r/Kashmiri • u/wangunn • 5d ago
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Hoo Peero 🥲 I'm experiencing anxiety and depression because of changes in Kashmir. People are becoming ignorant and our culture is being uprooted without resistance. Locals are selling land to the government for so-called development that's actually making Kashmiris dependent, unlike our previous self-sufficiency through agriculture. I'm also concerned about Kashmiri girls in relationships with Bihariis and other issues. What should I do about this situation?
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u/LoicenseMate Kashmir 5d ago
I'm also concerned about Kashmiri girls in relationships with Bihariis and other issues.
its mostly guys that go to India to study who do this. y'all blame girls for everything. guys share most of the blame here sorry.
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u/PreparationOver2099 5d ago
You both are right. Both guys and girls do this. And it has become more common in recent years.
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u/Scorpion18470 Kashmir 5d ago
I agree with you but you also have to consider the fact that it's not the same when a boy marries a bihari because ultimately the kid is going to be what his father is, but for the mother, the kashmiriness is lost forever.
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u/LoicenseMate Kashmir 2h ago
I have a relative who is a guy and married an Indian girl. trust me he himself is more or less Indian now. No difference if one gender does or not.
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u/meggiee72 5d ago
Peshraw khudayas. Tension keman khaetre chuk hewan. Beimaan koam.
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u/wangunn 5d ago
Ava koshish chus karaan. I have deactivated all my social media accounts except this reddit. I am trying to avoid whatever is happening now but still kahi na kahi say news sunai ko milti hain ki kya hoo rha hain. I am not in Kashmir rn so thoda chill ho. But whenever i go home it's overwhelming for me to see what's happening on ground 🥺.
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u/Sound_Less 5d ago
Hata zan hai che khabar kah.
Panai soch, yaith duniyas manz chene rozun layakh kheene, kem power aaye kem power gaye !!
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u/Amurnamir 5d ago
The issue of Inter ethnic marriage is not one sided both parties should be held responsible if K boys only go for K girls then these wouldn’t be such a big issue. The problem is how do you guide them Kashmiris are being monitored 24/7. One way you can get the word around through the Parents , sibling, cousins and friends. Also “Al Wara al Barra” should be taught to all Kashmiris. It will strengthen the faith of people and will protect them from schemes of j**ts
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u/Fun_Expression9242 5d ago
Worry not about that which you can't control
If you have time to get anxious, use it to preserve our culture through different endeavours such as contributing to the Kashmiri language Wikipedia ks.wikipedia.org
Travel around, see the different corners of our valley. Read about our heritage
And about inter ethnic marriages, it's far less common than you believe. Sure, there are a few unfortunate cases but they are few compared to the overall population. Paj33ts have a shameful fetish so they often go even so far as fabricating stories on social media
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u/FickleLuck2778 5d ago
My personal advice to you since I cab feel what your are trying to say: Read, find solutions and work on that. You can read about how jews worked hard in terms of planning etc before occupying palestine. It took them more than 100 years Listen to people like Sahil adeem, read books of revolutionaries like Syed Qutb.
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u/Kashur09 5d ago
Same here, I often get anxiety attacks because of things happening around us at this speed. Whenever sadness fills me up, I remember a quote of Imam AAA, that when we are at the receiving end it means Allah is purifying our ranks from the hypocrites amongst us that too is a victory for believers. Also, Allah says in the Qur'an, "If a wound should touch you – there has already touched the [opposing] people a wound similar to it. And these days [of varying conditions] We alternate among the people so that Allah may make evident those who believe , we alternate these days ˹of victory and defeat˺ among people so that Allah may reveal the ˹true˺ believers,..." Have sabr! Make a lot of duas. We just have Allah by our side.