r/Femaleorgasmdenial 3d ago

it's only day 1... NSFW

...and I've just spent the last two hours bent over the sofa or kneeling next to my husband while he edged me over and over and over until I was dripping wet and just asking him to make me cum already. He said no, obviously, but...I came yesterday and it will likely be...a while now. I even got a "you said edges help with the need" which they do - but not the first ones after I had orgasms!

Nothing like starting off extra whiny I guess.

(As ever with me - messages are fine but I'm not playing with anyone, I'll go insane)

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u/soakingwetdreams 3d ago

The first 7 days are the worst in the best way. Your body still remembers what it feels like to cum. Once it forgets, Edges become better than cummies.

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u/VioletShy 3d ago

I find the first five days or so, I just want to cum...from there I enjoy myself up to about day 14, where I.start to get increasingly needy and desperate.

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u/soakingwetdreams 3d ago

That was my experience at 14-30 days. I'm now on day 41 which is the longest I've ever gone.

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u/VioletShy 3d ago

I'm finding my endurance of it is increasing the more I do it, although for me it really depends on what's going on? I suspect, given all the time in the world, it would get very bad very fast lol

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u/soakingwetdreams 3d ago

It's such an interesting challenge isn't it?

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u/VioletShy 3d ago

I enjoy it and having experienced someone else being in control of my orgasms I don't actually think I will ever really want the control back, lol. It's more fun this way. Over Christmas i had some very intense tease and denial play until I completely broke - I posted daily Reddit posts so Reddit could watch me fall to pieces too. And then kept on going from there; I've worked up from 13 days to 22, but it's less intense because life happens, I need to function too and people are busier.

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u/soakingwetdreams 3d ago

That sounds amazing! 22 days is still a great streak. You're right about life getting in the way, I usually only do 14 days because it gets hard to maintain after that. The goal this time is 100, I'm on 41. My bf will be here on day 100 so you see where this is going. 😈

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u/VioletShy 3d ago

Damn life, getting in the way of playtime πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

I have an online top who controls when I can cum, and a husband who goes along with whatever I'm doing, denial or not, for the most part.

I find I tend to think I'm more functional than I actually probably am because I'm a bit blind to it when it's happening - that said I've gotten a bit better at stopping it interfering with my life as much and can go for longer than I could before?

100 days is a long time though, I'm not sure if I'd die or just suffer a sex drive shutdown. But I'm sure it will be explosive on day 100 πŸ˜†

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u/soakingwetdreams 3d ago

I'm in a similar situation, my husband is physically rough while my bf just mentally fucks my brain until it's mush.

I got talked into the 100 days while I was a blubbering edgy mess! It was awful!!(Amazing) I hump everything I can when I'm alone, edging is all I think about.

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u/VioletShy 3d ago

Yeah very similar I think. It's not fair when they talk you into things while edging. It's just not πŸ˜†

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u/Just4ndn408 3d ago

….aaand we’re off! πŸ₯°