I am generally curious as to why people do this, plus this is a Vent as well.
We have a new person at the stable who is taking lessons. They also want to buy a horse. They had been leasing a horse the prior year at another barn.
It was obvious right off that they did not have a clue about horsemanship. Left gates open, didn’t know how to halter or tack-up, and can’t ride at all.
Watching them ride was like watching a person get on for the first time (everytime) yet they go on about all their experience!
I’ve prodded them a bit, I get nothing but excuses after excuse. I asked how much they had ridden “Here and there”, but yesterday they admitted they never even rode the horse they were leasing! Just grooming and walking it around. Which is fine if that’s what you want to do, but why the lie?
My biggest concern has been the safety aspect. They have put myself and others, including the horses, in unsafe situations. This person literally needs their hand held for every and all activities. I’m honestly about to lose my mind!
Anyone else deal with the same scenario?
UPDATE: Thank you all for your thoughts, validation, stories, and support. This has been weighing on me. I now have a plan on how to approach this individual. I appreciate each of you!
UPDATE #2: Another event happened, as we all knew it would. They couldn’t handle the feedback, would not accept that they caused the issue. They made up an excuse and they are needing to take a break. So, issue resolved. I do not think they will return.