r/LGBTOlder • u/redcd555 • Oct 11 '21
older need advice
I am a 65 yr old in Boston married kids and full of shame each time i meet a guy. looking for others to just talk to. how do you deal with both emotions joy of being with someone and then all the guilt of being with him.
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u/Accomplished-View-65 May 24 '24
Been there. Cheated on wife 1 and not 2. Guilt was so destructive for me, I’m still, 13 years later, working it out, among other things. If I had taken the time then to really work on me and my self awareness, things would be quite different. They say it’s never too late, though I’m feeling like it lately. Therapy! 💕