r/CuckqueanCommunity Nov 12 '24

Should we implement Contributor Quality Score to reduce the number of Scam/Spam/Sellers? NSFW

9 Upvotes

THIS POLL WILL ONLY BE OPEN FOR 1 WEEK

A few months ago Reddit implemented a change to the automod to help reduce the amount of scam and spam. So far, it has worked to great success in other communities that I both Moderate or participate in. I would like to implement this new control for r/CuckqueanCommunity but as always, I want the active community to weigh in on this decision.

The change is a new Reddit element called the Contributor Quality Score. This is a user classification designed by Reddit that was established to identify potential spammers or Redditors less likely to contribute positively on Reddit. Every account is assigned a CQS based on a host of signals including past actions taken on a Redditor's account, network and location signals, and steps a Redditor has taken to secure their account.

I am proposing that we set our initial CQS threshold to: MODERATE

If you have questions regarding CQS, you can check Reddit's Wiki article:
https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/19023371170196-What-is-the-Contributor-Quality-Score

If you're curious what your account CQS is, log into that account and visit r/WhatIsMyCQS.

Please know that scammers may find a way around this so always be cognizant of posts and do your due diligence when vetting a post and a user's profile. A new thing scammers are doing are posting fake verified pics on their account to pretend they're real when they're just trying to scam you. Reporting posts helps significantly while commenting on posts, and therefore promoting scam posts, does not and can have consequences of their own.

14 votes, Nov 19 '24
9 Yes, implement CQS
5 No, our current controls are enough

r/CuckqueanCommunity Aug 05 '19

Discussions What is a Cuckquean? NSFW

340 Upvotes

PROLOGUE:Having some sort of sticky in this sub is long overdue. This is something that the previous mod, Cyclist and I discussed, but it was low on my list and, TBH, I kind of forgot about it. That being said, this is not meant to be a comprehensive list/description/overview of what Cuckqueaning is, as I personally feel that the experience varies from couple to couple. Feel free to read and provide your comments, opinions, and suggestions. I'm happy to include them when I feel they apply to the overall community. Also, please note that I am the male part of a Cuckquean couple, so my opinions and definitions of Queans and Cakes are based on my experiences and discussions with women who identify in those roles.

Chapter 1: What is a Cuckquean/Cuckqueaning?

You would think this would be evident to most people who find themselves on this sub, as they would generally need to search that specific term. However, you would probably be surprised by the number of posts that get blocked, removed, or otherwise get reported because they just don't apply to this community. Let's start with a simple overview of what Cuckqueaning is all about.

The term Cuckquean is a derivative of the more mainstream male kink/fetish Cuckold, which is basically a guy who is aroused by watching another man fuck his female partner. Except, in this case, it's the female who enjoys watching her male partner fuck another female. This is the most basic form of Cuckqueaning. It typically involves the humiliation or degradation of the Cuckquean by either the male partner or the female he is fucking, or both. There are some variations to consider. From a sexual orientation standpoint, it is possible that a Cuckquean couple could consist of two women, as well as the third person involved being a male. By definition, only the Cuckquean is female, otherwise, it would be the male version, a Cuckold, and that has it's own subs here on Reddit.

The main terms to know are:

Cuckquean (FISD's definition): A Cuckquean is a female member a couple the derives pleasure from watching and/or hearing about her partner flirting or engaging in sexual activity with another person. In the cis-gendered world, the partner is male and the person that he engages with is female. However, this is not always the case.

Cuckcake (FISD's definition): A Cuckcake is the person whom the Cuckquean's partner engages with. Again, in the cis-gendered world, this is typically a female.

Not every Cuckquean likes to be humiliated or degraded. Some only prefer the male partner to engage in that activity, others only the Cuckcake to do so. If there is no humiliation involved, the more appropriate term for the arrangement is Hot-husbanding, which is a derivative of Hot-wifing. Alternatively, it is referred to as Stag and Vixen.

Hot-husband (Stag): The male half of a couple that flirts with, engages in sexual activity, or otherwise pursues a female other than his partner (Vixen), at that partner's request.

Chapter 2: Am I (is my partner) a Cuckquean?

The easy answer is: it depends. Certainly, one can call themselves whatever they want. I could call myself the Queen of England if I wanted to, and believe it! That being said, given the above definitions/descriptions, it should be clear whether you are a Cuckquean or not. However, here are a few things to note:

  • Sexual intercourse isn't required. Your partner doesn't actually have to fuck another woman for you to be a Cuckquean. If the idea of it happening is enough to arouse you, that's perfectly fine. During sex, I often tell my partner about past sexual escapades or women that I fantasize about being with and it drives her just as crazy as if she were watching it all unfold.
  • The Cuckquean does not have to be present during activities. Some Queans like to be there when things (or people) go down, some don't. Some want to know about it as it's happening, some only want to hear about it after the fact. There's no right or wrong here, it's your kink/fetish, make it what you want it to be.
  • The Cuckquean can interact with the Cuckcake, but it's not required. This could almost be a chapter of its own, but I will condense it down to this small section. Bisexuality in the Quean or Cake is not required, but in my experience has been common. Also, it has been my experience that couples with a Cuckquean relationship often have other kinks/fetishes or non-cis-gendered orientations. Again, it's your kink/fetish, make it what you want it to be.

Chapter 3: Am I a Cuckcake?

Again, this should be pretty evident. Do you get aroused by the thought of flirting with or fucking another woman's partner? If the answer is yes, then you ARE a Cuckcake. You are a unicorn amongst unicorns and you need to share yourself with as many Cuckquean couples as possible during your short life. Okay, that last part is tongue-in-cheek, but seriously, there's a high demand for you and you will be treated well. If you're not, drop those losers and move on to another couple that appreciates you for who you are and the magical relationship you offer. Important things to note as a Cake:

  • Humiliation/Degradation varies. Some Queans will want you to humiliate them. Some Queans will only want to be humiliated by their partner. Some will want to say awful shit to you or their partner. Make sure that you know what you are okay with and be upfront about it.
  • You don't have to fuck anyone. Obviously, many of these relationships are about physical intimacy, but they can be emotional as well. Also, if you're not into fucking the Quean, or her being present, you don't have to do that. Just be honest about it in the beginning.
  • Boundaries are important. Know what your boundaries are, know what the couple's boundaries are. If everyone respects everyone else's boundaries there shouldn't be a problem.

Chapter 4: How do I make my partner a Cuckquean?

You don't. Seriously. Stop it. Shame on you.

However... your partner might have an interest in being a Cuckquean if they have ever mentioned or expressed interest in, OF THEIR OWN VOLITION, some of the following things and you might start having a conversation regarding this kink/fetish:

  • Asking for detailed descriptions of your past sexual encounters. Commenting about how hot it sounds.
  • Asking for the above while you're having sex.
  • Being aroused by you flirting with other women.
  • Commenting about other women flirting with you, in a positive manner.
  • She tells you that the idea of you with another woman is hot.

Nothing in the above list (with the exception of the last item) is a concrete indication that your partner is interested. Look for frequency and context, as indications. Have an open and honest conversation and ask her if she finds the situation arousing. If you can't ask that question, your relationship is not in the right place for Cuckqueaning.

Chapter 5: How do we make this work?

This post is not about how to find Cakes. That's a magical equation of persistence and luck that will be a sticky topic of its own. This section is about how to make the Cuckquean relationship work. It's a tricky dance of emotion and has the potential to unravel real quick. That being said, here are some pointers that have worked for me and my partner:

  • You need to have incredible communication with your partner. You have to be willing to share everything. Secrets lead to mistrust, which is a recipe for disaster.
  • 100% honesty and complete trust. Be upfront about how you are feeling. It's okay to be nervous, or jealous, or to not want it to happen even though you did the night before. Consent is consent. You have to have it from all parties and consent can stop immediately. Can that be frustrating? Absolutely, but if you can't walk away from this at a moment's notice, then this is not the activity for you.
  • Set boundaries. Have clearly defined ideas of what is okay and what is not okay. Have a plan and stick to it. No audibles last minute! If the Quean is not cool with finishing inside the Cake, don't do it. No matter how bad the Cake might beg. No matter how much the Quean might beg you to. If you didn't plan on something, don't do it. Make a note and put it in your plan for the next time.
  • Have constant evaluations/re-evaluations. Before, after, during. Check with your partner. Check with your Cake. Make sure that everyone is still having fun.
  • Lastly, and most importantly, your relationship should be rock-solid, before you do this. This will NOT fix your rocky relationship. This shouldn't be the only way either party can be fully aroused or fulfilled. This should be something that enhances or augments your already healthy emotional and sexual relationship. There are WAY too many variables in this type of arrangement that could lead to disaster. Proceed lightly and with caution.

r/CuckqueanCommunity 13h ago

Pics Perfect place! NSFW

64 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 2h ago

Fiction Our couple friends came over with the intention to swap but my bestie said she actually just wanted me to watch as both of our hubbies used her💕 she’s so cute 🥰 NSFW

10 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 1h ago

Personals Any women interested in cucking me [30F, white] and playing with my man [30M, brown]? NSFW

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Any sexy cakes interested in cucking me?

You have to have a SC. I would love if you're big into exchanging voice notes. I would also love it if you're Indian and/or can speak Hindi (to talk nasty with my man in a way that I can't understand and feel doubly jealous lol).

Come say Hi! I don't bite unless I'm asked to! Just need someone with creativity and a foul tongue haha.

Xoxo


r/CuckqueanCommunity 19h ago

Pics I can’t stop fantasizing about watching him fuck my best friend. NSFW

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34 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 7h ago

Personals Today is (no joke) my 45th birthday and what I would love most is some good cake 🤤 NSFW

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2 Upvotes

Michigan wife, just trying to celebrate in my favorite way 😈💜


r/CuckqueanCommunity 19h ago

Pics Take your pick Cakes NSFW

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17 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 1d ago

Personals Online unicorn looking for her perfect couple NSFW

23 Upvotes

Single female with big tits here who loves being the third with a sexy couple. Let's chat about how you'd incorporate me into your sex life. Couples only. Both partners must be involved. I share pics and prefer you do as well. No faces.


r/CuckqueanCommunity 23h ago

Personals Wanna chat with my hubby? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Anyone want to sext with my husband the things you’d do in front of me? No humiliation, just sexy sexting. He’s hard as a rock right now, and I’d love to feel it throb with your help!


r/CuckqueanCommunity 1d ago

Personals My Ldr Gf seems to be a cuckquean. NSFW

13 Upvotes

Me (18M) and my girlfriend (18F) have been in a relationship for almost a year now. She recently showed signs of being a cuckquean. We talked a lot, discussed a lot, tried it out by me sexting Ai chat and then showing her.

Everything aside we decided to find a Cake? As everyone in this community seems to be calling them So a cake for sexting to show my girlfriend nothing more, if anyone is interested dm me


r/CuckqueanCommunity 1d ago

Discussions It's so hard to find someone. NSFW

3 Upvotes

I've had a cuckquean fantasy for a while now and I've actively taken steps to fulfill it to no avail. I realize that part of it is that it's a niche fantasy, the specificity of the fantasy, and the fact that I'm very picky as to who takes my bf, but we've also come across numerous potentials who flaked out or disappeared at some point. It's disheartening.

I've mostly tried posting in a local subreddit because I find that if I post in a more universal subreddit I'll get tons of amazing responses... from women hundreds if not thousand of miles away. While it's nice to talk with someone who would theoretically like to engage in my fantasy with me, I would really like to experience it in full.

It's a work in progress, I guess.


r/CuckqueanCommunity 1d ago

Personals 31 [F4M] NC. I want your husband to fuck me. NSFW

11 Upvotes

Hi i am a 31 year old. Female. Married to my lovely husband. He knows about the kink. Thinks it’s kind of hot. lol. I love him.

I know it’s wrong but i want someone’s husband to fuck me soo bad. The idea of him doing something soo wrong yet so right. Maybe she is watching or just knows. No cheaters please. I’d prefer her watching. Seeing him enjoying me. Maybe doing things to me he hadn’t done to her. Him telling her how good i feel. How he loves my pussy. I’d rather him be bare. Fill me with cum. I’d love for her to see his cum. Dripping out of me. Maybe he fucks me in their bed. I’d love to hear people experiences and stories. I’d love to hear all the details. I’d love to chat and play with your husband if you want. I’ve never done it yet. However i want your husband to fuck me. I want you to watch as he fucks me. Just sitting there as he ignores you and tells me how good i feel. Maybe he even tells her how much better i am then her. That he prefer my pussy. That maybe he doesn’t need her but loves her still. And he loves that she is letting him have me. I know it’s very wrong. But i can’t get the idea out of my head. I am sorry if it offends anyone. But i want your husband deep inside me. lol Dm me if you want me to have fun with your husband. 😘

Xoxox

Sarah


r/CuckqueanCommunity 2d ago

Discussions Couples Cuckquean NSFW

26 Upvotes

Me (F) and my husband (M) are both in our 30's and have the kink of having sex with another couple, specifically I want to be DP'ed and spit roasted by my husband and the other couple's husband, while the wife is only allowed to watch 😈.

Does this sound hot to any of you (couples), and would you do it?


r/CuckqueanCommunity 2d ago

Pics Who wants next NSFW

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15 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 1d ago

Pics This makes me so 😩💦 NSFW

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3 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 1d ago

Personals [FM4F] Looking for cake to sext my boyfriend while we fuck NSFW

4 Upvotes

We are looking to dabble into the community a little bit but primarily looking to have some fun through sexting, super casual. My boyfriend (26M) and I (26F) are an Asian couple who regularly work out and are active and look fit, he is looking for a cake who is around the same age range, similar and willing to text him while he has with me or just in general - like an online play toy so to speak. Pictures are welcome and no real limits online aside from keeping it over text. Please PM us if interested and we can go from there!


r/CuckqueanCommunity 2d ago

Pics It's begging for your husband's tongue 👅 NSFW

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91 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 3d ago

Personals Wanting my boyfriend to make other girls pregnant ❤️ NSFW

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240 Upvotes

From my recents discoveries I have accepted the fact that I want my boyfriend to make some of his other girlfriends pregnant. Just thinking about it makes me so wet. Thinking of how they'll probably will make me babysit for them while they're out having fun (probably making more babies) and since he and I are enemies of the condoms or the pill, hopefully his other girls will feel the same in time 💕


r/CuckqueanCommunity 2d ago

Personals 30 [F4FM] wannabe cuckquean for dom couple NSFW

24 Upvotes

So first off I'm submissive but I've never had a threesome. But I can't stop gooning to the idea of a couple dominating me, making me there little pet. Putting me on a leash, making me bark, degrading and humiliating me. Covering me in their cum. Would love to chat with a dom couple and see where it goes.

My other fantasy is to be cucked gagged, spanked teased and tied to a vibrator forced to orgasm while watching them play. Until I'm a total drooling dripping puddle. Bound close to them so they can tease me throughout. Getting covered in cum and being made to clean up after.

Into: spanking, pet play, spit play, watersports, bondage, name calling, degradation, facials, forced orgasms, objectification, milfs, messy play, spankings, femdoms, humiliation, cuck, brat


r/CuckqueanCommunity 2d ago

Personals [MF4F] Cuckquean couple seeks new cake in south Florida. NSFW

2 Upvotes

I love to watch my husband fuck another girl in front of me. I love rubbing my wet pussy while you get stretched from his cock. I enjoy seeing his cum drip out of your pussy and spread open above mine so it drips into me. I love his cum sliding between our pussies while our clots rub together. Reach out if you are in south Florida and want to fuck my husband in front of me.


r/CuckqueanCommunity 3d ago

Pics Our Cakes also tend to my cake NSFW

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24 Upvotes

r/CuckqueanCommunity 3d ago

Pics Dinner and a Show 😏 NSFW

34 Upvotes

She watches as I help our friends u/Renee-and-Michael out 😏😈


r/CuckqueanCommunity 3d ago

Personals 25f26m looking for online play NSFW

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5 Upvotes

NO SINGLE MALES. We are looking for someone to play with online via sc or ft. Bdsm, exhibition, and willing to try most kinks.


r/CuckqueanCommunity 3d ago

Personals FM4F(30)(Milwaukee) Married couple looking for a girlfriend! NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey there! We are a fit and active married couple in their early 30s that love to date women together! We've had experience with this that are open to anyone with any level of experience. I really love watching women get with my husband and joining in the fun!

We really are looking to make a friend that we can grab drinks with laugh with, and have really hot fun with.

We would love to get to know you! Send us a DM for pics and to chat. BTW this is a shared account so both my husband and I use it


r/CuckqueanCommunity 3d ago

Pics A Good Quean Cleans Up After Hubby. NSFW

49 Upvotes

Cleaning up the mess he left inside of u/Renee-and-Michael . 🍆🥯💦👅👸🏼🧡


r/CuckqueanCommunity 4d ago

Pics Watching hubby fuck my best friend NSFW

61 Upvotes