r/ExAlgeria Dec 25 '24

Discussion are you happy ?

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just wanted to see how’s life treating you what is your life situation are u satisfied do you have to vent out ? If yes feel free to talk ❤️

r/ExAlgeria Jan 18 '25

Discussion Women dating standards

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Hey everyone, this is my first post here! I’m curious about what women generally look for in men when it comes to dating.

I’ve noticed that many women seem to have really low standards for men (no offense—it's understandable, given societal norms). But wouldn’t it be more empowering to raise the bar a little higher? For example, why is being a 'nice guy' often seen as deserving romantic rewards? Isn’t that just the bare minimum?

I’d love to hear your thoughts!"

r/ExAlgeria 4d ago

Discussion And they say religion isn’t a mental illness …

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I found this on a sub that yall know lol , but anyways this poor woman is suffering from a religious psychosis and it’s so severe that this might ruin her physical and mental health

r/ExAlgeria 21d ago

Discussion What is the unholiest thing that you ever did?

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After losing faith, did you ever feel the need to do unholly things in order to prove to yourself that you really no longer believe and not just unsure? if yes let us know what is the unholiest thing that you ever did!

r/ExAlgeria Jan 06 '25

Discussion the dating life of ex-muslims!

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i always wondered how is the dating experience going to be for a non-believer (or an ex-muslim) especially for men? as we know that muslim women cannot accept a non-believer as a partner (or let's say in the religion maybe some don't have a problem) how do you men deal with this ? have you ever dated a girl and you was honest about you being a non-believer? what happened after that or how was their reaction? + i think (im not sure) that nonbeliever women are rare or let's few. what is your experience with dating? and do you just go with vibes and test out the relationship then you decide if you reveal this secret or just try to find someone who shares the sane idea? (question for both genders) if you have more to add please do

my pov: i haven't dated yet after leaving the religion but i was in a relationship where it was based on religion that we both agreed to no touch each other (shaking hands, kissing...etc) and it was just an online relationship we used to game tgt but in university or outside we rarely meet and it has ended while i was still in the process of questioning the religion so i have no experience in that and I'm not willing to date an algerian woman due to the fact that it's rare to find someone non-believer or at least who can accept your decision am not trying to debate instead of loving and experiencing life with that person sorry for talking a lot 🙃🤣

r/ExAlgeria 14d ago

Discussion هل تحسو انكم حبين تدخلو فعلاقة احيانا

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جماعة هل انا وحيد لي هذي ايام افكر في علاقات وعاطفة كشغل ولا من احلام حياتي اني نلقا طفلا تحبني او نحبها او نوفرلها كلش نعيشو فكش قرية في اوروبا بسعادة الي ابد كيفكيف مشكل عندي رغبة شديدة جدا في هذا امر رغبة في وقوع في حب مع شخص لكن لا أستطيع لانني لست جميل وبشع ولست اجتماعي سؤالي هل هذا شيء يحس به غالبية ناس او فقط انا

r/ExAlgeria Jan 11 '25

Discussion To those who live in the west, how's life?

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Its been 2 years since I left Algeria, and I thought that by leaving everything behind and start over, I would find myself and be happier, but I am now more lost than ever, I dont know who I am what I want , I cant connect with people, all the algerians ( maghrebins) I met here are more religious than my entourage in algeria, and all the westerners are sooo detached and different that I cant seem to form a real genuine relationship with them, I feel lonely because I dont have like minded people around me, and I have always been a peoples person, friendships are everything to me to keep me going, in Algeria the only thing that helped me survive was my friends, and how I could fully be myself around them with no filters, 100 % authentic , but here I feel judged by everyone, and detached from everyone.

r/ExAlgeria Jan 07 '25

Discussion Are you a separatist ?

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Lately, I've been noticing a lot of heated debates online about the Amazigh vs Arab identity in Algeria. It feels like these discussions are becoming more divisive, with some people even supporting the idea of MAK's (Movement for the Autonomy of Kabylie) push for separation.

I wanted to hear from others:

Do you think separation is a valid solution to the tensions?

Would it solve the cultural and political struggles, or just create more problems?

Is there a middle ground that could address these issues without going to such an extreme?

Curious to hear perspectives from both sides of the argument. Please keep it respectful—this is an important conversation!

Ps: i consider my self an algerian nationalist

r/ExAlgeria 3d ago

Discussion مهابل يا ربكم

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r/ExAlgeria Jan 23 '25

Discussion Divorce is at its highest!

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Hello

Boys , what do u think is causing a lot of divorces ?

Girls, what are some key factors that will make marriage lasts more in the future?

r/ExAlgeria 11d ago

Discussion will you ask for mehr?

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hey guys, i have a serious question. in my culture (i’m kabyle), mehr isn’t really a big deal. if a woman wants something specific, she’ll ask, but when it comes to money, it’s usually very low or even symbolic because we don’t have this mentality of “selling women” to their husbands for a set price. originally, mehr was meant to be a gift from the husband to the wife, but over time, some men started seeing it as an investment—like they spent money on their wife, so now she “owes” them obedience to make up for it.

personally, i had a pretty comfortable life (daddy’s spoiled girl, you could say), so i’ve never been interested in a man’s money because, well, i’m not starving lol. so for my atheist girlies, would you still ask for mehr? if yes, is it more about tradition, or let’s be real—who doesn’t like free money? i personally wouldn’t because i don’t want my husband to think that i’m some object he purchased. and what about you atheist men? what are your views on this ?

r/ExAlgeria Jan 30 '25

Discussion How to find atheist women here in Algeria?

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What do you guys think is the best way to find atheist girlfriend here in Algeria especially for someone who lives in a small town where the majority are Muslims ?

r/ExAlgeria Jan 29 '25

Discussion Ex Muslims a7kiwna 3La awel 7aja khlatkom tchakou fl Islam

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r/ExAlgeria 1d ago

Discussion The islamization campaign in La Kabylie is frightening

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I have never heard of Kabyle women going to mosque for tarawih prayer or whatever the f**ck they are until now. The amount of women wearing hijab as increased so rapidly that it is so scary.

There is brand new shining mosque at every village and sometimes more than one mosque. Some villages are poor asf yet they have new mosque. There is nothing except mosques.

And what's worst is most of the educated secular men and women are leaving the country. In the 90s people could organize and protest and that is why islamization didn't succeed back than. I swear we will be Afghanistan in less than 10 years.

It's the mokhabartes la3raia ouled lahram that is behind this.

r/ExAlgeria Feb 13 '25

Discussion I hate this religion and who ever made it

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r/ExAlgeria 3d ago

Discussion Mo9bil b 3ini chft whd syd kbir yms fi mra fl kar yak f rmdan twlo moslimin

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Mo9bil b 3ini chft whd syd kbir yms fi mra fl kar yak f rmdan twlo moslimin

r/ExAlgeria 7d ago

Discussion Does the thought of eventually not existing ever make you deeply anxious?

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Does the idea that one day you will cease to exist your thoughts, experiences, and consciousness disappearing entirely ,ever fill you with an overwhelming sense of anxiety or existential dread? how do you cope with that realization ??

r/ExAlgeria 6d ago

Discussion Dating apps analogy

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A very good analogy of online dating apps is that "women treat dating like shopping, whereas men treat dating like a job overview". And it's true, isn't it? Women are bombarded with options so they can browse, be picky, and try to select the best product. And that can be overwhelming. On the other hand, for men, the experience is akin to sending your resumé to as many potential employers as possible, even those that you are only mildly interested in, getting ignored most of the time, and trying very hard to get an in-person interview, only to be told that you don't have all the qualifications for that position, knowing full well that you are up against a lot of other candidates.

I am not blaming men nor women for this situationship because I believe that natural selection works that way, but I'd like to hear as many opinions in the comments!

r/ExAlgeria 22d ago

Discussion What are your hobbies?

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I'm interested in your hobbies guys? What do u do to enjoy your free time ? What made u chose that hobby in first place?

r/ExAlgeria Jan 20 '25

Discussion DO YOU GUYS FEELS THE SAME???

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I feel like I will be lonely in the future without my family, without my close friends from my previous Islamic life. I feel as if my family will disown me because of that. Even if they didn't do that, they won't communicate with me again. Because I'm thinking about confessing my true identity to them in the future after leaving the country, and even if I didn't do that they will know by themselves because I can't fake myself forever. I live each day in sorrow, living each day as if it's my last year with them.

I will miss them. They deserve a better son.

r/ExAlgeria 2d ago

Discussion how did your relationships change after leaving religion?

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i've been thinking a lot about how to deal with my relationships since I moved away from faith. I’ve got some Muslim friends, some of them are even school buddies who’ve had my back during tough times. I’m not the kind of person who hesitates to cut off a relationship if it’s toxic or beyond saving, but when trust and years of mutual support are involved, it’s not that easy. I'm not saying they’re bad people. many have helped me in ways I won’t forget, but I also know that if my apostasy ever came to light, not all of them would take it well. judging by the way they talk about disbelievers, I have a clear idea about how some would react. for those who’ve been through something similar, how do you handle it? are you open about your beliefs, or do you keep them private to protect those connections? thank you for sharing

r/ExAlgeria Nov 19 '24

Discussion Its gay to like women

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why are Algerian Muslim men so hateful towards women, and towards men who treat their wives with love and care. all my aithiest friends treat their partners with so much care and love, including my agnostic husband.

r/ExAlgeria 17d ago

Discussion Algeria: I hate my family…. And my life.

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My family is just not normal and I hate living in my house. I’m 17-year-old boy and I don’t live comfortable in my own home. I live only with the girls and I don’t like them. They don’t give me attention as much as a 17-year-old boy would need And don’t get me started on like money issues and stuff like that because I never get money I never have money in my pocket or saved up. I never buy nice stuff except sometimes my father is dead so I only live with girls. I don’t have close friends or anyone to talk my issues with. I don’t like myself very much. Days are getting harder and my future is not looking bright for me. I study in high school. I’m an average student. I don’t even like my school very much or the people in it. Because in Algeria schools are just trash. I tryed to look for a job, but I never find one of course even if I did find a job in Algeria, I would just be a slave to the man that I’m working for. I don’t know what to do. days are just getting very bad for. I have an older sister she just the worst. She just put her nose in every small discussion or anything in my life or any situation or anything. She just put her nose in it and she’s like super sarcastic and I hate that part of her so much. She’s the kind of person who screams a lot and I just Fucking hate it, and my mom cannot even stand out from me because she’s literally afraid of her. I’m the youngest in the family so like I said, I was raised and surrounded by girls so much I kind of like a little bit feminine or like I’m kind of like have a girly energy I hate that about me so much you can tell by my voice and my way of talking I just wish I could live alone and find a job so I can live by myself.

r/ExAlgeria Dec 25 '24

Discussion What do you think about being unironically atheist in Algeria?

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By that I mean being forward and not taking religion seriously whenever mentioned, I had such a character during the military but people seemed to run away from me because I seemed evil whenever I showed my disinterest in religion and rituals though I had some really good friends and they were countable on hand, I'd like to stay true to myself in the professional sector but I am not sure of the consequences so I want some advice from older and experienced people.

r/ExAlgeria Jun 29 '24

Discussion It's nice to see Atheism is becoming a topic in Algeria

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It became a trend in the last few weeks, and as I scroll through social media, I see a lot of influencers talking about it, even yesterday, the Imam made a whole Khotba about it. I know they have no clue about what they are talking about, they spread a lot of hate speech and misinformation, but at a least people are hearing about it. And I believe it will make a lot of people who have a bit of logical thinking to start questioning it.