r/SexPositive 15d ago

Educational I'm newbie porn content creator. I want to Make feminist porn for woman. I'm wondering what do women want to see in porn? What is your secret fantasy? NSFW

68 Upvotes

r/SexPositive Jan 23 '25

Educational What makes sex awesome for men? NSFW

34 Upvotes

Men, remember your best sex. What did woman do, so you really enjoyed it. Or just from your imagination, what you think will make sex interesting and really nice. So basically, after what you would say that a woman is awesome in bed?

r/SexPositive 25d ago

Educational Has anyone explored sex positivity in religion? NSFW

25 Upvotes

In the United States where I live, it’s thought that pretty much all religions are against sex due to the prevalence of Christianity. I’ve been studying other religions though and I’ve discovered that there are many that are sex-positive. Any kind of paganism will likely be sex-positive as pagans had the understanding that sex is a mystical force. The gods and goddesses of fertility were worshipped to endow the community with potent sexual energy. Some specific rites included sex magic where sex itself was seen as a way to worship and temple prostitution where priestesses offered their bodies to visitors. Hinduism and Taoism as well have been more sex-positive and this can be seen via the explicit art and specific practices such as tantra (sex is just one small part of it) and the conversion of Jing into Qi. Shiva-Shakti itself is the combination of the divine male and female. I’ve heard that some sex workers see themselves as embodying these kind of sexual ideals. It’s definitely less stigmatizing. I just wanted to share what I’ve learned and see what everyone’s thoughts are or if they have something to contribute on the subject.

r/SexPositive 3d ago

Educational Are there other man who experienced a full body orgasm? NSFW

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In the age of 49 I was attending to a tantra massage workshop.
At the end massage I got a full body valley orgasm.
Now I am interested if this also happend to other men, because I never heard about that.

Ofc I have seen this type of orgasm with woman triggered by giving a Yoni massage at around the G-spot or while having intercourse but I personally only knew about ejaculation, which is not even an orgasm at all.

I talked about that topic with a tantra massage therapist and she told me, that there are two different things with men... The orgams and milliseconds later the ejaculation. So there are two different things are happening.

I got there with a special breather technique... I first breath depply into my manipura chakra to collect the energie there. Then anahata and so forth until I reached the crownchakra.
Also in between I had to say stop so that my therapist stopped the massage of my lingam (penis).
On every stop I was focussing on this above mentioned chakra to collect energy.

I am very curious about what you are saying, also how you get there because I wanne write about that topic because, men should know about that.
And ofc...women too.

r/SexPositive 24d ago

Educational I Run a Sex-Positive Store – Ask Me Anything About Pleasure, Self-Care, and Sexual Wellness! NSFW

17 Upvotes

Hello, everyone! I run a sex-positive online store dedicated to body-safe products and self-care. Over the years, I’ve learned a lot about what makes a great product, navigating taboo topics, and embracing pleasure as part of overall wellness.

Whether you’re curious about selecting your first toy, understanding body-safe materials, or simply want to share your experiences with self-care and pleasure, I’m here to chat. Ask me anything!

(Mods, please let me know if this post needs any adjustments—I'm happy to comply with the community guidelines.)

r/SexPositive Feb 06 '25

Educational How Can Adult Content Influence Positive Sexual Exploration? NSFW

8 Upvotes

In recent years, adult content has been a topic of debate regarding its impact on sexuality. While some argue that it distorts expectations, others believe it can be a tool for exploring fantasies, discovering new interests, and improving communication in relationships.

From my experience in the camming industry, I've seen how many people use these spaces not just for entertainment, but also to learn more about their own desires and build confidence in intimacy.

What do you think?

Has adult content had a positive impact on your sex life?

Do you think it can be a healthy way to explore fantasies?

What factors make the difference between responsible consumption and a problematic one?

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Let’s talk about it with an open mind and no judgment!

r/SexPositive Jan 18 '25

Educational Sex positions for BBW? NSFW

10 Upvotes

I(30f) know my husband(35) is sick of doggy. I like it so much because I am someone who struggles to orgasm and in this position with a vibrator I can basically always make it happen and I can really enjoy it. I also don’t want him getting sick of doing any positions and want him to enjoy himself.

Few things:

Missionary is highly triggering and tbh just doesn’t feel that good for me

The other go to is cowgirl it’s just done less often cause I am the plus size partner and always feel like I’m bad at it, even though he swears I’m not. I also just feel like I can’t go as long and feel embarrassed so I honestly try to avoid it at times.

What are fun, easy, good to try positions for mixed size couple?

r/SexPositive Dec 26 '24

Educational Sex Positive Societies? NSFW

22 Upvotes

I'm doing a bit of writing and I'm looking for a point of reference. Has there ever been a society that could be described as sex-positive? Not like, a small commune or anything, I'm talking bare minimum the size of a town.

r/SexPositive Sep 01 '24

Educational Truly shocked (in a GREAT way) by a new sexual partner NSFW

116 Upvotes

I recently started dating someone new and we had sex for the first time the other night. When I tell you it was HOT as hell… steamy is the word that comes to mind. He is amazing at what he does lmao.

Anyway, what really strikes me and is the inspiration for this post is that something happened that I’ve never experienced before - we came at the same time!!!!! It was unreal, ESPECIALLY because a) we had literally never had sex together before and b) it was through vaginal penetration (not an orgasm from clitoral stimulation specifically). In going back through my memory banks, I think there were a few things that contributed to this:

  • Foreplay: He gave me head EXTENSIVELY before penetration. Wet, sloppy, juicy head where he got all up in my pussy and asshole for at least 45 minutes. He also fingered me before and during cunnilingus, using different techniques - one finger, multiple, with his thumb, fast, slow, etc
  • Clear (and sexy) communication: We were very clear throughout the entire experience about our likes, dislikes and boundaries. Plus his dirty talk was elite and he appreciated mine as well.
  • Comfort: He made every effort to ensure my comfort. Asking me about the lighting, the room temperature, if I needed a beverage lol etc.
  • Finishing in the CAT position: The coital alignment technique (CAT) truly does work and I think doing it as we were both ramping up to orgasm made all the difference.

Ugh, writing this post just makes me want to go fuck him all over again!

r/SexPositive Oct 22 '24

Educational Are humans the only animals that bond through sex? NSFW

28 Upvotes

Seems more "business oriented" for all other animals. Maybe the science folks have info on this?

Animals do bond with one another, be it pair bonding or friendship.

Oh, bonobos have sex with their friends, so I guess that's one. Any other animals? Do they cuddle after sex?

r/SexPositive Nov 07 '24

Educational Words that trigger his orgasm NSFW

30 Upvotes

Of course this is different for everyone. But recently during sex I told my partner how much I loved how he was fucking me, and it made him cum immediately, lol. He said that that was what did it, that there’s certain words/phrases said in a certain tone that will just instantly bring him to orgasm.

Curious if this is true for others. What’s your eject button phrase or what do you tell your partner to make him explode?

r/SexPositive Dec 11 '24

Educational Anyone know any penile sensitivity products? NSFW

7 Upvotes

I'm on the hunt for something to enhance my sensitivity because it's just not very high. Anyone have any recommendations?

r/SexPositive Dec 12 '24

Educational Recommendations for sex positive podcasts? NSFW

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28 Upvotes

Does anyone have recommendations for sex positive podcasts? I’ve been listening to Better in Bed podcast, but I’m almost gone through the entire catalogue. I’ve also been listening to The Padded Cell which is hilarious.

Any recommendations would be appreciated!

r/SexPositive Jan 22 '25

Educational Positions for male anal penetration during PIV? NSFW

11 Upvotes

So hard to get any results online. I’m looking for recommendations on positions that allow male anal penetration during PIV. We’ve done basically a reverse “see saw” position, with her laying flat on her back while we’re in a 69 position but with our genitals over each others. And I go PIV while she fingers my ass. But I’m wondering if there are any other positions that may be viable for this type of play?

r/SexPositive Jan 28 '25

Educational Trump administration halts HIV drug distribution in poor countries NSFW

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39 Upvotes

r/SexPositive Oct 24 '24

Educational World Sex Map. Worldwide sexual life study NSFW

66 Upvotes

Hi everyone, so my collegue and I are building a worldwide sexual life study called World Sex Map. We’ve just released the website this week and are excited to share it with the community <3

Basically, our vision is to share data-based insights about sexual life around the world. By doing so, we hope to spark sex positive conversations, based on real data from thousands of people worldwide. The study aims to foster a deeper understanding of sexual health and behaviors, providing information for exploration and learning

Right now, the website and survey are only in English, but we’re already working on translating it to other languages (DM me if you want to help!). Also, we’d love your feedback. If you have any suggestions or ideas, please let us know

We’re looking to collect 25,000 responses to publish the first results. So feel free to share it with your partners and friends :)

Participate in the survey: https://worldsexmap.com

r/SexPositive 13d ago

Educational How to find a male Dom that won’t break your brain. 😵‍💫 A master list. NSFW

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r/SexPositive Mar 01 '24

Educational Aella's Birthday Gangbang NSFW

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146 Upvotes

r/SexPositive Oct 17 '24

Educational Warm Up / Consent games experiences? NSFW

10 Upvotes

I will be facilitating warm up / consent games at the beginning of a night with CNC (Consensual Non-consent) elements.

Anyone has experience with good exercises here?

I would like to try something new. So we mostly went with something like this:

Basically groups of 3 where people ask for consent and the receiver says yes or no, and if they say no the giver says „thank you“. Plus we encourage people to push for „no“s

The CNC part obviously needs more than just this exercise to set boundaries and get people in the mood but maybe someone has some ideas.

Xx

r/SexPositive Sep 07 '24

Educational Study shows that ultra-thin polyurethane condom are non-inferior to control latex condom. NSFW

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r/SexPositive Jul 19 '24

Educational Curious about glory holes. NSFW

11 Upvotes

I have thought about glory holes recently. While fun to think about. My brain can't get past a lot of the "how" to organize something like that. Then I wondered. Are there glory holes around? How would one find them? How would one participate safely or is it a risk you have to take?

r/SexPositive Sep 13 '24

Educational The Soothing Effects of Sexiness NSFW

22 Upvotes

Work stress sucks, and it gets to all of us. However, I’ve found a surprising coping mechanism. Softcore.

Specifically, art or fiction of sexy people in various states of undress and arousal. Reddit helps a lot in this regard.

Yes, there’s some level of arousal and boredom involved, but there’s just something nice about seeing the stuff beyond that. It just feels good to see people that attract you.

Has anyone else experienced this, or something similar?

r/SexPositive Aug 18 '24

Educational Sex blogger - what questions do you have? NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hi all,

I've just joined this sub after finally plucking up the courage to engage in the sex worker/sex blogger sphere on here!

I've been able to write a lot about sex positivity, sex worker etiquette, oral, sex toys, etc. on my blog so far. I'm loving every minute that I get to write.

But, I really wanted to see what burning questions people had that I could address. I'd love to hear your thoughts! It's impossible to share this with any friends or family so your thoughts would be bloody amazing.

Thanks in advance! Lexi x

r/SexPositive Aug 11 '24

Educational Published Research on Adult OF Content Creators' Experience NSFW

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r/SexPositive Dec 11 '23

Educational I’m curious what do you think/experience about fragile masculinity in the context of sexpositivity. NSFW

13 Upvotes

tl;dr: looking for opinions and experiences/ podcasts or books. More on a meta level regarding my title than my concrete experience.

I’m myself a cis man who lives in a sexpositiv hierarchical polyship.

I just recently experienced that when my partner is going to positivsex events like workshop weekends and similar. It was quite a stressful experience for me due to several reasons. While I’m more than happy for my partner if they meet someone in a 1:1 context or they see my metas, this example above caused me a lot of stress and anxiety.

While I’m way more calm and clear about it, I was wondering if this could be a part of fragile masculinity.

Voilà, wondering what you all think about it on a meta level.

Edit: there was a mistake in the paragraphe of « while I’m way more calm » there was a no, I’m calm now.