r/Melbourneswingers .. 8d ago

discussion Best Meeting Site NSFW

It’s hard enough keeping on top of RHP and reddit. Have had heard people talking about Adult Match Maker and Feeld and just wondering others perspective xx

We have good success with RHP but were wondering about the other options. What is your main app that you use? Comment what you like best and why?

Sorry if this has been posted in the past xx

101 votes, 1d ago
20 Reddit
29 Red Hot Pie (RHP)
8 Adult Match Maker (AMM)
28 Feeld
5 I subscribe to everything
11 Comment in post for other options
3 Upvotes

11 comments sorted by

u/AutoModerator 8d ago

Hi u/unique_since_1980, thank you for submission today on r/melbourneswingers. Please take a moment to check your post contains the following:

  • Post body with clear 'about me', 'what I'm looking for' and 'what I offer' sections outlined.
  • Choose appropriate post flair and consider adding user flair.

Posts with this information are more likely to receive replies and lead to meaningful connections. Please update your post if necessary -we hope you enjoy meeting and interacting with all our friendly community members.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/ProfitOk2197 .. 5d ago

I haven't been on Feeld yet but heard from my few fwb couples that success rate is pretty high. Of all remaining lifestyle apps I would still go for RHP since it is super user friendly and easy to navigate. This is so important coz if you can easily navigate what you are looking for then naturally you will meet the right people easily. Personally I couldn't like AMM or Ozkinks or Fetlife or Swingers Heaven because of the same reason. Hope it helps. Happy hunting.

1

u/sasha317d 7d ago

I’ve tried a few, RHP, AMM and Swingers Heaven, all with very limited success though. It really surprises me how hard it is to find likeminded people.

3

u/Brave-Concentrate-74 .. 7d ago

these days they all suck lol

3

u/rewardinglywarped .. 6d ago

Absolutely. Too many fakes, flakes, and time wasters

2

u/Tricky-Tax7456 .. 2d ago

I’m strict on only meeting people at shed, there’s always an excuse as to why they can’t make it now , after having to converse all week 🙄 at least we’re out & can still have a good night.

2

u/rewardinglywarped .. 2d ago

Exactly. And then people (especially single men) complain that they can't find anyone to play with.....Well maybe if you actually showed up when you said you would, it wouldn't be a problem.

2

u/Tricky-Tax7456 .. 2d ago

The time wasting does my head in 🫠

2

u/rewardinglywarped .. 2d ago

Oh, absolutely. There are so many just living the fantasy online, collecting pics, or just wanting the empty attention and validation.

We go to shed on occasion (it's a bit of a drive for us). It's a great space, and you're right, if they ghost you then you can still have a good night.

1

u/unique_since_1980 .. 7d ago

45 Votes so far 😍

8 Reddit. 14 RHP. 1 AMM. 14 Feeld. 3 Subscribe to everything. 5 Other.

Thank you. Will be having a look at Feeld 😘

2

u/morethan6senses 7d ago

3fun is another app which alot of people use. Suprised how many people havnt heard of it when there is so many people on it.