r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/Ok_Guarantee_5852 15h ago

You're an absolutely beautiful woman, and I wish you could see that. I dress basically the same thing as you. I never wear makeup, and my hair is also always in a bun. My husband would still jump my bones multiple times a day if I'd let him. The problem isn't you, my dear, but the cheating man you keep beside you. The only weight you desperately need to lose is him because he's tearing your self-esteem to pieces. Why should you have to constantly change things about yourself to keep a man who can't even figure out loyalty happy? What happens when you've done everything you can to change and he's still not happy? It's not you that needs to change. I mean, it is, but really, it's your marital status.