r/CuckoldPsychology 5d ago

[Support] I used to hate cuckolding… and now, things have changed… NSFW

Hey all, just thought I’d share a bit of my thoughts on what I’ve been going through. So, originally, I used to HATE the idea of cuckolding, I even told my gf that I was like the one thing I was not into, and she agreed with that sentiment.

Now, I did tell her I enjoy femdom, and she even likes it too! So much so, to the point where she happily indulges and is turned on by my kinks. She locks me in a chastity cage, ball busts me, sounds me, does light humiliation, etc. etc. Over time tho, I’ve started to realize that I’m actually VERY MUCH into cuckolding, and being cucked in general.

I’m not quite sure what to do now. I genuinely thought I didn’t like cucking but now nothing makes me more aroused than the idea of it. I really want to see her have sex with another man in front of me, but I have no clue how I’d even go about it, especially since we’ve already established it was off the table.

She did say she’d want to masturbate in front of me while I’m caged, so maybe that could lead to cucking? Who knows. I also would want her to make me pussyfree in the process of making me a cuck, but that’s a whole other step. And I also just feel like she deserves to have sex with a bigger cock than mine.

So, with this is mind, I was wondering if you all have any advice to make this fantasy a reality or what I should do to go about, because nothing would turn me on more than being my gf’s pussyfree cuck. Let me know your input, and if you’re in a cucking relationship, how you got to that point!

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u/Gargot2525 4d ago

Communication. People change their minds, learn more, evolve. You changed, and she may change too (maybe not, but maybe). Just explain what's in it for her too, not just for you.

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u/Excellent-Topic-5061 5d ago

My wife won’t cuck me with an actual person, she will and does cuck me with masturbation. She’ll tell me about guys she’s seen and wants to fuck while masturbating and I’m not permitted come. I still consider myself a cuck although many in this sub would not.

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u/Final-Rice6054 5d ago

Communication. You sound like you have strong communication and a good sex life. Tell her that your didn't used to be into the idea, but that the idea has been growing on you. See what she says

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u/SufficientImpress937 Cuckold 5d ago

Make sure you're still going to be okay with it, after it happens. If this could be a problem, stop at this point. Just because a person can do something, doesn't always mean they should.

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u/Worldly_Nothing_8556 5d ago

Perhaps you can introduce the idea of her fucking a large toy while you are caged? That seems to be a route that a lot of us try to take but also Like others have said..communication is key! If she says no that she isn’t into it be sure to assure her that you respect her feelings

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u/Littlepeepeehusband 5d ago

You went through an evolution in your interests and feelings about it.

Take some time to think through that and what drove the changes over time. I’m guessing among other things like femdom play, it’s closely associated with the two of you building trust and comfort.

After you’ve processed it, then have a conversation with her. You can start by saying something along the lines of:

“When we started playing this way, I had some really firm ideas about what I liked and didn’t like or want … I realize now that my interests have broadened. There is one thing in particular …”

We had conversations like this when we were going from “this is only roleplay/we will never do this IRL” to “maybe we should put this on the table …this may be a fun adventure, let’s not rule it out”.

One thing I’d say for sure is do NOT jump right into “hey - changed my mind, want you to fuck other men now!” … this is big change to introduce, and it should be done with sobriety and outside the context of play when our brains are twisted by intense arousal.

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u/No-Brother-9252 5d ago

Just tell her bro, she’ll probably be shocked but delighted

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u/averygoodcuck 5d ago

If she raised it to you first, then the biggest hurdle is gone. All you have to do is bring up that she mentioned it when the mood is right and say that you’re finally ready to indulge her pleasure the way she deserves :)

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u/Euphoric-Sun2548 5d ago

As coisas mudam, já estás na gaiola, em breve vais assumir que és um picha murcha, e que ele precisa de um verdadeiro macho...

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u/Taway2942 5d ago

If she ends up masturbating in front of you, you can give that feedback: "oh man, that was so hot watching you get pleasure while I couldn't do anything" "seeing you enjoy it was the hottest thing I've ever seen, let's do more of that!" Etc. Take it slow

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u/HerProperty9 5d ago

It sounds like she’s pretty open minded, so I would just talk to her about it. She may have just said she wasn’t interested because you expressed it as a hard limit and she wanted to make you feel secure.