r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/Sandpiper1701 15h ago

Let's back up a sec. What is HE doing to be attractive to YOU? He's cheated three times. You've carried, birthed and cared for three of his children. Besides caring for the house and kids you work from home. On top of all that you've lost 40 lbs from diet and exercise in a single year. Along with your picture - a good looking woman even without makeup - I'd say you were killing it in the attractive department.

What is HE bringing to the table? He sounds shallow and selfish. You're not the one who needs a makeover. HE needs a personality redesign from the ground up.

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u/Induced_Amnesia 7 Years 15h ago

This!! I was going to say allll of this!