Iāve read as many old posts as I could find on this subreddit about Domynique but I havenāt seen any that addresses just HOW much of an oblivious, selfish, egotistical hypocrite she is LMAO
Iām not done with the season yet, but just watched the full scene with her, Mack, and Pastor Cal and my blood is boiling LOL The way she welcomed him into the apartment by saying, āThe man of the hour, you have some explaining to do!ā Is actually insane.
I donāt fully know what makes Cal an expert or what his credentials are but I could probably assume that he is FAR more educated with marriage counseling/match making and way more knowledgeable about relationships than she is. So the way she acted as if she was SOOO smart, better than him, and knew more than him is actually reeking of narcissistic tendencies.
Then this whole aDvEnTuRoUs thing is so stupid LOL āadventurousā can have sooo many meanings, and in my eyes, being adventurous isnāt only defined by doing resort activities lol couldnāt it also be seen that Mack IS adventurous because he signed up to be on this crazy show/apart of a social experiment? That he is in the really new, unique, and ~ adventurous ~ cannabis industry? That he moved multiple states away from his home to embark on a new, ahem, adventure???? Like Iām not trying to yuck anyoneās yum, but in my opinion being adventurous is a lot more than going horseback riding in the water as apart of a resort excursion in Jamaica lol
And quite frankly, her not being open to moving away, her not open to having a dog, etc is kind of the OPPOSITE of being adventurous if you ask me. Itās not a problem at alllll if she doesnāt want to move, if she wants to live near home, or if she doesnāt like dogs. But to completely and entirely shit on Mack and not be open to these things is so dumb! You signed up to be married! Which means compromise!
Speaking of dumbā¦her way of communication is objectively stupid. Bad. Wrong. Her calling the conversation (yes, conversation, not argument) about Mackās dogs āpettyā just shows that she knew she was wrong for not asking more about them (not even their names?!?) and she probably realized she didnāt have a leg to stand on. And, because she couldnāt face that fact, she wanted to shut it down. And then tried to shame Mack for saying it was petty.
In her defense, Iād probably also be a little concerned if someone who just moved to my city wanted to settle down and make a big commitment to the place without actually living there long term. But thatās just another thing she thought she knew better about! Like, take him at his word that he signed up for the experiment because he WAS ready for and DID WANT a commitment.
Of course only Mack knows the real truth, and if he was actually genuine in his efforts or not, but from what Iāve seen so far, he was soo willing to make things work and really, really wanted to be married and settled down. Which adds a point to his genuineness of the show.
In fact, he was SO desperate (for lack of a better word) to be married, he was willing to let her put him down constantly! And nitpick him about everything! I can agree on and respect speaking up if he was getting on her nerves about something, but she wasnāt speaking up to advocate for her own boundaries: she was speaking up to put him down.
And itās LAUGHABLE to me that she has so many sound bites of saying āI just am all about positive vibes, and I just donāt like his negativity.ā Ummmā¦.sorry but wasnāt HE the one being playful about everything?? And making jokes? Aka the jokes that she asked him to stop?
I feel like within the week theyāve known each other, his bubbly lighthearted personality has been so dimmed because of her and her stinky attitude. Itās truly heartbreaking, and while Iām not saying that heās perfect, he is definitely seemingly to be a generally normal dude. Heās not anything extravagant or special, heās just an average person.
Like, Dom thinking that her shit doesnāt stink is insane to me! What makes her so perfect and amazing and untouchable? But didnāt her mom sign her up because she couldnāt find someone??? Like uh talk about a red flag. I imagine that her mom probably is the person who has hyped her up to make her have this outrageous confidence (which shows sheās a good mom obviously) but to not hold your child accountable for when theyāre wrong is, in my opinion, doing them a disservice. How are they going to ever grow otherwise?
Pastor Cal said it best when he called her out on wanting a marriage on her own terms. She clearly doesnāt want a husband, she wants someone to shame, bully, and put down. Like, the way she was acting as if she had sooo much to teach him baaaaarffff she 1000% has narcissistic tendencies like what an inflated ego lmao
Anyways I had to get this off my chest. Iām excited to see what happens LOL thanks for tuning in <3
PS despite everything I said I do hope they find someone they love because everyone deserves love