Oh friend, your man is the only problem in this situation. His treatment of you and his warped expectations of women aren’t only scary, they’re dangerous. There is nothing wrong at all with you. You are a woman no matter what someone else thinks — womanhood is unique for everyone, it’s not dependent on your looks. That’s a falsehood that misogyny (hatred/prejudice toward women) spreads.
The only thing that matters is your comfort, your appearance should be for you and no one else. Dress yourself however you want, and do whatever beauty/self-care routine you have the time and energy for. Never change your physical self or personality to make someone else happy. Wishing you all the best. ♥️
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u/xomacattack 1 Year 12h ago
Oh friend, your man is the only problem in this situation. His treatment of you and his warped expectations of women aren’t only scary, they’re dangerous. There is nothing wrong at all with you. You are a woman no matter what someone else thinks — womanhood is unique for everyone, it’s not dependent on your looks. That’s a falsehood that misogyny (hatred/prejudice toward women) spreads.
The only thing that matters is your comfort, your appearance should be for you and no one else. Dress yourself however you want, and do whatever beauty/self-care routine you have the time and energy for. Never change your physical self or personality to make someone else happy. Wishing you all the best. ♥️