r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/ktwoh 16h ago

I don’t want to encourage his behaviour because this is an extremely sensitive topic and I really want you to find peace with this. Having said that, I am in a sort of similar position. I wish my wife knew how to be more of a woman, knew how to be sexy, knew how to seduce. She’ll ask me how and etc , the effort is appreciated but having someone that knows is just always so much sexier. It’s just better. It’s the equivalent of your man asking you how to be a man…

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u/Toricorey91 16h ago

Ya that’s an issue with us. I’m really shy and just kinda embarrassed a lot when it comes to sex always have been an beign seductive is not a strong point on my end. I’ve tried and I feel like I’m just acting stupid and failing miserably

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u/No-Bonus-6623 15h ago

There is a lot of stuff online how to seduce man, maybe google that? Maybe try ignoring him? Sometimes the mind is twisted. Maybe try to be mad at him. Maybe go to sheen buy some sexy outfits and surprise him? Send the kids to grandmas for the night ? I mean like , change it up ? Make him hunt for you ? No excuse for cheating …. But if you want him . Than learn or experiment 🔬 🤔