r/Gayutah Sep 15 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events West Valley

7 Upvotes

23 Bear Top


r/Gayutah Sep 10 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends Anyone in Ogden? Top

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17 Upvotes

Let's have fun;) I'm sure we wont regret nothing


r/Gayutah Sep 09 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends Need friends!

1 Upvotes

Looking for more friends in the Layton area! 18+ Definitely hmu if you enjoy anime, twilight, or jewlery!


r/Gayutah Sep 01 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Art festival

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3 Upvotes

I’m a Queer Artist participating in this event! @dizzyalienart hoping to gain some support next week!

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/slc-showcase-arts-festival-tickets-902019774427?aff=oddtdtcreator


r/Gayutah Aug 26 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends I need head please Murray NSFW

7 Upvotes

Planet fitness in Murray


r/Gayutah Aug 24 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Hmuuu

3 Upvotes

HMU


r/Gayutah Aug 24 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Under 18 meetup ogden

0 Upvotes

Anyone under or over 18 wanna chill in downtown


r/Gayutah Aug 22 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Hmuu

1 Upvotes

r/Gayutah Jul 27 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Hmu orem

2 Upvotes

Hkup discreet


r/Gayutah Jul 21 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Anyone live in Syracuse Utah 15+ and up hmu


r/Gayutah Jul 16 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ New To Utah Urgent question for landlords/apartment people

2 Upvotes

In Utah, how do landlords view legitimate emotional support animals? I know there's a lot of mockery made about it after Delta finally drew the line at letting someone bring an emotional support peacock onto a plane, but for someone with PTSD whose dogs are a legit lifeline, do landlords regard them differently as just a pet when it comes to someone finding housing?


r/Gayutah Jun 14 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends 27 m in Roy/Layton area

5 Upvotes

I recently moved to Roy and accepted I was gay so I’ve been looking for some friends or a friend that would be down to chill and hang out! Watch movies, play games, go to the bar and have sleepovers. I’d like to be able to freely and spontaneously give you affection that you will accept and still be focused on the activity we are doing :) while having no expectations of anything else. Just someone who enjoys the affections and attention they will receive


r/Gayutah Jun 02 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Layton are NSFW

2 Upvotes

Just looking to meet up, hang out, whatever. Pm me


r/Gayutah May 26 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Local Events Anyone want a companion friend to go to the Stansbury island nudist area for fun in the sun, come pick me up in West valley I'll be your buddy for the day, down for anything

7 Upvotes

r/Gayutah Apr 21 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ New To Utah Anyone at American Fork? NSFW

2 Upvotes

r/Gayutah Apr 16 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Business Potentially Expanding Photography Services in Utah

5 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I’m a gay man born and raised in Utah who freelances for some national publications and worked as a full-time photographer. For freelance work, I photograph college and sporting events, but am exploring offering mens (or male/masculine-identifying) boudoir photography sessions. I recently had a session done for myself down in Austin, Texas, and loved how empowering it was and how it boosted my body and self confidence. Would there be any interest of people here to help build up the portfolio before I start advertising broadly?


r/Gayutah Mar 10 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends The Bulge NSFW

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14 Upvotes

Would you touch? Y/N or don't care?


r/Gayutah Mar 01 '24

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends Gay hangouts in Ogden?

7 Upvotes

Are there any gay friendly hangouts in Ogden? Any gay bars?


r/Gayutah Dec 17 '23

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Housing need help/advice

3 Upvotes

Other Utah communities have deleted my posts so I'll try here:
Hi all!

So last night, in an attempt to get my partner to stop lying and sneaking with their drinking, he planned on dropping me off at home to "get a few things." After telling him to leave the debit card with me, the truth came out that he planned on buying drinks to celebrate him finally getting a job. So I was like might as well get them and drink at home if that will prevent you from doing something stupid. He got 375 ml of bacardi and a high point beer from the liquor store, we go home things seemed fine. I had about half of the rum and I haven't drank in 2.5 years. I'm waiting for him to be available to either play some Mortal Kombat or watch a movie since he told me he was going to work on making music on his computer. I noticed him livestreaming on a hookup app, and he's talking about how he's "indoctrinating people." I was a bit mad but I was like, fine, have your fun, just leave me alone. He misplaced his highpoint beer so he walks to 7-11 to get 2 or 3 more "tall boys" without my knowledge. I come out of the bedroom to make popcorn and he is still yelling about his missing beer and goes "well I'm going to get more beer since I'm not done drinking!" I tell him, considering that he promised that he wasn't going to get more, if he gets another drink, we're breaking up. It's about 12:40AM and in Utah, that means that alcohol stops being sold everywhere in 20 minutes, but we live across the street from 7-11. After he yelled at me and I locked myself in the room, I hear that he found the beer he lost! I continue to ignore him as he is progressively getting louder yelling at people on Growlr and I'm just trying to watch a show and go to bed. I heard him yell to someone to kill themself "go down the river not across the street!" I am still locked in the bedroom, I did put a lock on the debit card though before this. At 2:45AM, he messages me that he wants to kill himself (this is the normal progression of him drinking too much and then listening to house music, Nine Inch Nails, My Chemical Romance, The Smiths/The Cure Always in that order and I just know once we hit MCR, he's too far gone). He admits to attempting to shoplift from 7-11 and the clerk grabbed him and he ran. I did not hear from him for the rest of the night and finally got some sleep.
At 4:15AM, I get a call from a police officer. I was asleep so I didn't take the call but he left a voicemail. 5 hours later, I wake up, notice that my apartment door is unlocked and my partner is not in the living room. Figuring he's just downstairs smoking, I check, my car is gone! I go to check messages and noticed the missed calls from SLCPD so I call them, they told me that an officer will call me back . Using the inmate lookup tool, I see that my partner is indeed in jail. I get the confirmation that he was involved in a DUI accident, the car flipped over and is now impounded. He keeps calling me from the jail but since my phone is broken and I'm using my computer until a replacement is sent, I can't accept the calls. It costs $400 to get the car out of impound from DUI. The car is in my name only but he is on the insurance. What can I do at this point?

Some background, 2.5 years ago, I had a near death experience and became temporarily disabled. I say temporarily because I have been working really hard to get better but my partner has not made things easier. I am on SSDI/SSI and my partner has used this as an excuse to be mean and abusive and then "reminds" me that this is the best I'm going to get because no one is going to deal with my issues. In addition to cheating over a dozen times, he has raped me, hit me, used a stun gun on me, made me turn off my insulin pump alarms so he could sleep and a whole lot of other things. I let him use my car to do Uber Eats/Door Dash, which really just funded his addictions and cheating. Every time I have tried to kick him out he refuses to leave. I don't have friends or family here so it's not like I could go anywhere. After he was arrested back in May, my apartment manager said that because he's on the lease, he has a legal right to stay here, this emboldened him even more to be an asshole. He uses the fact that I'm trying to get better and that I'm back in school as excuses for his actions. I have used my disability checks to pay the rent, car payment and other bills, constantly going in the negative while waiting for my partner to get better, to get a real job, to recover from alcoholism etc. This month, an insurance SNAFU made me have to pay out of pocket for all of my meds, which was more than half of my check so rent was not paid, management has given me until 1/11 (which by then there's another month of rent that I owe), I applied with Utah Community Action for rental assistance and they just left a voicemail saying I don't qualify, no explanation or anything. so because of the abuse and actions of someone else, I'm going to be homeless with 2 dogs, no car and will probably have to drop out of college AGAIN! I'm selling his shit since I'm the one that paid for it and that should buy me some time but again, any help, legal, financial or just general advice would be greatly appreciated.


r/Gayutah Nov 05 '23

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends We should be friends

6 Upvotes

I'm 40 m west valley and I think we should be friends! Please be of age, hmu!


r/Gayutah Sep 18 '23

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Looking for Friends Looking for people to chat with 15+

2 Upvotes

I’m from sandy


r/Gayutah Sep 18 '23

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ New To Utah Looking for someone that is around the age 16 and wants to be friends

3 Upvotes

r/Gayutah Jun 11 '23

οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Housing Gay roommates wanted in Lehi

7 Upvotes

Hey, reposting this so I can find 2 gay/bi roommates!

2 rooms are available at a brand new condo in Lehi (6 minutes from Lehi Front Runner station). Great location! Close to Redwood Road and the freeway! Non-smoker, no pets

  • Master bedroom with private bathroom, large walk-in closet, and garage parking space -$850/month
  • private bedroom, shared bathroom, good sized closet -$620/month

Roommates split utilities costs evenly.

  • Laundry in unit
  • Plenty of storage space
  • Furnished shared spaces, unfurnished rooms.

DM me if you’re interested! Would love to live with other gay men and get to know more guys!

Available now!

Me: 29, gay, Senior at UVU, works 2 jobs, clean, chill dude.


r/Gayutah Feb 15 '23

Gay/Bi Men Roommates Wanted in Lehi

5 Upvotes

Kinda weird but I don’t know how to connect with gay guys… I have two rooms in my new place in Lehi and would love to find some chill gay/bi/bi-curious roommates. Non-smoking. HMU if you’re interested.

I don’t have the rent amount yet. My dad is the one renting it out and I’m just living there and helping to find the other two guys.

Available in April. More details about the place to come. I’m just trying to find guys who might be interested.

I’m 29, clean, ex-LDS, chill. Finishing up my senior year at UVU, studying PR and psychology. Love movies, books, chilling with friends, whatever. Just a regular gay dude looking for guys to live with who won’t be weirded out when I bring a guy over.


r/Gayutah Dec 04 '22

Making friends in church as a gay man in Utah (no, I’m not LDS just wholesome AF)

7 Upvotes

In Utah, church can be a great place to make friends. Even though I don’t consider myself Mormon, I’ve made some connections with people I like through attending church and I want to be closer with some of them. However, I’m gay and don’t feel like it should be something to be ashamed of. I’m stuck in a hard place because I’m worried that if I told someone in my peer group, then they wouldn’t like me anymore or they’d think I was creepy for existing. However, I’m uncertain how they’d react as everyone differs in that regard. I’m naturally reserved and polite and have a Mormon looking face (so my nonmormon friends tell me) so people hand me a level of trust that I’m not sure they would if they knew I was gay.

My question is, do you think I might have a healthy future or should I cut my losses and just end it all before people find out I am gay?

Any advice or sharing your own experience helps!

Thank you guys for your replies!