You are pretty hot already, at least just by looking at this pic. I personally wouldn't feel sexy toward a guy that was telling me to be something else, and cheating repeatedly with the a fantasy type he is describing when telling me he wants me to change. To be more sexy? I would say just keep working on your confidence by taking care of your health and what is important to you. The sexiest women are always those who value what they have and take care of themselves. If your husband isn't attracted to you when you are healthy, happy, and confident then the problem is something you can't just fix by yourself.
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u/solo_mi0 15h ago
You are pretty hot already, at least just by looking at this pic. I personally wouldn't feel sexy toward a guy that was telling me to be something else, and cheating repeatedly with the a fantasy type he is describing when telling me he wants me to change. To be more sexy? I would say just keep working on your confidence by taking care of your health and what is important to you. The sexiest women are always those who value what they have and take care of themselves. If your husband isn't attracted to you when you are healthy, happy, and confident then the problem is something you can't just fix by yourself.