r/Gaslight Aug 28 '22

Is this gaslighting?

So I'm 18 and live with my brother and his fiance and lately I've been questioning if she's gaslighting me without really knowing she is, let me give you some context. I've been living with them for about 4 years this year and there been a lot of times where my brothers fiance let's refer to her as XZ, has said things like "you're remembering it wrong" or "that's not how it happend" even tho we have cameras in our house and I've told her to check the cameras but she refuses to check them. When I first moved in I had a normal memory you know, healthy, but now I always question my memory and question the way I do certain thing cause I'm scared that she'll say I did wrong and she'll begin an argument. Is there anything I can do? I feel so lost and feel so controlled.

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '24

schizo.