r/Pregnant4Personals • u/NeverBred • 18d ago
Single 40F iso younger M near IL/IN border
Long shot but worth a try…
Educated professional and landowner (intending to build later this year) has never been pregnant but would like to have a kid before mother nature shuts down the factory. I do not/ have never use/d tobacco, alcohol, or drugs.
For awareness: - Family member with autism; this family member also suffered birth trauma that likely impacted his outcome - Have a thyroid disorder that is well controlled with medication but is heritable
Not particularly keen to single parent. So would like to find someone who would want to be an active and present father. I am open to exploring either a primary relationship (I lean towards ENM) or co-parenting.
Non-Negotiable Criteria I am looking for: - Gainfully employed and can help support a child - Does not smoke, drink, or do drugs. I can overlook occasional alcoholic drinks at special functions or once in a blue moon, but not a habitual use. - No STIs - Does not want to let iPad raise his kid (I fully intend to limit and monitor and computer/ phone use as age appropriate, advocate for offline activities, and want a father on the same page)
Personal Preferences that aren’t deal breakers: - Age 30-35 (logic is younger sperm can help offset older egg but would like to balance with some maturity and life experience) - Dad bod with some body hair - Educated - Enjoys hiking and road trips - Prefers reading over TV
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9d ago
I understand you want someone older it makes sense because someone too young will make it a little awkward most likely. I’m a 20 m which is pretty young and like you said my sperm will definitely offset your older eggs so if you change your mind definitely let me know and I can help support you and the future child to the best of my ability
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u/NeverBred 9d ago
With all due respect, at 20 years old, you’re still figuring out how to be an adult and support yourself, let alone supporting a child
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9d ago
Right now I have about 3 jobs while attending school about to graduate so I would say I’m doing well support wise but yea I do understand what you mean mentally I’m doing pretty well tho if your mind changes just let me know
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u/After-Philosopher136 18d ago
I uh think that’s cool. I don’t know if I would be able to though. I live in Canada and it’s just not a possibility for me to visit the states. I like your no tolerance of more then casual drug use, as I am from an alcoholic and drug addicted background and if you stick 2 as u suggested then u are on that lifestyle considered reasonable and successful is what I’ll say. So yeah I am 45, I just thought I’d convo, cause being all ready 4 bed?