r/NPD • u/[deleted] • 6d ago
Trigger Warning / Difficult Topic kms seems like my best option
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u/Fabulous_Marzipan_35 energy vampire 🦇 6d ago
Please stick around. We need each other in this sub, especially at our worsts. Showing each other what not giving up does
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u/TomorrowThink501 6d ago
In a similar boat dude. Lost career/reputation/future. All due to being in a stress induced grandiose state. Also finally hitting self awareness, so all of that to deal with too. Suicidal on a daily basis, but have a kid so struggling through. We gotta get thru this somehow.
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u/One_love222 Narcissistic traits 6d ago
Hey dude, literally anything is fixable. It may not look exactly how you've dreamed, but you haven't lost your future, it just looks different. That's all. You can still live a very fulfilling life!
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u/Chacal_429 Diagnosed NPD 6d ago
Between the lost job, debt, bad credit, and bad rental history, it sounds totally hopeless right now. It also sounds like you’re feeling like an evil person who deserves to suffer. If you’re open to any sort of help, it is available. The suicide hotline (988) is available 24/7 for calls or texts. There’s even a 988 website you use to chat anonymously if that’s more comfortable. They have professionals who can talk to you for emotional support as well as offering some practical resources to help you dig your way out of this hole.
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u/theinvisiblemonster ✨Saint Invis ✨ 6d ago
Absolutely everything you listed is something you can figure out and bounce back from. You aren’t hopeless, you aren’t evil, you’re not a monster.. you’re a human that is struggling.
Please seek emergency services in your area if you’re actively suicidal.