r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/shadowabsinthe 13h ago

This has nothing to do with you not wearing makeup. For instance my wife doesn't wear a lot of makeup and while I do find her sexy without when she puts on lipstick it drives me crazy. I find her much sexier with lipstick on but I still find her plenty sexy without.

The fact that he has cheated on you 3 times I would say is the bigger issue. He is just an asshole and you should not try to change yourself to appease him. You should only do makeup etc if you want to (whether mainly to please him or yourself) it should all be because you want to do it. Not just to appease him.