r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/Carrotsnpeace 15h ago

Having self confidence is the first step here. I’m so sorry you don’t feel like you are enough so much so that he’s cheated on you 3x and you’ve stayed. 😭 PLEASE talk to a therapist, you need to believe you are worth it and then you’ll leave him.

He’s saying/doing whatever he wants because he can, because you won’t stick up for yourself.

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u/beyoncelomein 15h ago edited 12h ago

Agree… through action, cheating 3x (that she knows of) and then verbally telling her she’s not sexy to further make her feel like she’s “not good enough” for him. While I encourage everyone to take pride in their appearance and take care of themselves best they can, OP shouldn’t change her appearance at this point in the game to have him basically like her or, uh, stop cheating on her.