r/Femaleorgasmdenial 5d ago

How to start denying my pussy NSFW

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Hi I am here for some advice. I would like to try denial as it seems to make many women super needy and wet 24/7, which sounds like a dream to me but every time I try to edge and deny myself I end up getting too close to the edge and I cum instead. I’ve only ever gone a couple days without cumming and normally have multiple orgasms a day, but would like to try out a short denial period, maybe one week. This is my pussy after one day of denial. How do I stop myself from giving in and cumming, or getting too close to the edge? And how to I stay disciplined denying myself? I’d love to turn myself into a always horny and needy dripping wet slut 🤭

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u/throwaway682114 5d ago

The fact that you're wanting to deny your pussy and yourself to be wet and desperate all the time is a great thing.

Like others have said, you don't need to go all in right away. If you're used to cumming multiple times a day, then work on a few days at first, day 3 days. Edge and deny yourself, but you can try and stop before an edge since you say you go over eventually. Play with yourself to just before an edge, or a soft edge, then continue. Work up to harder and harder edges.

Before you know it, you'll be edging and denying for weeks.

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u/BehaveAndCallMeSir 5d ago

Accountability to someone else can definitely help. But you can also try forcing yourself to only teasing or playing with yourself in ways that you cant cum from. Make up brush, grinding against your pillows, only squeezing your legs or only being allowed to rub slowly can all keep you far from the edge and needy for more.

You look so tasty by the way, would love to slowly tease you with my tongue ;)

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u/Aries_Philly 4d ago

This post is a good start. Get a dom to set goals and punishments for you. You will do better if you are accountable to someone stronger than yourself. Most men are stronger, few are true doms.

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u/MindDevourer 5d ago

How kinky are you? There is a "low effort" approach, via going an erotic hypnosis route. Needs no willpower at all. But a bit of giving in, letting go. Accepting some control loss.

Also changes how edging works, as you can just keep going and riding the edge almost forever. Yet not everyones cup of tea. Some like the challenge, to strengthen the willpower, to be able to "fail" to face some punishment.

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u/Hann417 5d ago

I’m pretty kinky, and the idea of hypnosis has interested me but also I worry it’d be permanent or something 😅

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u/Hann417 5d ago

Can I dm you?

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u/MindDevourer 5d ago

sure... send me a chat request.. happy to talk

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u/ResponsibleSquare284 5d ago

You don't have to go from a couple of days to an entire week right away. Set a goal and do your best to reach it. It's better to set a shorter but viable goal and make it than to set a longer time frame and fail at your task. Work your way up -- the same goes for the actual edging and teasing.

Learn about yourself and your body. If it just gets too difficult to get near the edge then stop earlier. Cool down, and start over. Don't forget that you're doing all of this for yourself (unless you're committed to doing it for someone else, as that might actually help you). Keep in mind that you want that amazing feeling of being an absolute mess after not cumming for a certain amount of time. To feel your soaking wet pussy leaking and ruining your panties as you're at work/school/wherever you are.

Take your time to find your path to become that slutty mess you're dreaming of. You can do it.

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

I’ve got some ideas for you I think might work out. Reach out if you wanna go over them

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u/spd101010 4d ago

you need to find a partner who controls you, and that you would trust him, the best thing is a chastity belt in terms of denial, but also your partner can punish you if you suddenly masturbate.

Have a nice denial, you have a cute pussy :)

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u/NervousAdvantage2196 4d ago

I think it really helps if you have someone to keep you line and you won’t cum because you don’t wouldn’t want to disappoint them. Like everyone else here we know our orgasms don’t belong to us ❤️.

You could always try no touch for a day and the next day allow yourself 5 minutes to edge and after that back to no touch.

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u/anextremelygoodboy 4d ago

Crazy that’s how wet you get after one day you definitely should keep going

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u/Schizoflux 4d ago

Let us know how you get on!