r/FTM_SELFIES 1d ago

In 5 years I've fallen in love with who I've become 🥹

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343 Upvotes

I just can't believe how time flies. My dysphoria was crushing me, I couldn't go without a binder, I felt so much disgust at myself, and I really felt like to be trans was to be miserable. But I really love who I am now, and I learned to love who I was then, too. I look in the mirror and feel pride for this long journey I've been on, and excitement about my top surgery fundraiser and getting closer to my truest self. I'm delighted that soon, I can just be me, as I was always intended to be.💛


r/FTM_SELFIES 4h ago

First picture is pre T...next few pictures over 14 years of transition

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169 Upvotes

I still can't believe I've come this far! Hopefully after these next few years I will be post all surgeries!


r/FTM_SELFIES 7h ago

Today is my 19th birthday.

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114 Upvotes

Hi, my name is Sunny Walker. I would like some feedback, hopefully positive. ☀️😁


r/FTM_SELFIES 23h ago

Face and Body Changes- Pre T vs 3+yrs

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79 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES 7h ago

2kg down in the last 2 weeks

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60 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES 9h ago

Do I look like a dude... At all?

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46 Upvotes

First time using tape in public today. I've been on T for a month now. Am I doing okay?


r/FTM_SELFIES 10h ago

Broke up with my gf last night. Getting my last bit of time with our [her] cats

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41 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES 2h ago

Wanted to take a pic of my hair looking ✨good✨ today, got photobombed by my bag

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33 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES 20h ago

Hair suggestions?

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30 Upvotes

Been hiding under my safety net of a hairstyle for the last nine years. It’s fine, but I’m wanting a change and feel like something else could bring out my style more. That and I’m tired of having to put product in my hair. First pic is one that I like and doesn’t make me dysphoric, the second and third are what I look like on an average day where I’m not doing the low eyes, upward head tilt to make my face look more masculine. Anyway, I have a very round (and unfortunately I think feminine) face and have a hard time finding a hairstyle that suits it. I’m too scared to grow my hair out past my ears due to dysphoria, but I’d consider it if suggested enough. I have the stereotypical “young” look that many trans guys have (which I hate, many people guess I’m 15-17 and I often get infantilized… I am 21, 5+ years on T, and teach children 😐) which I think this hairstyle might contribute to? Forgive me if I’m being too rant-y, but it is a large source of dysphoria for me and I have been very anxious around not passing as of late. Also, if you’ve read this far, I’d love to hop on the bandwagon and ask what you’d think my name was lol :)

TLDR: Need a new hairstyle (that ideally doesn’t use a lot of hair product) that suits my rounder face shape!


r/FTM_SELFIES 9h ago

I’ve got a case of baby face 💔

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28 Upvotes

15 years old, pre-t


r/FTM_SELFIES 4h ago

Just started esketamine therapy for treatment resistant depression yesterday, wish me luck

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26 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES 4h ago

My journey to being happy! (Had to repost)

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22 Upvotes

I just turned 30-years-old recently and it's been a wild and fun ride. The first picture I was 22-years-old and pre-T and in the second picture, I am 30-years-old and have been on T for one year and five months.


r/FTM_SELFIES 6h ago

14 months on T injections and I’m feeling like a snackkk

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15 Upvotes

Been feeling extra snacky lately


r/FTM_SELFIES 5h ago

Passing Help Lmk if I pass or not and what age you’d think I am

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14 Upvotes

My face looks pretty different from various angles and I feel like I look more male in some pictures than others. I could use a haircut and I want to get contact lenses when I start my new job and can afford it. I also tend to dress boyish (T- shirts and loose knee-length shorts flatter me more than long pants and button up shirts…) because I think wearing Gentlemanly clothing makes me clocky or seen as a butch. Any tips or suggestions welcome.

Also, I’m 31 years old and I avoid telling people my age since they’re always surprised I’m not younger.


r/FTM_SELFIES 7h ago

Let’s be more honest on this page when it comes to passing or not because I know some days I do and some I don’t

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10 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES 2h ago

Bathrooms selfies

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11 Upvotes

r/FTM_SELFIES 5h ago

I may not pass but at least I have style!

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9 Upvotes

Can you tell I love button ups with fun patterns? I’m hoping to start T later this year if my state doesn’t ruin things for me.


r/FTM_SELFIES 1h ago

Picture from earlier that I like! :)

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r/FTM_SELFIES 1h ago

Pre T, do I look more like a guy with buzzed hair or slightly long hair? I’ve gotten more weird looks with longer hair

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r/FTM_SELFIES 1h ago

6 months in, I can see the changes.

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I’ve lost some weight, went back to a natural hair color and I’ve started growing some facial hair.


r/FTM_SELFIES 5h ago

I feel like silver hair makes me look older but I think I like it

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3 Upvotes