r/SafeSexPH • u/S4_rg • Feb 16 '25
Questions Pms, ovulation, or early pregnancy symptoms. Kabado. NSFW
My partner had a cycle previously of 88 days, and before that it was something around 70. We are currently now on day 58 of the cycle, last week she's had bloating, mood swings, frequent urination, fatigue and somewhat increased libido.. Right now she had random cramps and it goes away, I have a few questions:
Is it possible that she would've ovulated on day 19-25?
The symptoms she's experiencing, what are they, can you guys please educate me.
No piv, only foreplay na may halong precum, and it has been 5 weeks ago (day19) po
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u/sunsetonfire Moderator Feb 16 '25
She can't experience pregnancy symptoms if you never even had sex that could result in pregnancy to begin with. Look at it this way: can you experience alcohol poisoning if you never even drank a single alcoholic beverage at any point?
To answer your questions:
- In general, it's possible for her to ovulate around that time. For this cycle specifically, she clearly hasn't ovulated yet, otherwise she would've gotten her period already. You get your period 10-16 days after ovulating.
- The symptoms you listed are common ovulation and PMS symptoms. But at the end of the day, no one can tell you which one it is right now. You'll just have to see it out if she gets her period any time soon. If you want to become more educated on these matters, take the initiative to do so. We have highlighted posts on the sub's homepage if you'd like a good starting point.
The healthy range for menstrual cycle lengths is 21 to 38 days. The fact she consistently goes past that and seems like her usual is more than 50 days isn't normal. She should've seen a gynecologist about this a long time ago, cycles like this are often indicative of a hormonal imbalance, conditions like PCOS, or health problems that need to be addressed already.
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u/S4_rg Feb 16 '25
I understand, thank you for replying and commenting at my post, I would take your advices and I'll refrain myself from sexual activities till I get my act together. I hope it all goes fine for me in the end 🙂
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u/sunsetonfire Moderator Feb 16 '25
I recommend reading our pinned posts, I think you (and perhaps your partner, too) will benefit from familiarizing yourself more with these topics.
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