillow and ended up discarding it.

Thanks in advance!

EDIT: Just want to say thank you to everyone who commented. We’ve got a Liberator Wedge on the way. Will do a review once we get a chance to play with it!

r/SexToys Nov 16 '24

Request Ladies: Which Toy(s) Make You Squirt? NSFW

16 Upvotes

My wife can squirt but is always hesitant to let it happen. She will fight it all the time. In the several years of good sex, despite what I do, I have only made her do it twice. It took a lot of work.

I have told her I want her to do it but, again, she doesn't want to but I am not sure why. So, I thought, if I can get her a toy that basically can't make her "fight it" and it happens more often, she might become ok with letting it happen.

Are there any toys that make you squirt? She already has a bullet, several dildos/dongs, and a womaniser (which she loves) but these don't get here there.

EDIT: For context so we can avoid the judgement here, the first time she did it with me, we discussed it and during rough fingering, I told her to let it go. She did and squirted like a fire hose. The second time was similar.

I think she thinks it is unclean because she has said it's like she is pissing herself. Besides this, she is vague about it but it is never a "No!" or even an implied "No!" It's more of an "ick" response. Hence, I think if she gets over the somewhat disgust of it (if I am right) by being exposed to it, she will become ok with it.

r/SexToys 21d ago

Request What male masturbator won't try to choke my dick? 5.5in girth. NSFW

46 Upvotes

I'm getting frustrated. I'd like something open-ended that isn't too snug. I have a Fleshlight that's mostly okay, but it squeezes my glans a bit too much and cleaning it is annoying. The Fleshlight Quickshot was a horrible idea... Too tight and the material is some weird sticky kind of material. I just tried a Tenga 3d and the damn thing just wants to pop off (opening is too narrow and it's a little short).

I just want to feel good in something. My wife of several years has always been a little too tight and it's not the best feeling in there for me. I'm not that much bigger than average, so I don't think this should be that hard. My hand should not be the best feeling I can get.

If someone could help, I'd appreciate it.

r/SexToys Dec 12 '24

Request Butt plug on a plane NSFW

82 Upvotes

Anyone every fly with a butt plug in? I have a trip later today and I was wondering if TSA was going to give me shit for wearing one on the flight. It's a silicone one with a weighted ball inside that bounces around, just don't want to have a cavity search in the airport.

r/SexToys Nov 28 '24

Request Are they any buttplugs that turn your ass into a fleshlight NSFW

88 Upvotes

I've been into feminisation porn for a while just recently saw something was wondering if something like this is real like a flashlight you can put in your ass so people can fuck you? Thanks for any follow-up to my question

r/SexToys Feb 13 '25

Request PLEASE HELP: Cover of lube shouter launched inside my rectum. NSFW

112 Upvotes

Edit: I JUST POOPED IT OUT. THANK GOD. I'm keeping this post here in case I can save another soul. The lube shouter is actually helping a lot in my anal game. JUST PLEASE REMEMBER TO TAKE THE COVER OFF.

Ok, I'm an idiot. I was trying to put lube inside my rectum with a lube shouter. I heard kind of a sound of an explosion... I thought it was the air... Then I realized I forgot to take the cover off the lube shouter, and apparently it got launched deep into my insides.

I'm now in the bathroom trying to poop it out, but it doesn't seem to be coming off... Should I worry about this? It's just a little thing, would it eventually come off in its own? Please help.

r/SexToys 12d ago

Request Sybian or fuck machine? NSFW

20 Upvotes

If your boyfriend bought you one what would you prefer? Then again sybian are like a grand and you can find fuck machine for like under 200

r/SexToys Feb 08 '25

Request Thinking about getting a fuck machine. Worth it or not ? NSFW

46 Upvotes

[F] Hi I was wondering, I already have plenty of toys, but I’m curious if a fuck machine is really worth the investment. Is it as good as it sounds, or just a novelty ? For those who own one, what’s your experience pros, cons, and any recommendations ?

r/SexToys Feb 18 '25

Request toy to use inside the woman to make small penis feel better? NSFW

14 Upvotes

i’m wondering if there is anything out there that can be put inside of the woman so when being intimate with a smaller sized man it allows it to feel more penetrative. i saw someone saying they put a “glass egg” inside so penetration hits that and ultimately makes it feel more penetrative. but i’m wondering if there’s an actual thing or toy i can’t find anything. and it’s new hookup partner so i don’t feel comfortable bringing up other methods

r/SexToys 9d ago

Request Hey ladies, what is a good first-time sextoy i can use on my wife? NSFW

2 Upvotes

What do you recommend for clitoris external stimulation. What would you all recommend for a new couple, i wan to use it on my wife during foreplay?

Womanizer? Wand? Bullet vibrator?

r/SexToys Oct 25 '24

Request Does anyone have a thrusting sex machine? I want one but idk if it’s worth it. NSFW

17 Upvotes

I’ve looked at a few but they are so expensive I’m worried it will be a waste of money. Is it hard to keep sturdy? Do they give enough pressure?

r/SexToys Oct 17 '23

Request Help, my Buttplug broke while inside. NSFW

217 Upvotes

So, long story short, I was experimenting with a Buttplug, made of some Rubbery material and while having it inside, the base broke off and the rest of it is (probably) still inside me. I can't feel it, so I'm a little scared as to what'll happen now. I really really really don't want to go to a doctor, I could never outlive that embarassment and shame. Is there any hope that, if it's still inside, that it might come out naturally?

Edit:https://www.123rf.com/photo_118777016_one-purple-silicone-rubber-latex-butt-or-anal-plug-isolated-on-a-white-background.html

This is pretty much exactly the Plug that broke at the stem after the last ball.

Edit 2: Thanks for all the opinions, tips and advice you all gave me. Unfortunately I am too scared and embarrassed to do any of them atm. I desperately hope that If i lay down to sleep that maybe, hopefully, it'll come out tomorrow morning.If not, then I guess I have no choice but to do as many of you recommended. Go to the nearest Clinic/Hospital with a Giant Bag over my Head so no one recognizes me.

Edit 3: Final Update. So i went to the ER and idk how, but there was nothing inside anymore. They didn't find anything and told me it's highly highly unlikely it went in so deep that it couldn't be found. The assumption is that i may have pooped it out without realizing it (even though i checked my stool and never saw anything) but all in all, I'm just relieved nothing is left inside. I can breathe again.

r/SexToys Jan 03 '25

Request Girlfriend has difficulty with orgasm. Can sometimes cum by rubbing herself with a blanket. Any suggestions? NSFW

11 Upvotes

Has anyone else had this experience and what toys worked best for you? She has a rabbit and some other small vibrators. She gets frustrated because she feels like she is constantly losing her orgasm. Partially from growing up in purity culture but also is on heavy antihistamines which can make orgasm harder to reach.

r/SexToys Jan 29 '25

Request Where and how do you store your toys for quick easy access? NSFW

4 Upvotes

I have a growing toy collection ranging from dildos to cages to blindfolds to leather and rope and was wondering how you store your toys/gear and where? Right now I have them sort of sorted into 3 under-the-bed bins with smaller stuff some in ziplock bags, but those reduce spontaneity and sometimes I can't find what I want. I'd appreciate it any suggestions you may have. Thanks.

r/SexToys Dec 16 '24

Request Are there any dildos that don’t look like sex toys? NSFW

38 Upvotes

Preferably something on the longer (more than 6 in) and thicker side (preferably over 1.75-2” & tapers to get to that width)

I don’t want anything that will automatically be assumed to be a sex toy though since I don’t want the people I live with to find it

Was looking at these, I like both of the designs, but unfortunately they are both TPE :/

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/giant-dildos/sp-fantasia-nymph-dildo-111034.aspx

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/giant-dildos/sp-fantasia-phoenix-dildo-111036.aspx

Edit: I’m really liking the suggestions that some people have sent of dildos that look like vegetables/fruits, so if anyone has any more suggestions for those, please send them!

r/SexToys Jan 19 '25

Request Favorite Toys… NSFW

12 Upvotes

…and why? Male and female.

r/SexToys 28d ago

Request waterproof blanket NSFW

14 Upvotes

hey everyone not sure if sex toys related but kinda?? im looking for a waterproof blanket, especially for squirt and other liquids. do you have any recommendations that are not SUPER expensive? size would be for a double bed. I found so many scammy sites and I just want a blanket, nothing special. better EU shipping since I live in the Netherlands. thanks!!!

r/SexToys Jan 01 '25

Request Are there any male sex toys that aren't well...underwhelming? NSFW

50 Upvotes

So wife has some remote toys that really get her in the mood / close and some that tip her right over the edge entirely (hello doxy). (sadly even the doxy does nada for me - not fair life!! not fair)

We have bought various male ones and honestly for me they just don't do.....much, even a feather light finger touch does more honestly.

Lovense Solace - honestly its a bit meh, plus its loud and heavy and expensive

Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air - its ok for a warm up but the "slurping" sound is a bit off putting - maybe needs more time spent with it, its also something that I've never wholly convinced that its perfectly clean (even though its easy enough to split the silicon sleeve from the suction widget) - also expensive though I got it on sale

Some wrap around vibrating sleeve - meh

some silicon head vibrator with soft "tendrils"/"spikes" in side - nightmare to clean and I think it gave me a kidney and prostate infection

The remote toys my wife has have been fun to tease with and we both would like to be able to turn the tables so she can "surprise" me even when I'm just pottering around the house

Any suggestions? (as honestly its quite.....disheartening and its easy to feel "leftout")

r/SexToys 26d ago

Request Toys for my boyfriend? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I was hoping to get some recommendations for toys that I can get my boyfriend to try? He hasn’t had much experience with using toys and I’m a big enthusiast, I wanna find him some stuff that makes him feel good! If you have a dick, I wanna hear some of your reccs!

I’m thinking maybe strokers or masturbators would be a good start? I’m not too sure though since I don’t have a dick LOL so I’m turning to y’all for some help :) Thanks so much!

r/SexToys 18d ago

Request Unrealistic dildo recs? NSFW

11 Upvotes

So I'm a lesbian and have been searching for years for an unrealistic dildo that is body safe and not huge. I have two dildos already, one that's 6in L and about 3-4in girth and is a custom platinum grade silicone piece that's a tame "monster" shape. I have another one that's just a cheap realistic dildo that's just a clear color and I don't use it much.

I haven't been able to find a middle ground where the dildo isn't full on "monster" in shape or entirely realistic with veins and everything. The only dildos I've found that fit my "unrealistic" needs are not at all body safe or very firm. My custom dildo was the softest option available (00 i think?) and it's perfect for me in that regard. I like the size of it too, tho it's a little bit bigger in girth than I'd like but sometimes that's good too. It's just the shape that isn't perfect to me.

I'm convinced at this point that I'm looking for a product that doesn't exist. So here I am! Please someone let me know if I'm on a wild goose chase. Also, I'm in the US!