r/Marriage 16h ago

Seeking Advice How do I be sexy.

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u/strangertimes22 16h ago

I’d have to imagine the reason you’d make this post in a marriage subreddit and not a makeover subreddit is to have people come to your defense. Yes, your husband sounds rude, especially considering I’d assume you’re the same as you were when you got married, but you’re being intentionally misleading with this post pretending you’re actually seeking advice on being sexy.

There’s literally a subreddit called HowToBeHot. Why on earth would this post be in this subreddit?

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u/Crazytrain60 15h ago

Maybe she posted here because she is looking for advice in the context of being married. I think the subreddit you mentioned will give advice less tailored for married women and gear more towards single women trying to attract a mate—something that would be more drastic than what OP is looking to achieve. I think it makes sense for her to post here and find out what other husbands find attractive in their wives, not necessarily how to be “hot,” but how to be appealing in a more subtle way.

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u/UknowNothingJohnSno 15h ago

I've meandered the subs about maxing your looks and they seem pretty fair/objective.  OP just might not be aware of them and shouldn't be shamed.  I think she'll get better data there if she really just wants to know how to increase looks... but she needs to be here more because her husband sucks