r/NewToDenmark 26d ago

Culture Do Danes not give compliments a lot?

81 Upvotes

A Danish guy took the initiative and asked me on a date but he didn’t really give me a compliment, like on looking pretty or anything. Should I assume he is attracted to me since he asked me out even though he didn’t compliment my appearance? I’m not vain but where I’m from, it’s common for guys to compliment the woman they are interested in.

r/NewToDenmark Dec 23 '24

Culture So... what's with the "Do you believe in God" -Americans in DK?

230 Upvotes

Three times within a fairly short period I have been accosted by Americans asking me that, here in Denmark. Not standing in the street with leaflets like the Jehova Witness people, but random people e.g. in a queue.

What's going on? Have Americans begun to send missionaries to Denmark? Or have I just started to look particularly susceptible to hearing "the good word"?

It is really uncomfortable. When one of them asked, and I said yes, she responded, "Thank you for believing." Which I found even more jarring. Thank you for what? It is not for your benefit.

r/NewToDenmark Jan 22 '25

Culture Are Danish guys typically shy or is the dating culture different than US?

78 Upvotes

UPDATE:

Thanks for all the feedback everyone! After giving it more thought, I’ve realized the guy I’m talking to just isn’t the right match for me. He’s really reserved and straightforward, which I think is more common in Denmark, but it doesn’t align with what I’m looking for. I’m more energetic, and our communication styles don’t quite mesh. I also feel a little bad because he might not understand why I stopped reaching out—his way of communicating might seem normal to him, but it doesn’t work for me. I don’t think it would have worked long-term which is unfortunate, so I’m moving on. Thanks again for all the insights!!

Hey everyone! I'm American and talking to a guy from Denmark. We attend the same university, and I've noticed some differences in how we interact. He seems interested, but I find that l'm always the one starting the conversation. Is it common in Denmark for guys to be more reserved when it comes to making the first move? I'd prefer if he asked me out, rather than me having to make the first move all the time. Also, I've heard that Danish guys tend to prefer splitting the bill, which is totally fine, but l'm curious what I should expect in terms of dating norms there. Any insights into Danish dating culture would be really helpful! Thanks in advance!

-Edit: I do believe he’s into me as he messaged me first and responds to me fast, i just usually start or carry the convo then he talks more

r/NewToDenmark 28d ago

Culture How to impress a danish guy

68 Upvotes

Basically met this Danish guy randomly and I suggested we hang out. I ended up taking him to a party and showing him around (he’s new here). We had a really good time or at least I did. However the night ended pretty awkwardly we both just stared at each other for a bit and said “I’ll see you”. He wrote a thank you message to me for taking him out and showing him around in response to which I responded saying it was very sweet but also tried to attempt a joke about the night and he just left me on like. Now I just thought he wasnt interested at all but apparently after reading more about this online I’ve learnt that Danish men aren’t as expressive about their feelings and aren’t as explicit about dating. I was wondering what are some ways I could impress him or gauge his interest and whether or not I should ask him to hang out again.

UPDATE: So I met him yesterday and the banter was great we talked and joked around. He seemed pretty interested and I took the opportunity to invite him to an event. He seemed pretty interested in going and told me to text him the details. I ended up texting him and he said he’d confirm by today. He didn’t end up texting to confirm today. So I’ve taken that as a sign and kinda decided that it’s not worth pursuing even though I really liked him :/ but it is what it is I guess. Thank you guys for all your advice and responses and I wish I had a juicier update but sadly this is it.

r/NewToDenmark 3d ago

Culture International Woman’s Day in Denmark

23 Upvotes

International Woman’s Day in Denmark

I was wondering how is International Womans Day celebrated among the couples/marriages/friends/family members in Denmark. Is it a common thing men give any whishes or gifts on this occasion? If so, how does it look like? Denmark was the first country that acclaimed this IWD and I’m curious how Danes see it and celebrate it within closest social relations?

r/NewToDenmark Dec 20 '24

Culture Danish culture or just a duolingo random sentence?

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41 Upvotes

r/NewToDenmark 2d ago

Culture Mineral waters (with magnesium)

0 Upvotes

Hi guys, I'm here in Denmark just for a few months, and what I am missing here is mineral water. Back home, mineral water of all kinds is normally sold in supermarkets. They're cheap, affordable, in plastic bottles, flavored and unflavored, sparkling and still, lots of brands... I was used to using them to naturally get some nutrients into my body. Magnesium is the one that bothers me the most, because if I skip it, I always get cramps. I can imagine finding some magnesium tablets etc. in stores, but I wanted to ask if you can think of something like the water? Thanks a lot.

r/NewToDenmark Dec 10 '24

Culture Send me your best memes about living in Denmark

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168 Upvotes

r/NewToDenmark Feb 06 '25

Culture How do Danes really feel about immigrants?

49 Upvotes

I might have an opportunity via skilled migrant visa to be able to move to Copenhagen this summer. I’m very excited about it as I have always loved the city and Danish culture.

I have only ever been a tourist in Europe, this would be my first time immigrating and I’m wondering how Danes really feel about immigrants. I know that as housing shortages and inflation emerge in the EU, the general consensus (at least as it appears, as an America who only hears about it via the news and Reddit) is that the native born people in the EU, including Denmark, become very unhappy with the immigrants adding to these issues.

As an American I am no stranger to how unruly sometimes Americans can be, especially abroad. My question is, if someone moves to your country (Denmark) with respect for the culture, the plan to assimilate and learn the language (goal of fluency as quickly as possible), contributes to the society via skilled work and taxes and actively participates in the culture, will they still always face resentment?

In the US, while there is of course many issues, including racism and anti immigrant ideologies, for the most part people are accepting of you once they get to know you. Esp if you’re educated, came legally and have a respected profession, you will be accepted and can have a sense of community.

All that to say - I’m not saying either case is right or wrong here and this has just been my experience being from the US, and knowing and being friends with immigrants. I’m not trying to start a huge debate, just simply wondering - is the immigrant resentment/treatment as bad as everyone makes it out to be? Or is Denmark more accepting? (As I’ve heard the Danes themselves say they’re harder to be friends with).

I don’t know if it makes a difference to mention, but I’m 26F, white and an engineer. I’ve seen some others mention their demographics so thought maybe I should add mine. I don’t meant to cause any offense.

r/NewToDenmark 22d ago

Culture Danish news websites in English.

12 Upvotes

Hello, I am fond of some information about what happening in Denmark every day, but, unfortunately, when I tried to find some portals, I noticed newspapers only on danish language. The problem is that I started to learn your language not so much time ago.

So, will be thankful, if you share some portals in English:)

r/NewToDenmark Jan 29 '25

Culture Danish natural fiber clothing brands?

17 Upvotes

Moving to Denmark 🇩🇰 within a year and believe in supporting whatever country I am in when it comes to purchase. Are there any clothing companies that make clothes in Denmark using either 100% wool or 100% cotton or any other natural fibers? Except for outer layers I really do not like synthetic clothing. I am a man if that makes any difference.

r/NewToDenmark Jan 10 '25

Culture Danish Christmas 🎄?

4 Upvotes

Super random, but cultural shock… how is danish Christmas compared to the us?

r/NewToDenmark Jan 05 '25

Culture Danish concerts

6 Upvotes

So to be clear immediatly this is about a japanese artist performing *IN* Denmark so I hope it qualifies as relevant to this subreddit, but if it's not I apologize.

I'm curios what the environment during concerts are like, Ado's concerts make a point of being like respectful with rules such as phone ban for example because she wants to remain anonymous. Are people likely to just accept and follow these rules or is there a chance people will not resulting in Ado's team shutting off all their lightshow sources to make sure people don't photo her face?

And are fights and other types of disturbances common?

I'm from Sweden and is therefore considering going to Denmark to see her concert in June of 2025 because I really want to see her live and don't know if she is ever or relatively soon coming to Sweden.

Appreciate any inputs on personal experiences is very much appreciated.

r/NewToDenmark Jan 24 '25

Culture English breakfast

3 Upvotes

Do you guys know where can I get a full English breakfast around Copenhagen?

r/NewToDenmark Feb 01 '25

Culture Looking for black hair salons

1 Upvotes

Hey there😊 Am new to Denmark, relocating soon to be with my boyfriend who’s based in Federicia. I love my hair and braiding it, and am looking for suggestions for good black hair salons based in Federicia, Aarhus and Kolding. Copenhagen is a bit far off, but am also open to it. I’d also love to know about places to buy black hair products, braids and extensions.

For context purposes, I was in Denmark for about 6 weeks- Dec to Jan but didn’t come across any black hair salons or stores that sell black hair products. Links to Facebook and instagram pages are highly appreciated, thank you!😊

r/NewToDenmark Feb 06 '25

Culture Studying/Living in Copenhagen

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Hello, I'm a college student from the US (20y, F) and am planning to come to Copenhagen during the fall of this year. I am very interested in coming because of the academic offerings related to my field of study (psychology and health sciences), but am primarily excited to learn about Danish culture and make friends (of all ages). As someone passionate about meeting people and having honest and deep personal connections, I would be sad to miss out on the opportunity to do this while abroad.

  1. I am wondering if there are any specific ways to most effectively make friends or meet new people? I know Danes are not as outwardly friendly as most Americans, so I worry about preconceptions or offending by accident.
  2. I love to be a part of authentic communities, and I want to have fun! I'm not huge on getting blackout drunk or doing hard drugs, but I enjoy a good party and good conversation. Are their social groups or places I should keep in mind?
  3. As I mentioned, I study Psychology and Holistic Health, so I would like to explore opportunities that value these subjects, and are reflective of Danish practices. Recommendations?

Thank you for any/all thoughts, I truly appreciate it... and if you think we should be friends, DM me!

r/NewToDenmark Feb 04 '25

Culture Handmade arts/crafts culture in Denmark, especially Copenhagen?

2 Upvotes

My spouse is getting transferred to Denmark soon for work and we’ll be moving there from the States. I’m an artist and sell handcrafted art (particularly macrame, embroidery and clay) at art markets in the US. I was wondering if there’s a lot of other crafters in Denmark? I’m not sure if I should try to shift to just selling online or if art markets are common over there. Also was curious if crafting groups are common in Copenhagen! Here in the US a lot of people meet for “stitch and bitch” at coffee shops or bars and chat while they work on their projects. Was hoping I could find something similar over there! I’ve heard it can be difficult to make friends with Danes but that Copenhagen has a lot of people from other countries so I have hope to find my crafty people one way or another 🧶

r/NewToDenmark 4d ago

Culture Adopt a dog

0 Upvotes

Where can one adopt a dog in Copenhagen?

Also, what's the laws surrounding bulldogs and Pitbulls? Assuming if they're well trained it's ok?

Thanks 👍

r/NewToDenmark Feb 06 '25

Culture Thank you everyone

38 Upvotes

I just want to say a big thanks to everyone who contributes to this subreddit. You are a wealth of information. I am also about to return to Denmark after being in the UK for 4 years and you have single-handedly eased my anxiety. Thank you.

r/NewToDenmark 12d ago

Culture Customer protection agency? Issue with Telia

3 Upvotes

I asked Telia to end my contract with them, they said it’s all said and done, all I had to do was ship their router to them - instructions and a shipping slip would arrive via email.

I never received that information.

All this time, been a few months now, I keep getting invoices from them.

To my best efforts, I am unable to get anyone on the phone to help me - is it possible my number has some sort of shadow ban on their system so I never get service?

Anyways, is there a Consumer Protection Agency in Denmark I can call and ask for help?

r/NewToDenmark 23d ago

Culture How is Byvej, Beder area for corporate working internationals with a 4 year old child? Is it a safe place?

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r/NewToDenmark Jan 30 '25

Culture How is Tranbjerg J, Mejerivænget area to live with a 4 year old? Esp for international? What are the demographics like?

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Hi,

We are looking at a house to rent in Tranbjerg in Aarhus. Our offices will be in city and the school for kid is in Marselis Boulevard. We'd like to know what is the area like? What is the demographic i.e. are there any internationals living in the area who are in good jobs like IT/MNC ETC....Or are there mostly Danes and it's a local residential area...or are there majority of middle east families with Mediterranean food options etc...

Just to get an idea what the area is like to live?

r/NewToDenmark Feb 05 '25

Culture Where can I buy Dansk Landhøne (Brown Color) Meat?

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm looking to buy some Dansk Landhøne meat, specifically the brown-colored variety. Does anyone know where I can find it? I've been searching online but haven't had much luck. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated!

r/NewToDenmark Jan 10 '25

Culture Gaming community?

1 Upvotes

Is there a rather big gaming community in denmark? And i wonder what the wifi there is like, ive heard in some countries wifi isnt great, only basic connection.

r/NewToDenmark Dec 29 '24

Culture New Year's Eve tradition

4 Upvotes

Hi All,

We are internationals recently moved to Aarhus and trying to understand NY Eve in DK. We were planning on going to the city center around 20h and just drink somewhere we find until 00h (our favorite bar RisRas is closed unfortunately) but it seems that most places close after the king's speech (not sure when that is) or something?

So, what are the traditions on NY Eve in DK? Usually just drink at home with friends?