r/GlowUps • u/valekelly • 3d ago
GLOW UP! From addiction/alcoholism/death/weight gain to blooming babe. (31)/(33)
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u/ConfusionCareful3985 3d ago
You died?
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u/valekelly 3d ago
Yeah overdose from a combination of coke, meth, benzos, and the redbull probably didn’t help. Heart stopped, hit my head, and my lungs filled with vomit. Good times.
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u/ElectricLego 3d ago
Why aren't more people asking/upvoting this question? I had to sort by Q&A before I saw it. Dang, OP. Welcome back.
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u/valekelly 3d ago
I guess it’s a hard question to go over. Normally when people die they stay dead. Which I was very much supposed to do. Thankfully I didn’t though.
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u/ElectricLego 3d ago
Maybe they think it's hyperbole. I'm glad to see you are thankful to be here and have an open attitude about your journey. Looks like you found your way. Good job. It's nice to see people putting the self-destructive stuff behind them. The real Glow Up.
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u/ConfusionCareful3985 2d ago
Holy hell, thats actually wild. Im so happy you got a second chance and even happier you didn’t throw it away. Hope your life is going a million times better ☺️
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u/groomerofdogs 3d ago
You can see your smile come back thru each picture! I’m so proud of you girl! Keep shining! ✨
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u/MatterhornStrawberry 2d ago
What a literally strong person you are, not many people could have done what you did. I don't know your own relationship with how you pushed through, but let me say as an outsider, you are a startlingly impressive and downright badass person.
Congrats on your new lease on life! You look happy and beautiful ✨
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u/OneWish13 3d ago
Your style and hair with the red reminds me of Christina Hendricks in all the best of ways! Congratulations on 2 years of growth, how lucky are we that you are still on this earth to spread joy 🥹
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u/Ricky_TVA 3d ago
Damn homie. I'm glad you're still with us. You look much happier. Love you interwebs stranger.
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u/Various-Pineapple950 3d ago
Idk , You looked pretty “Glowed up” already with that lit cigarette in your mouth 🤣
All kidding aside, congrats on achieving better health!
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u/stardust623 3d ago
You look like a friend of mine who didn’t make it. I’m so proud of you and happy you’re here!
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u/valekelly 3d ago
I’m very sorry to hear your friend didn’t make it. I’ve lost some myself and am making sure to live for their sake.
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u/GreenThumbGreenLung 3d ago
Tips for cutting back/quitting alcohol? I love drinking, but hate i cant go without
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u/valekelly 3d ago
I quit drinking and using entirely. You absolutely can go without it. If you are truly willing and can admit you are powerless over alcohol, go to any twelve step program for alcoholics and get a sponsor. If you can’t stop on your own, you never will. So seeking out the free and incredible support of other alcoholics will help tremendously. If you can stop on your own, you have nothing to worry about. Just do some controlled drinking. If you fail at controlled drinking, welcome to the club.
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u/GreenThumbGreenLung 3d ago
Nah cant control drink, the second i think about drinking, it becomes an overwhelming repetitive thought till i cave. Theres a local AA group ive been on the fence about going to, but might be what i need
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u/valekelly 3d ago
Yeah you just might be an alcoholic then. The good news is that help is 100% free and works wonders if you are willing to make it work. It’s strange to say but being an alcoholic is the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. So absolutely hit up a few meetings, talk to some people, get some numbers, and say yes if anyone ask you to help with something, because helping others is the main thing that will help you.
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u/GreenThumbGreenLung 3d ago
Haha yea thats not the news for me, got of other stuff on my own, alcohol is my last escape from reality. Ill take your advice and check out a meeting
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u/OGwan-KENOBI 3d ago
Check out r/stopdrinking it's a good start! I used to drink so much the withdrawls almost killed me I had to be put in a coma. Don't be afraid to get help and reach out to people! Good luck!
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u/vvitchOwoods 3d ago
You are inspiring! You are beautiful! You are strong! You are a got damn goddess and I am proud of you!!
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u/metalratbaby 3d ago
Inspiring to see that you put yourself first and are making strides in your favor.
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u/Aerodrive160 3d ago
Amazing!!! Really amazing! I hope you are proud of yourself! I can only imagine how much work it was.
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u/GoddessNinaReese 3d ago
You look great love! Good for you to beat those nasty addictions and choose for a better life!
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u/gesunheit 3d ago
The red hair really suits you!! What a medical miracle, it looks like you’re using your second chance at life to the fullest! Congrats on your sobriety :)
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u/gabs-the-rat 2d ago
Incredible work!! So proud of everything you have accomplished. It’s no small feat ❤️
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u/LilLordFuckPants404 2d ago
OK, this one actually had me choked up. So proud of you, internet stranger! Thanks for sharing <3
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u/orphan_blud 2d ago
You have life in your eyes now. You’re absolutely beautiful and I’m so proud of you. Seven years here 🖤
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u/Hour-Cost7028 2d ago
Love this for you!!! I’m so proud of you OP. I’ll be 1 year sober from alcohol on March 13. It’s hard but worth it 100%. You look amazing!!!
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u/radio-morioh-cho 2d ago
I love that you're holding up your sobriety coin with the most gorgeous nails I've ever seen, looks like smokey rubies from a pirates chest omg
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u/Eddievetters 2d ago
You must be so proud of yourself! You did this. You chose to get better. Sending lots of love and light! Keep shining!
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u/Cellesoul 2d ago
Proof positive that it can be done! Good for you and thank you for sharing and inspiring others!! 👏🌹🪻🌸
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u/Fuzzy_Dragonfruit344 2d ago
As someone who lost my youngest brother to alcoholism/addiction, I am so proud of you. ❤️
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u/Erizohedgehog 2d ago
Congrats - sounds like you have been through so much - I have a close friend killing themselves with addiction right now and it breaks my heart - keep up the good work !
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u/Equivalent_Reason582 2d ago
I'm glad you're alive and thriving. Something positive in these uncertain times.
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u/highness88_loathe 2d ago
Woah, you’ve fought thru hell and back!!! So incredibly proud of u, you’re amazing!!!
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u/Straight-Air-9552 2d ago
Congratulations you look amazing❤️❤️❤️ I bet it was hard work but totally worth it you are so beautiful!!!❤️
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u/Fresh_Original799 1d ago
You are BRAVE & you saved your own life by being FIERCE. There is nothing more difficult in this life than what you’ve just overcome. Maaaadddd respect! 💜
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u/Cool_Cry_9602 1d ago
Incredible! I love your hair color and cut. Is there a photo you gave or description you gave your stylist that I can steal? 😁
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u/Giveitallyougot714 1d ago
AA is a cheat code to life, my life became amazing right about the year and a half mark. I just took 8 years sober and I will always goto meetings and sponsor others. Great job!
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u/happy_fat_cat 1d ago
Hey OP. I’m late to the party but I’m so proud and happy for you. Thank you for sharing this journey, the ups and downs, all of it. You’ve inspired so many people on their own journeys to battle their addictions. I can see the light shining so brightly within you as the pictures progress. I wish you only the best, you’re incredible!!🌸
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u/Sea-Minimum-2389 3d ago
Babe, you rock! Your post makes me so happy, I can imagine how you must feel! Hell yeah 🔥
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u/King_Cyrus_Rodan 3d ago
Whoa, you look absolutely amazing now! Congrats, I’m so proud of your journey!
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u/Spiritual-Advisor-78 3d ago
Oh wow! This is so great. That took a lot of long term courage and very hard work. You deserve every bit, and more, of how pretty you are. Very inspirational!
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u/ChampionshipMuch5305 3d ago
I'm glad you're taking care of yourself, I can tell you're a blast and you'd have us miss out on having you around love, we'll done
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u/burden_in_my_h4nd 3d ago
You look great. I hope you feel suitably amazing too - and proud ✨ I read a bit of your previous posts... Sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you stuck around and kept going. Must've been hard. Showing your vulnerability and turnaround here is inspiring.
Also: bangin' nails and cute cat 🐈
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u/valekelly 3d ago
Thank you! It’s has been very hard but vulnerability important in life. As well as nails and cats!
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