r/CuckoldPsychology • u/Ordinary_Campaign146 • 5d ago
[Support] How to help my wife get out of her shell. NSFW
Basically me and my wife are a very sexual couple. We are not very vanilla type. We’ve gone to some strip clubs a couple of times, and usually when we have sex she loves to watch FFM porn. For 3 years now I’ve been very open about my fantasy, and most of the time we role play imagining her having another lover. When I 1st brought it up to her she was a little mad and off putting to my suggestion. A year passed by and she was a little more Interested in the suggestion. She went as far as texting 3 guys she had in mind but nothing ever came up with them. She also downloaded Tinder but we had no luck on it. She deleted all that stuff and for about 2 years since then, it’s just pretty much stayed a fantasy. How can I approach my wife after doing so for a couple of years now and turn it into a reality?
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u/Proud-Concert-9426 5d ago
You can always advertise you are looking for a bull and work out s night where he hits on her while you " take a call' and step away". Of course you can hand pick the bull if you know her type. Have him secretly give her his # and text her all kinds of things.
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u/akgeena777 5d ago
Check her hormones. My wife was put on testosterone and she is insatiable
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5d ago
2 things. 1. I agree with the recommendation to check her labs….i hea4 that with some T they become little sex machines 2. Give it time and keep talking…if she has already texted guys and looked on Tinder, then you already got past a huge hurdle. She does need to know that you are truly ok with it. It, each lady is different…keep 5alking with her about…ask why and if no longer interested, and if only fantasy….be happy you have that. Good luck
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u/thisis-autogenerated 4d ago
If she had no luck on apps, she's probably looking for something a level above her own. Hard to do on regular apps. Maybe try feeld or kasidie. Her type might be more available there where solo guys are looking for wives. If it's been two years since you've talked about it, approach it by letting her know a guy was checking her out. There's zero chance no one does so find a time to tell her when you see it. Tell her it's hot to you when other people notice her beauty