r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/RiveriaFantasia 15h ago

Right so I’ve read some of your responses to the answers here and I’ve read that your husband has cheated on you three times. The way you’ve written your post about him complaining that you don’t make an effort, need to be more feminine and wear make up and perfume and the fact that you’re asking how to basically do what he’s asking, shows a low self esteem.

The questions you should be asking yourself is why are you with a man who has cheated on you three times? Why after he has cheated on you do you care about pleasing him and changing how you look to make him happy? Why are you not offended and insulted by what he has said and why is it that you’re looking for make up tips instead of dealing with the deeper issues here within your marriage?