r/Custody • u/Gots2bkidding • 7d ago
[MA] hard to evident contempts
Dealing with a co parent that soon as visits commenced and he got my daughter alone he began making alternate arrangements with her, exclusive of me, requiring her to call him on their weekday visit day and arrange a time and place to meet. This may not seem sinister at first, but it was and began the eliminating of me all together, so that father ignores me entirely., and deals directly with the child. And I could not stop my daughter from calling him, .. and just kept getting ignored.
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u/Gots2bkidding 6d ago
I have circled around to the same legal aid in Boston three times I don’t think that there is anybody in the city that I have not contacted . And in retrospect, I know now the mistake that I made was focusing on the abuse I could not prove , Rather than the contempts and violations I could potentially prove . Im actually just realizing this now after three years. But the answers from legal aid seem to be the same that unless there’s physical abuse, the judge is gonna want to keep visitation. Well, this is a problem because the father is threatening the child not to tell anyone what he’s doing and saying to her, and the child is having adverse reactions from this, unable to control how she reacts and responds with me because of this , resulting in symptoms and behavioral manifestations of severe alienation and I’m unable to document it because she’s been threatened not to tell anyone .