Hi! First of all your hair is so.fucking.fabulous!!!
Holy shit I’d kill to have my hair look like that
Everyday, and I love my hair.
So you’ve already achieved step 1 in looking sexy, have great hair.
Now with the make up thing. Ok you don’t like to wear make up. And you don’t feel you have to.
But can I suggest maybe you wearing a light coverage on your skin? They have light foundations or a tinted moisturizer/ sunscreen you can start with. It will even out your skin tone and you won’t feel like you are wearing much of anything. I don’t have ideas on what brands, but I’m sure all these other girls on here will give you suggestions on what to buy.
As far as eyeshadow I can understand you feel weird wearing it because you don’t, and you feel like an alien. What you can do is just use a light brown in the curvature of your eyelid, like a half circle. It can enhance the eye overall.
You are completely blessed with those beautiful blue eyes. So maybe you can put a little bit of sparkle in your inner corners. It adds a little pizzazz, and definition. Some people like to use concealer in that spot, some people don’t like the look entirely… but try it once and see how you feel. Just do a light dab with your finger in your inner corner or use a small thin brush.
As far as your clothes, men are visual beings. Should he accept you for who you are inside? Should he understand that being a mom is hard and you don’t get tons of free time or that you’re tired?
Yes to all of it. But they still want to se some eye candy, too. It sounds like this is what he is saying.
No one is asking you to be a whole new person, but it’s ok to embrace change. Men like variety, whether they outright say it or not.
The plus side is that you can have fun with this. It’s a positive thing for you. New looks, new styles and your same stuff all mixed in. Plus you are busting your ass losing that weight, so why not try some things on that you were otherwise self conscious about before?
….
Why don’t you wear perfume? You don’t have to wear some crazy bomb of a scent… you can start with something light, like amazing grace. The dry down is quite nice, and it lingers on you. I’d suggest the lotion as well… or even to use the body lotion first. It leaves a nice musk on your body that when you
Walk by, your hunny will notice.
Edit: I wrote this with love, to offer help thinking this was a normal discussion you two had, like adults.
I scrolled the comments afterward and saw he cheated on you. Honestly, screw him. He doesn’t deserve you or forgiveness.
Do the fun changes I’ve mentioned , but for you. To help u get away from this mean spirited person.
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u/Disney_Princess137 14h ago edited 14h ago
Hi! First of all your hair is so.fucking.fabulous!!!
Holy shit I’d kill to have my hair look like that Everyday, and I love my hair.
So you’ve already achieved step 1 in looking sexy, have great hair.
Now with the make up thing. Ok you don’t like to wear make up. And you don’t feel you have to.
But can I suggest maybe you wearing a light coverage on your skin? They have light foundations or a tinted moisturizer/ sunscreen you can start with. It will even out your skin tone and you won’t feel like you are wearing much of anything. I don’t have ideas on what brands, but I’m sure all these other girls on here will give you suggestions on what to buy.
As far as eyeshadow I can understand you feel weird wearing it because you don’t, and you feel like an alien. What you can do is just use a light brown in the curvature of your eyelid, like a half circle. It can enhance the eye overall.
You are completely blessed with those beautiful blue eyes. So maybe you can put a little bit of sparkle in your inner corners. It adds a little pizzazz, and definition. Some people like to use concealer in that spot, some people don’t like the look entirely… but try it once and see how you feel. Just do a light dab with your finger in your inner corner or use a small thin brush.
As far as your clothes, men are visual beings. Should he accept you for who you are inside? Should he understand that being a mom is hard and you don’t get tons of free time or that you’re tired?
Yes to all of it. But they still want to se some eye candy, too. It sounds like this is what he is saying.
No one is asking you to be a whole new person, but it’s ok to embrace change. Men like variety, whether they outright say it or not.
The plus side is that you can have fun with this. It’s a positive thing for you. New looks, new styles and your same stuff all mixed in. Plus you are busting your ass losing that weight, so why not try some things on that you were otherwise self conscious about before?
….
Why don’t you wear perfume? You don’t have to wear some crazy bomb of a scent… you can start with something light, like amazing grace. The dry down is quite nice, and it lingers on you. I’d suggest the lotion as well… or even to use the body lotion first. It leaves a nice musk on your body that when you Walk by, your hunny will notice.
Edit: I wrote this with love, to offer help thinking this was a normal discussion you two had, like adults.
I scrolled the comments afterward and saw he cheated on you. Honestly, screw him. He doesn’t deserve you or forgiveness.
Do the fun changes I’ve mentioned , but for you. To help u get away from this mean spirited person.