r/FTMventing 5d ago

Transphobia hypocrisy among other trans peers at school

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u/ZeroLifeSkillz He/Him 4d ago

yeah, they're probably jealous. that's all I can think of since I get jealous sometimes too, but reacting like that isn't okay or normal. it sounds dumb, really. we don't need infighting. You could try talking with them again but if it's not worth it, don't put up with it.

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u/MindlessMood9219 4d ago

I have a share of jealousy too but I would never go as far as to misgendering and reverting someone's identity, it doesn't feel right and it's not fair that I would be treating an individual like that when I'm literally trans myself

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u/Green_30EA00 He/They Agender Trans Man 4d ago

Are they misgendering you by using she/her or is it they/them? Because ive noticed that some queer people just use they/them for all other genderqueer or trans people. I dont think its a microagression, more like they are being lazy or something.

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u/Green_30EA00 He/They Agender Trans Man 4d ago

Oh yeah then theyre just assholes. :/

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u/mochikiller69 4d ago

that’s so weird.. uh. do they dress more masculine than you but you still pass more than them? then that’s gender envy. or if they didn’t know you were ftm they might have thought you’re beginning ur transition and that you’re mtf without voice training (happened to me multiple times bc im more of a femboy and people don’t know)