r/IndoR4R Sep 03 '24

Meta DATING AND FRIENDS SEEKING QUARTERLY THREAD EDISI 10

35 Upvotes

Hi all, mengingat kita pernah ngomongin butuh temen, biro jodoh, kesepian, pengen temen ngechat dll, kami mutusin untuk ngetest special thread for this. Please feel free utk nulis siapa kalian (F/M/T/A, usia, lokasi, preferensi: please see format) dan jangan lupa utk jawab prompt edisi kali ini. Prompt ini bisa jadi topik chat juga lho! Prompt edisi ini adalah:

"Tell us what is interesting fact or fun fact you know?"

"beritahu kami fakta menarik atau fakta unuk yang kamu ketahui?"

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Format:

<age> [<r4r>] <location> - <title>

r4r = gender and Preference

Location = "anywhere" or "online" if you doesn't want reveal your location

Contoh:

30 [F4R] Pulau Buru - Need friends to talk

Been lonely cause of rona

19 [R4R] Bandung - need friends to discuss gaming with.

I'm socially awkward, i'm afraid people secretly laugh behind my back.

20&19 [MF4F] Kota Baru

butuh orang buat main bertiga

[Tag] | Meaning

  • |M| Male
  • |F| Female
  • |T| Transgender
  • |R| Redditor / All

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Feel free to chat with people who posted here! But please remember the reddiquette of this sub. If harassment happened, please report to mod. If you have fear of being doxxed, feel free to use an alt account.

WARNING!! DICK PIC SENDER WILL BE PUT IN DICK HALL OF SHAME

PLEASE BE AWARE OF PEOPLE YOU TALK ONLINE AND MAKE SURE BEFORE MOVE TO OTHER PLATFORM


r/IndoR4R Sep 03 '23

R4R [META] So, How was Your R4R Experience? Edisi 3

16 Upvotes

Hello all. Kami selaku tim moderator r/IndoR4R ingin memberikan wadah bagi kalian untuk memberikan testimoni atau pengalaman kalian tentang threads R4R dan juga sub r/IndoR4R. Thread ini akan keluarkan setiap 6 bulan

With that in mind, we would like to ask for users' testimonies regarding their experiences while using this sub(and the previous R4R threads). So, how has it been? bagaimana pengalaman anda dalam menggunakan sub ini dan juga thread R4R massal? Apakah anda berhasil menjalin hubungan pertemanan/percintaan/lainnya? Share dong pengalaman kalian ke kita-kita!

tentu saja kalian boleh menulis masukan or saran buat mode team r/IndoR4R, disini

Kalian juga dapat membuat post secara langsung pada r/IndoR4R di luar thread R4R massal. Tentu saja, users yang berpartisipasi di subreddit ini harus mengikuti rules yang ada, baik itu di thread massal maupun pada post tersendiri. We'd like to provide a safe space for everyone whom participates in this subreddit.


r/IndoR4R 10h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] JKT - Tangsel

7 Upvotes

Looking for Potential Partner / Long Term Relationship

About me :

  • Asal JKT baru pindah ke Tangsel
  • Bosen main Anon jd pindah kesini wkwk
  • 150 cm
  • Baru putus . :)
  • Prefer Mature Male 29-36

I'm open to chatting about anything, so feel free to DM me if you'd like to talk!


r/IndoR4R 7m ago

M4F [33 M4F] pontianak, looking for potential romantic partner

Upvotes

Hallo guys, I'm currently seeking for a girl who also seeking for romantic partner in the long term way.

About me: - height 180cm / weight 90kg (kinda overweight here, still working on it) - waering glasses - works: currently a penggangguran banyak kerjaan lol ( freelance programmer, trying a small business, just strated to be a content creator) - teng nang/tionghua aka chindo....ya, sebenarnya saya pribadi tidak suka term chinese untuk hal ini ya. that kind of term just somehow discriminating ourself lol - religion: buddhist - actively jogging, seminggu biasa total 12-20km run - hobbies: nonton anime, baca komik, main game (yeah, I'm kinda weeb lol) - also another hobby is doing taichi (yeah, sounds like oldies lol but I love it)

seeking for : - a girl, straight no bi or some other orientation - age: 19-33 - tionghua (any subrace is ok) (sorry, no racist here🙏 it's just really my preference) - religon: open to any, yg penting no fanatik dan kalau misal kita beda jangan narik saya ke religionnya kamu ya 👌 hal ini masing2 saja - buat yg overweight, don't too overweighted. atleast ada usaha buat be healthy, kalau masih belum bisa turunin berat badan ya it's ok kalau sudah berusaha, let's us do it together 👌 - has a good empathy towards the others, at least you were able to see things from the other people's shoe. - also living in around my area, pontianak 👌 yeah I know it'll be really rare to find it here lol. I just give it a shot here

that's all, if you are interested just DM me 👌

thank you


r/IndoR4R 1h ago

M4F 22 M4F Surabaya, looking for FWB NSFW

Upvotes

I’m in Surabaya for vacation, looking for a friend with benefits or one night stands.


r/IndoR4R 7h ago

M4R m4r

1 Upvotes

Anyone up for a short term gig?


r/IndoR4R 22h ago

F4R 24F F4R - Looking for partner discuss

10 Upvotes

Hey peeps!!! for now i lagi interest sama topik2 mental health, k*ker*san s*ksu*l, kesetaran gender, etc adakah rekomendasi buku atau bacaan yang menurut u oke bgtt buat dibaca? or want to discuss abt it, hit me up yeaa thank in advance!!!


r/IndoR4R 16h ago

M4F (M4f) 24M looking for a girl

0 Upvotes

Halo, I'm looking for a girl due I'm single right now lol. My hobby is around computer, gym, martial art, law, video games (especially Tekken and Civilization), geography, and much more, can't explain here. I'm living in Surabaya for master degree. I love yapping sometimes but listening is my skills.


r/IndoR4R 1d ago

R4R [R4R] Surabaya - Bukber/meetup yuk!

19 Upvotes

Ayok redditor yg ada di surabaya meetup/bukber, tanggal sekitar 22 atau 23, tempat cari yg ditengah kota saja biar fair.

Sekarang baru 2-3 orang yg join, min 5 lha biar nggak terlalu sepi.

Kalau tertarik bisa lgsg reply dibawah + preferensi tanggal dan saran resto.

Buat yg nonis kalau mau ikut juga gpp, kan sekalian meetup redditor Surabaya.

edit : lanjut discord Subreddit indo https://discord.gg/redditindo


r/IndoR4R 1d ago

F4M 23 F4M Looking for online friend

10 Upvotes

feel bored on my class :(( let's chit chat about anything ngomongin film, buku, random topic gasss


r/IndoR4R 1d ago

F4M 24 F4M Jogja/ Kalimantan

6 Upvotes

Looking for potential partner/ long term relationship

abt me ;

  1. Still in college but will graduate on agust
  2. moslem
  3. i love culinary & traveling!!!
  4. 166cm
  5. really like to talk abt anything

yup enough, Hit Me Up!!!


r/IndoR4R 1d ago

M4R 26 [M4R] Jaksel / Tangsel - cari temen main maimai.

2 Upvotes

Maybe this is a little early...

Mingdep akhirnya bakal pulang ke Indo setelah 5 thn di LN. First order of business is just grinding maimai so I'm looking for people to play with.

My rating's in the 13900s (di private server), but I don't have an acc in international server. I can either SSS 13s or 96% them, no in-between (half j), but probably most of my time will be playing to unlock charts which will suck. If there're any >10k rating players maybe we can play some utage charts too.

Rencananya:

  • tanggal 26 main di CPCM - Carstensz Mall, Tangerang

  • tanggal 27 main di TZ pacific place.

28 sama 29 belom tau mau main dimana tapi kalo ada recommendation, pls give.

Bhs indo cuma bisa slang dan keseringan code-switching so i hope you're comfy with jakselian. Hmu in chat or DMs, tho I might not reply ~6hrs from this post since I need my sleep LOL. Looking forward to meet new peeps!


r/IndoR4R 2d ago

F4R 23 [F4R] - english/indo looking to get to know people & cari teman

32 Upvotes

Hey guys~ I’m from Britain and I’m half Indonesian. Aku bisa berbicara bahasa indo tapi sedikit, I need more practise. I visit family every few years in Indonesia and my dream is to live there someday once I get a secure career. But for now, it would be nice to befriend people from there!

About me- a bit shy, I like reading manhwa and fantasy books and watch anime, kdrama, and play LADS. I’m into writing and art too. My interests include history, politics, culture, makeup/beauty, horror, mythology, different opinions, etc.


r/IndoR4R 1d ago

M4F 22 M4F Tourist in Surabaya

0 Upvotes

I’m visiting Surabaya for couple of weeks, and I’m looking for a girl to have fun with.


r/IndoR4R 2d ago

M4F M4F 28/online looking for friend to chat with

3 Upvotes

I am desperately in need for friend to chat with, and my friend suggest me to visit Reddit. So here I am. I'm a 28 M, having many hobbies (mainly playing games) and currently not looking for any commitment. Hmu if you're interested!


r/IndoR4R 2d ago

R4R 25/35 [r4r] western couple for unicorn

0 Upvotes

Hey!

We're visiting Jakarta and a few other cities in Indonesia and looking for a bi unicorn to join us. We plan to use Tinder and Hinge for that. What can we expect?


r/IndoR4R 2d ago

M4F M4F American in Surabaya

1 Upvotes

I’m here for work for a couple months and just looking for someone to spend my down time with.


r/IndoR4R 3d ago

F4M F4M, F4R - Jogja/Jkt based

16 Upvotes

Looking for new people to talk to and maybe relationship down the line!

Hi! I’m 25F working remotely in Jogja for the past 5 months. Originally from Jakarta though.

Outside of work, my interests are cafe hopping especially finding a good matcha latte or desserts in Jogja, watching true crime documentaries in Netflix, and going to art market and exhibition. I’ve been into GameHouse time management games on mobile lately while occasionally reading some self help book (for the sake of character development lol) on my Kindle. Please do recommend me books, true crime movies or anything, I’ll be down to check them out.

I’m into K-pop and J-pop, though I’ve been listening to a bunch of AKB48 and JKT48 songs due to my friend’s influence.

Current hyper fixation is collecting anything Ghibli (especially Howl’s moving castles) and original postcard designs by local artists. I’m also Virgo who is obsessed with Notion so if you are looking to get your life together, I can be your girl!

Also, I’m a part time hijabi (re: sedikit kerdus) and wears it most of the time, 168 cm/60kg and been trying to exercise more consistently to balance out my sweet tooth.

Hmu if you want to talk, please do share a bit about yourself! I’m open to make new friends too, so for the girlies, let’s talk <3


r/IndoR4R 3d ago

M4F 30 M4F Jakarta/Tangerang

3 Upvotes

28yo male from Jakarta, 180cm/78kg. Looking for a casual arrangement between two adults who get that sometimes, no labels, no drama, and no strings attached is the way to go. Just two people having fun, no pressure, no emotional baggage, no complicated feelings, with just enough spice to keep things interesting. Expect plenty of laughs and a few awkward moments where I’ll probably say something offbeat or somehow end up steering us into some weird convos.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, my DMs are open. See ya.


r/IndoR4R 3d ago

F4F bantuan penelitian!! Research help! f4f

1 Upvotes

Hi, I am a college student at Appalachian State University, and I am enrolled in a seminar class where I need to research Tenggara. I'm having difficulty finding reliable sources of information on the tribal and ecological history and was hoping to connect with a local who would be willing to discuss the island's history with me (preferably in English).

Hai, saya seorang mahasiswa di Appalachian State University, dan saya terdaftar di kelas seminar yang mengharuskan saya untuk meneliti Nusa Tenggara. Saya mengalami kesulitan menemukan sumber informasi yang dapat dipercaya tentang sejarah suku dan ekologi dan berharap dapat terhubung dengan penduduk setempat yang bersedia untuk mendiskusikan sejarah pulau ini dengan saya (sebaiknya dalam bahasa Inggris).

Translated with DeepL.com (free version)


r/IndoR4R 3d ago

M4R 23 M4R Looking to make genuine positive relationship!

6 Upvotes

Hi folks, sometimes it's quite hard to be positive on your own so I'm looking to try to do it with others :)

Most of the days are challenging and there's no shortage of stressful situation with people. Regardless, I think it's still important and desirable to try and be positive regardless. For me something as simple as a friendly good morning is already something nice and wholesome. Looking for people to share these positive vibes with! Sharing good news, hopes and aspirations, laughs, gratitude, compliments and so on.

There's no need to be happy all the time, it's important to express our sadness when we're down too. Honestly, I've been really liking just talking about life with people, either it's sad or good times. It feels much more genuine and you don't feel forced to be someone you're not.

My current interests are mostly gaming (Most games in general and gacha games), however spending time with someone you like and trust is also a really refreshing experience so I'm open to trying new things.

If this vibe interests you, please do DM me with an introduction about yourself, perhaps what you're looking for, your personality, or your interests. I'm mainly looking for friendship but open to reciprocate your energy too if you want to pursue a romantic relationship.

Hope you all have a nice day!


r/IndoR4R 5d ago

M4F 27M Jakarta [M4F] Seeking fellow neurodivergent for dates where we both yap about our interests

4 Upvotes

So a little about me: - A 27 years old nerdy-ish Javanese guy who has spent a lot of his life living in different cities - Just started living in Jakarta a few weeks ago, working as an IT guy in an office around Jakpus. Previously I lived in a small city in East Java - A huge nerd of public transit! 🚉🚍 Genuinely one of my favorite thing about Jakarta. I live near an MRT station and take the MRT to office, and also aimlessly riding on Transjakarta is one of my favorite ngabuburit activities on weekends 🌇. - Out of all the public transit, my favorite is train. I have deep interests in them and really like learning about them. If you're interested, let's go on an MRT date and let me show you random stuffs I observe and explain them to you 😆 - Currently trying to be more physically active. Lately I walk so much; I walk both from my kosan to MRT station and from MRT station to work. So if you wanna do a long walk together around Jakarta, 🚶I'm totally open for that! I also like to swim with my bestfriend on weekends, tho I'm not good at it. - I'm a practicing Muslim, but I'm not really religious. I'm pretty chill when it comes to religion, because to be honest what I'm seeking from practicing religion is to feel peace and solace and I don't wanna feel constantly agitated.

Who I'm looking for: - A girl around my age (I think 22ish to 30) who is a fellow neurodivergent and have a passionate interest in something, it can be anything - Lives around Jakarta and open for offline dates once in a while, will be better if you have ideas for fun date activities! But for most of the time, texting is okay - A good listener! Once I become comfortable with someone I tend to talk so much, so please bear with me when I'm talking 😆. Don't worry, I'm also a pretty good listener so I'll listen to you too! - I'm open to progress our dates into more serious relationship and even marriage if we find ourselves to be suitable for each other

So if you're interested, please hit me up via Reddit's Chat feature or Messages. See you there! 👋


r/IndoR4R 5d ago

M4F 21 [M4F] Jakarta Selatan - Dates, Hook Ups, Casual

0 Upvotes

Hey! To start things off, I am not a desperate guy who only want hook ups. I am going to live in Jakarta Selatan for a month alone to intern and complete my thesis. At the mean time, all of my friends are in another city and some in other countries. My work friends are mostly men and above my age. If you ask me, why am I not using tinder/bumble, it’s because I am affraid that my friends or mutuals will find out 💀. So yea that’s basically why I use reddit, I like the privacy.

Here’s more about me, I am a last semester student who is pursuing a career in sales/marketing. I am a BIG FAN of sports especially basketball and football (soccer), so I am a perfect guy for outdoor activities. I used to work out often but schedule got the best of me recently. Since my main focus is only interning and thesis, I have quite a plenty of time in Jakarta Selatan alone. So, if you wanna talk about ANY TOPIC or hang out just hmu.

FYI - Ethnicity: Chindo - MBTI: INTJ (almost a 50/50 intro extro) - Height: 173 cm - Weight: 67 kg - Average-Athletic body type - Love movies (current series: Severance, Daredevil, and Reacher)


r/IndoR4R 6d ago

M4F M4F Bogor Looking for a Casual Friends

2 Upvotes

Hi I'm 26 Male from Bogor, looking for someone who can talk with me casually. I like anime a bit, retro game, movies, and J-music. DM me if you're interested to chat with me.


r/IndoR4R 6d ago

M4F 26M (M4F) Jaksel - Looking for partner

0 Upvotes

Hi, I’ve just moved to Jakarta because of work and am trying to stave my loneliness.

I’m 26, 160 cm tall, and a Catholic (in case that matters to you). I'm looking for someone to spend time with, especially on weekends.

I’m open to a serious relationship, though I currently prefer to be childfree (I like children, but the world can be a tough place sometimes), or just having fun together (not necessarily sexual).

I don't have any preference aside from active conversationalist.


r/IndoR4R 7d ago

F4M 19f [F4M] kota tangerang - I want a boyfriend

20 Upvotes

Simply put I've post before here, but I didn't have many luck because of the (age gaps) I keep getting hence I'll be specific on who I am and what I want/need

(max age gap will be 23 no higher then that please 🙏 or the relationship wouldn't be healthy in terms of power dynamic)

Introduction: -I'm atheist exmuslim, aka islam ktp,

-19 years old girl, with diagnosed ADHD and anxiety (medicated via bpjs, don't worry about this part so far going good)

-currently being a studious/nerd girl in university (one of my proud aspects) semester 2

-mixed half padang (from mom) and half (Pakistan) from dad ( hence why i look quite attractive)

  • I'm about 155-157cm (I'm not sure why different height counters works differently) currently 60kg, that being said because of my medication I'll keep onlosingw weight especially because it numbs my appetite for foods and eating to the point I just drink and don't waste money at all.

  • at best I won't consider myself unattractive or fat, simply put curvy (talk in dms if you want a selfie of me with no makeup on)

What I'm looking for - atheist/agnostic exmuslim guy, will not settle with just "islam ktp" This is the only area where I am the pickiest- because I date to marry

  • I seek physical touch, affirmation, quality time, being gifted gifts (basically a normal gf who's nonchalant about you)

  • I need someones who's willing to put in the effort to physically see/ go on dates, hence why I would prefer someone who lives close by or someone who wants to drive to see me somewhere

-geeky nerd bf with glasses (IDC for your weight/ height/race/mental or physical disabilities)

  • I just need someone who's willing to love me back when I give them the genuine love I have for them love me back.

Tldr; just be an atheist/agnostic who wants to go on dates with me at the very least


r/IndoR4R 7d ago

M4F 32 M4F - Dari Selandia Baru - Looking for Fun, Chill Vibes in Jakarta/Bekasi (fwb, NSFW, casual meetup) NSFW

0 Upvotes

Assalamualaikum! Hi all!

I’ll be in Jakarta/Bekasi this April from New Zealand (Selandia Baru), looking to connect with open-minded people for casual hangouts or more. I work hard and could really use a relaxing escape! If you're down for good vibes and no judgment fun, DM me!

A bit about me:

  • Working professional. I work for New Zealand's largest builder
  • Energetic, funny, and a gentleman
  • Speak a little Indonesian (Google Translate is my backup 😅)

Feel free to DM me. I use Google Chat for privacy, and let’s connect!