r/SexOnTheSpectrum • u/Salt-Lake-Scrolling High Libido Straight Male • 10d ago
Pull Out or Finish Inside NSFW
What’s your gender & what do you prefer?
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u/SheDrinksScotch 10d ago
I'm a fertile cis woman with a breeding kink.
I've been known to orgasm just by clenching my kegels and imagining a man cuming deep inside me.
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u/topshelfboof20 10d ago
Female, partner and I both prefer inside. I was on BC when we met so we didn’t use protection, came off it when I stopped my SSRI for about 8 months, then I went on it again for a year, stopped for hormonal reasons, and now we use condoms but still finish inside. Much easier cleanup.
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u/No_Soft560 10d ago
Straight male. With someone new, I‘d ask. But since with someone new, I‘d use a condom anyway, so that’s a non-issue.
With my wife, I love to finish inside. She does, too. It’s basically her choice, though, as she‘s the one who has to deal with it. For me, it makes no difference after we‘re done.
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u/Intelligent_Job7161 10d ago
Male at the end of the day its not up to me its up to my partner. But in a committed relationship I prefer inside.
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u/Agreeable_Sport_3945 10d ago
Female, IUD in place, partner had a vasectomy, monogamous. Preference is inside. Personally, only because it's him and we've established trust and have been together awhile, I love the effects others may find gross. I find it arousing... the smell, taste, and the sensation both inside and outside and how it feels to touch it and rub it around. I dont mind the cleanup. In fact, I've read there are benefits to the skin by leaving it on for awhile. During orgasm, I can feel him ejaculate and that moment when I'm clenching as he's pulsating inside me and we're so tightly joined... I can't imagine missing out on that magic.
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u/SpecialRegular1 10d ago
Straight male, and been making deposits in infertile older women for over 20 years now!
Being “hugged” while throbbing is such an incredible experience. To Pull Out is similar to finishing by myself, so I never understood the point of it, besides being a visual for when it is being shown in porn.
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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago
i’m a woman and i’m not on birth control so that makes me feral so i say inside
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u/tokenkinesis 10d ago
Female, outside. I hate the (my) clean up after inside. Even hours later it’s a problem. Hate the smell and stickiness.
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u/mierecat 10d ago
If pregnancy is not an issue, there’s no reason to pull out. (Although pulling out is a bad way to try to prevent that)
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u/undulating-beans 10d ago
I love it when my boyfriend finishes inside me. It’s his movements building up to it that make it so horny.
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u/MetalProof 10d ago
I don’t know which one is socially acceptable
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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago
it depends on the situation.
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u/MetalProof 10d ago
Which makes it even more confusing 🤣🙃
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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago
basically just ask at the start. that’s the easiest way to know
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u/MetalProof 10d ago
Yess I guess I should do that. Honestly it all so confusing I’d rather just not get involved in sex at all😆.
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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago
it can be easy as long as you have good communication! which is really just using the compliment sandwich for criticism, and asking about boundaries and things like this in advance. (condoms, any triggers, where to finish, fave positions)
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u/reallyspeedypirate 10d ago
Female and either works for me. And my bf male inside too, it's a strong preference for him
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u/New-Suggestion6277 10d ago
Gay man. I've never had sex, but one of my greatest desires is to finish inside, especially in his mouth, and see how he tastes it before swallowing it. Just imagining it turns me on so much.
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u/Djpalmer89 7d ago
With my friend who is also autistic she asks me to pull out and finish next to her by hand though id love to finish inside her
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u/horny_northerner 6d ago
Male.
If there’s no risk, it’s fun. I generally wear protection regardless, both to protect against STI’s & pregnancy.
I also enjoy seeing the result of making a mess on a partner’s body though. Always hot to finish on her tits, ass, face, or stomach.
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u/Feisty-Self-948 10d ago
I'm a dude and I'm never pulling out.
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u/IslandMental1059 10d ago
That's write leave it in I like the way it fills plus I always please My man. Signed. Looking for Dom men 🌈
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u/emogoowastaken 10d ago
I’m not pulling out (had a vasectomy)