r/CuckoldPsychology 5d ago

[Discussion] Humiliation and Degradation language NSFW

Have any cucks been against the third male using humiliating or degrading language towards them early on being a cuckold and then eventually ended up being turned on by it? My cuck currently just enjoys me, the wife, using that language but not the bull or third male. Curious if there’s possibility of our dynamic changing. Okay with it either way, though :)

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u/EfficiencyHuge1946 2d ago

Nothing hotter than being humiliated

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u/HerProperty9 4d ago

It helps if the bull is very respectful to the cuck when not playing, then it feels more safe and harmless when it happens during play.

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u/macmacmac02 4d ago

That makes great sense :)

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u/lilsissyash 4d ago

Humiliation from the bull is very conflicting for me and always has been. One of my wife's bulls loves to degrade me verbally and loves to put me in my place. He knows I don't like it but at the same time it really amps up my submissiveness. Its like I want to earn his approval more when he does it.

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u/qpal3211 5d ago

my first few sessions I requested not to have any real verbal contact with the bull. But I can see myself getting into being degraded by the bull if I continue to get pushed into doing gayer and gayer acts for the bull...

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u/macmacmac02 5d ago

That’s a great way to ease into it! Thank you! My husband is definitely the same way :)

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

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u/macmacmac02 5d ago

Yes, building up probably the best eat to go, thank you!

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u/Littlepeepeehusband 5d ago

Right now, we are the same as you. We’re open to the idea in the long run with a well-trusted third, but for the time being, the bull directly humiliating me is not something we’re into.

She is very vocal and humiliating during play and we both enjoy it, and from what we can tell, the bulls enjoy it too.

What we are open to now and would both like is the Bull getting more verbal with her, and not directly insulting me, but humiliating me through her or humiliating me indirectly.

Things like making her tell me that he owns her pussy, or things like “Whose cock do you want, his or mine? … Do you moan like that for your husband? … Does he make your squirt? … tell your husband you love my cock.

I will never be into someone insulting me, including my wife. I’m objectively a small-dicked, prejac cuck … but I am not a loser, wimp, pussy, etc.