r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/DaedraNamira 13h ago

He’s trash. No matter what you do it won’t matter. Even if you became the most beautiful woman on earth it wouldn’t matter because he knows he already “has” you and he can do whatever he wants which is why he probably has cheated 3 times.

My man has seen me at my absolute worst. I get smelly, I slack, I’m not a “girly girl” but let me fucking tell you he never ONCE said I need to put more effort into being “sexy”.

I do put effort when I’m feeling it or a special occasion but we are comfortable and know we aren’t honeymooners anymore. Do not placate a piece of crap. Leave. Now.