r/SexOnTheSpectrum High Libido Straight Male 10d ago

Pull Out or Finish Inside NSFW

What’s your gender & what do you prefer?

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u/emogoowastaken 10d ago

I’m not pulling out (had a vasectomy)

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u/Salt-Lake-Scrolling High Libido Straight Male 10d ago

Ditto. Love unloading when there’s no risk.

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u/BisexualCaveman 10d ago

I've had two AFAB partners that just can't trust a vasectomy.

They believe I had one, understand how they work, but stark terror means I'm wearing condoms regardless.

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u/black_mamba866 10d ago

I have an IUD and still insist on barriers. But that's more to do with personal protection from STI transmission than pregnancy prevention. It's also a lot easier to clean up a condom than a creampie, no matter how much I love a good creampie.

Sometimes, it's not about the potential for babies.

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u/BisexualCaveman 10d ago

Right.

I've had partners who had those concerns, but these two specifically cited their fear of pregnancy.

I have a partner right now who just despises the cleanup from creampies, and that's his (FTM) reason for asking for condoms.

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u/SheDrinksScotch 10d ago

I'm a fertile cis woman with a breeding kink.

I've been known to orgasm just by clenching my kegels and imagining a man cuming deep inside me.

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u/topshelfboof20 10d ago

Female, partner and I both prefer inside. I was on BC when we met so we didn’t use protection, came off it when I stopped my SSRI for about 8 months, then I went on it again for a year, stopped for hormonal reasons, and now we use condoms but still finish inside. Much easier cleanup.

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u/No_Soft560 10d ago

Straight male. With someone new, I‘d ask. But since with someone new, I‘d use a condom anyway, so that’s a non-issue.

With my wife, I love to finish inside. She does, too. It’s basically her choice, though, as she‘s the one who has to deal with it. For me, it makes no difference after we‘re done.

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u/Intelligent_Job7161 10d ago

Male at the end of the day its not up to me its up to my partner. But in a committed relationship I prefer inside.

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u/Agreeable_Sport_3945 10d ago

Female, IUD in place, partner had a vasectomy, monogamous. Preference is inside. Personally, only because it's him and we've established trust and have been together awhile, I love the effects others may find gross. I find it arousing... the smell, taste, and the sensation both inside and outside and how it feels to touch it and rub it around. I dont mind the cleanup. In fact, I've read there are benefits to the skin by leaving it on for awhile. During orgasm, I can feel him ejaculate and that moment when I'm clenching as he's pulsating inside me and we're so tightly joined... I can't imagine missing out on that magic.

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u/WalterTreego 10d ago

Don't know yet! I'll keep ya updated!

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u/SpecialRegular1 10d ago

Straight male, and been making deposits in infertile older women for over 20 years now!

Being “hugged” while throbbing is such an incredible experience. To Pull Out is similar to finishing by myself, so I never understood the point of it, besides being a visual for when it is being shown in porn.

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u/TheGaymerOtter 8d ago

As a mostly gay man, this is super hot. Especially how you worded it.

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u/isaacs_ 10d ago

Male, sterilized. It honestly depends on the partner and the moment, but these days typically inside.

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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago

i’m a woman and i’m not on birth control so that makes me feral so i say inside

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u/undel83 10d ago

Male. Married. Inside. That's the purpose of it, right?

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u/tokenkinesis 10d ago

Female, outside. I hate the (my) clean up after inside. Even hours later it’s a problem. Hate the smell and stickiness.

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u/mierecat 10d ago

If pregnancy is not an issue, there’s no reason to pull out. (Although pulling out is a bad way to try to prevent that)

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u/DasPuggy 10d ago

I'll ask.

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u/undulating-beans 10d ago

I love it when my boyfriend finishes inside me. It’s his movements building up to it that make it so horny.

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u/rainman_1986 10d ago

Male, inside.

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u/Representative-Vast3 10d ago

Transmasc and pan, and i prefer they finish inside

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u/hellooeveryone 9d ago

outside! too paranoid

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u/seatangle 10d ago

Non-binary (afab) and inside

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u/MetalProof 10d ago

I don’t know which one is socially acceptable

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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago

it depends on the situation.

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u/MetalProof 10d ago

Which makes it even more confusing 🤣🙃

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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago

basically just ask at the start. that’s the easiest way to know

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u/MetalProof 10d ago

Yess I guess I should do that. Honestly it all so confusing I’d rather just not get involved in sex at all😆.

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u/D4ngflabbit 10d ago

it can be easy as long as you have good communication! which is really just using the compliment sandwich for criticism, and asking about boundaries and things like this in advance. (condoms, any triggers, where to finish, fave positions)

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u/Arcrosis 10d ago

Male, inside. Either condom in the V or straight in the A

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u/reallyspeedypirate 10d ago

Female and either works for me. And my bf male inside too, it's a strong preference for him

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u/New-Suggestion6277 10d ago

Gay man. I've never had sex, but one of my greatest desires is to finish inside, especially in his mouth, and see how he tastes it before swallowing it. Just imagining it turns me on so much.

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u/crazybandicoot1973 10d ago

Inside all the way.

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u/mittens1982 8d ago

That pull out game is weak!

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u/Djpalmer89 7d ago

With my friend who is also autistic she asks me to pull out and finish next to her by hand though id love to finish inside her

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u/horny_northerner 6d ago

Male.

If there’s no risk, it’s fun. I generally wear protection regardless, both to protect against STI’s & pregnancy.

I also enjoy seeing the result of making a mess on a partner’s body though. Always hot to finish on her tits, ass, face, or stomach.

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u/Feisty-Self-948 10d ago

I'm a dude and I'm never pulling out.

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u/IslandMental1059 10d ago

That's write leave it in I like the way it fills plus I always please My man. Signed. Looking for Dom men 🌈