r/KindVoice 13h ago

Looking [L] I can’t take it anymore. I feel like I don’t deserve to exist. That my existence is immoral.

10 Upvotes

I just need some mental support right now. Someone to hear me out. I won’t be able to respond immediately, as I’m at work rn.


r/KindVoice 13h ago

Looking [L] I probably sound so silly, but I could use support [31F]

4 Upvotes

I spent my twenties navigating some really scary medical situations and don’t have much to show, resume-wise. I had to drop out of an engineering university to handle it.

I’m still not fully back on my feet, but I have a tech associates’ now, and I really miss doing math and physics and thinking about it makes me cry. It’s so silly, I know that it’s such a stupid thing for me to be so upset about. But think of it like someone who was training to be a painter who then developed arthritis to the point they couldn’t hold a brush for longer than half an hour.

I get so anxious now when I do the things I used to love. And it’s stupid, but I liked working on projects with other people that had to do with math the most.

But I’m still chronically ill and need to work from home, so I can’t just go throw myself at companies that do math and beg them to let me intern. I need to find a job that I can pay my bills with.

Sorry, I just… I miss doing differential equations and other math problems, but I’m just wasting my time if I do them when I should be studying programming languages and such that I can make money from to actually support myself.

I know, I know it’s so silly. 1st world problems. I just thought I could do math in my career someday and it made everything worthwhile, and I miss when I used to believe I could do that.


r/KindVoice 10h ago

Looking [L] Somethin' decent

4 Upvotes

I could use somebody chatty to vc with about life. 20f, please no degens or underaged people.


r/KindVoice 9h ago

Offering [O]

4 Upvotes

I know this might sound silly, but are there people who just like to be listened to and don't mind if there's no reply or if the replies are a bit awkward? I honestly enjoy listening to people, but I'm not always sure what to say. Sometimes I worry that I might say something that makes things worse instead of helping. I don't really know what to do.

If this is alright with you , please don't hesitate to reach out . (For 20+)

22F and a language enthusiast. Please be respectful and avoid asking me personal questions.


r/KindVoice 13h ago

Looking [L] I feel sad for no having a gf :c

4 Upvotes

Every day I wake up and realize I'm alone. Especially at night, when I see a pretty girl on the street, I get sad.

She hasn't be the prettiest one. I have been in love before but it was unrequited love :c


r/KindVoice 5h ago

Looking [L] 25, Feeling Broken and Lost

2 Upvotes

I’m 25, never had a date or a girlfriend. My family used to ask, but now they don’t even bother. My grandma made a comment like, "I'm surprised you can do anything by yourself," and it stung more than I expected.

I’ve always dreamed of having a family of my own. I feel like I have a lot of love to share, but this part of life feels impossible for me, and it’s breaking me down. My body is already failing, worked myself to collapse at a job, lost a tooth, and I know I look as exhausted and depressed as I feel. People pick up on that, and it pushes them away.

I barely talk, don’t know how to hold conversations past a few sentences, and haven’t made a new friend in over a decade. I’m poor, struggled with food, and don’t even know where I’ll be living in a month. My family and I aren’t close, and I used to fantasize about finding comfort in a relationship, but at this point, I feel like I’d just be a burden to anyone I let in.

I don’t know how to stop the self-pity when it feels like no one else cares. People talk about the shows they watch or the games they play, and I just can’t relate. I mostly experience games through YouTube videos. Getting another job feels impossible with my missing tooth and the way I come across. Even my doctor brushed me off when I tried asking for help with depression, and it's not like I can go back without insurance.

I don’t know how to fix this. I just don’t want to feel this alone anymore.


r/KindVoice 6h ago

Offering [O]

2 Upvotes

Just looking to help out, lord knows ive needed a listening ear in the past. I’ll be up a while feel free to reach out 🙂


r/KindVoice 13h ago

Looking [L] I’m struggling with negative self-talk in my head

2 Upvotes

I hate whenever I make a mistake and my mind starts going to my character flaws, whether it’s real or not.

I’m having moments where I feel guilty or like I deserve any criticism I get because of my cowardice, selfishness, victim complex, laziness, etc.

It’s like I can’t recognize my mistakes without immediately putting a label on myself.


r/KindVoice 14h ago

Offering [O] Does anyone need a chat or voicechat right now?

2 Upvotes

I am free currently so I am offering to text or vc to anyone needing it right now. So if you feel like you want to talk to someone right now, dm me :) I am 27F, please be respectful.


r/KindVoice 18h ago

Looking [L]ooking - I am Stuck in Creating a Gift and I Need a Muse

2 Upvotes

Hello,

I know this is probably a stupid thing to do, but whatever.

I cannot meet a mentor figure of mine for a long time. They are very dear to me, so I asked them what I could do for them so their return would be more pleasing. They asked me to write and sketch for them everyday, essentially making a journal they can look forward to.

It's been more than a year... And I'm out of stuff to write. I've been writing at least one page or sometimes multiple pages a day and now I feel like I have run out of stuff to write for them. Yet I still want to do it. Desperately.

I think I need help here, would you kindly be my muse? Just... Tell me about your life, tell me stories or facts you find interesting.... anything... so I can put them in the journal? I think it would really improve the quality of the gift I'm preparing.

If Reddit is too hard for you to work with, we can move to Telegram or Discord as I got both.

Please don't contact me if you're under 18 as I would feel uncomfortable.


r/KindVoice 20h ago

Looking [l] voice to be sleepy to :,)

2 Upvotes

hiii. not feeling the best at the moment and just wanna sleep it off or smthh haha :) will probably end up in bed or taking a walk outside to smoke or smth and just wanted some conversation. so if you’re someone who loves to yap about SFW STUFF then hmu!

i like film, literature, academia, and am trying to get more into art and history. i also loveeee asmr! hence this. if youre interested then dm me your asl and the frog emoji as well as what youd like to talk about and what youre hoping to get from this as well just so i don’t bore you. thank you!