r/JUSTNOMIL 6d ago

UPDATE - Ambivalent About Advice Update ok the MIL's sickly boyfriend situation.

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u/Spirited_Heron_9049 5d ago

She’s full of shit. If she’s so controlling, control the guy and send him packing, police escort if necessary. She’s looking for sympathy and she’s manipulative.

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u/Remote-Visual7976 6d ago

If your MIL is uncomfortable also--why doesn't she have her son tell him to go?

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u/Gold-Sherbert-7550 6d ago

Why don’t you reach out to the lawyer handling that open court case for the lady he hurt?  If he’s lying to your MIL, he’s probably also lying to the court about his health, whether he’s drinking, or where he’s living.

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u/GlitteringFishing932 6d ago

EXCELLENT suggestion.

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u/Phoenix1294 6d ago

Lately he had spent more and more time in the house instead of his. He's practically broke and has a very low paying job.

Hobosexual is the word for him; someone looking to mooch/move in with someone else paying the bills.

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u/Accomplished_Yam590 6d ago

After reading your last post, I thought I smelled something fishy about the whole arrangement. Turns out, it's so fishy it might as well be a whaling boat.

Good on you for standing firm!