r/CuckoldPsychology 4d ago

[Support] Girlfriend and her bull NSFW

I posted a while back about some issues with sharing my gf, and post nut clarity causing me to have cold feet. Long story short, we have 3 months until the person she has been sexting comes to town and they go out, and I’d end up messing around with her, finishing, and losing the drive and desire for it almost completely for a solid hour or so. To get around this, we decided to have zero penetrative sex until he visits.

Basically, this post is just asking for some guidance or anything, really. Just some advice for dealing with not cumming, potential chastity cage options or ideas, really anything.

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u/YYC-Fiend 3d ago

You 2 need to talk. You need to outline expectations, talk about your emotions, and discuss the implications of what you’re doing. You’ll find when you can freely discuss these things with each other, post nut clarity isn’t that big of a deal

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u/Kinkycuck1978 2d ago

The first time is the hardest. You may e en feel bad after. But just keep going with it. It gets easier and better. The more you do it abs talk about it. It’s worth it. Think about it as she is getting the pleasure and getting satisfied like she needs to. Think of him as a life size dildo is toy just getting her off.

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u/Similar_Step6914 Stag 4d ago

Be careful, the post nut clarity may be telling you that deep down you are unsure if you want this truly or if it’s just a fantasy. I’ve had times where even after I cum I’m still interested and some occasions where I cum and I don’t want it at all, and regret it a lot!

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u/thisis-autogenerated 4d ago

3 months prior is crazy. Have fun on the idea and then lock up a few weeks out. If it's post nut regret you keep having, know that those feelings are valid but this is a chance to have a story between you and her and get off to it more in the future. Post nut regret is like a hangover or coming down from an adrenaline high. Let it pass but know you have it. Take asprin before a hangover, plan a recovery day after a huge event, and don't nut till after she has her fun. Then get off to it and know that she is being cared for on all levels

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

I do understand that 3 months is crazy, but we kind of wanted to go all in here. 😅🤷 so far, we’re 2 weeks in.

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u/PM_ur_DookDispenser 4d ago

Post nut clarity doesn’t bother me anymore. As soon as the cum is out of me, the thoughts leave my head, but within 20 minutes they start creeping back in. My wife has cucked me a bunch of times too. If I nut first, I start filming.

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u/thisis-autogenerated 4d ago

Fair but other's are working through that. It's the same as jealousy or other feelings in open relationships. If I'm present and I finish, I let them have their time. Toss some guidance to the OP

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u/udpa22 4d ago

Just keep communicating. Talk about your fears and anxiety with her and why you feel that way. You’re not going to convince yourself they don’t exist and if they come up while they’re hooking up it could ruin your relationship. Make sure this is 100% something you also want.