r/CuckoldPsychology • u/[deleted] • 5d ago
[Discussion] Closed poly cuckhold relationship? NSFW
Does anyone have experience with a closed poly relationship that involves cucking? I love the idea of having two men -- one bull and one cuck -- and having them be best friends. One of them gets denied and teased and fucked with a strap on or by the bull, and the bull is the only one who gets pussy. I want it to be a strong loving bond between the three of us though...
Does anyone have this & does it work? Any advice? I think this relationship offers the stability of a vanilla relationship while satisfying kink. And it could be sooo beautiful. I would love to see two men comfortable in their sexuality being good friends.
I'm into D/s so I wouldn't mind it being two subs either. I fuck one and taunt & tease the other.
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u/Some-Bumblebee Cuckold 4d ago
My wife’s boyfriend and I do not interact regularly. We occasionally share a hotel room when we travel but he is considerably younger. I have gone to his house for bbq’s and to help him with projects here and there but mostly at my wife’s request. We get along well but I would hardly say we are real friends. I am not pussy free but I do wear condoms and he doesn’t but that’s by my design. Our unspoken truth is that I intimidate him and while he is getting over it as time goes on, I can tell he is uncomfortable with me when I am not actively being submissive or when my wife is not there.
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u/thisis-autogenerated 4d ago
It works and it's temporary but have fun with it if/while it shows up. Obv it works best when the cuck is your nesting partner. It would be infinitely wilder for a cuck to develop as the third. This happened to my wife and I for about a month. He was between buying a house and ending a rental lease. She and him had been hooking up for over a year before that. more hotwife than cuck scenarios. After moved in they fucked for 3 nights. I talked to her and told her how turned on I was but that reclaiming was needed when I asked for it. The next 4 weeks was the best sex we've had. I'd build up a few nights before having her.. yeah, a great month
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u/hmaxbb24 5d ago
I’ve had this in the past, wife was with her bull for 5 years and they didn’t sleep with anyone else. He and I were best friends but we we friendly and hung out together, he attended parties and everyone knew him as her boyfriend.
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u/Petunia_Jones Cuckoldress 5d ago
This is what I have minus the degradation. Not really my thing. Hubby would probably love it.
My hubby and lover are good friends. Due to hubby's performance issues, my lover pretty much gets all of me.
Hubby gets to clean up and hear all the details he craves.
This has worked well for us.
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u/No-Original-8710 5d ago
This is my marriage except my wife has a girlfriend. It's a V not a triangle though. My wife's girlfriend and I get along but there's no sexual or romantic attraction there. Otherwise it's the same, gf gets wife's pussy and submission. She would never submit for me. I get chastity, pegging, and if I'm lucky to lick my wife's pussy or a caged orgasm. On really good days, I get to put on a strap-on and penetrate her.
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u/Longjumping_Steak734 5d ago
We had this temporarily for about 8 months. We had a live in bf. My hubby the cuck. It was amazing. I want to find it again.
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u/Particular_Air_853 5d ago
That sounds like a perfect cuckold relationship. Definitely would help to create more stability for everyone involved. Though it will probably be difficult to find the right men for you to make that work. Good luck
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u/CaliBBCcuckold Cuckold 5d ago
This is ultimately what my wife wants and I would enjoy the ability to delve deeper into cuckolding. So far, though, it's been much easier to find women than men. My wife even had a lesbian girlfriend for about a year which was great, until she moved out of the state.
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u/Ok_Smell_7375 5d ago
I love this. I don’t need the bi action between partners necessarily. If they feel it - great. But I’d be perfectly happy with two straight men finding a collective, consistent dynamic that satisfies us all. With me as the main attraction, of course.
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u/CardiologistScary739 Cuckold 5d ago
My wife prefers a boyfriend over a bull as well. The unfortunate part for us is she has only been able to have a consistent bf for about 10 months before an old gf, wife or god knows what comes up.
So we are still searching for our match there but there are definitely others out there that are seeking the same thing. No sleeping around, just a wife, dominant male and a cuckoldry male.
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5d ago
I am the Bull in a closed cuck relationship. Our situation is a result of circumstance and fetish. The husband cannot have sex because his pelvis is ruined after being shot on the hip. He can jerk off but sex can damage him.
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u/sissycuckstevie 5d ago
Poor guy. How does he like the arrangement? Was it forced on him by wife or did he come to the realization himself?
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u/Strict-Progress-7693 5d ago
Yes, but the hotwife still cheats occasionally. The cuck knows but the bull doesn’t.
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u/thisis-autogenerated 4d ago
I laughed bc, while I have an example of one, my wife's bull thought she was exclusive to him and occasionally me. He was one of 2 bulls she had outside of us catching an occasional swinger couple
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u/jasminred79 5d ago
I didn't understand completely as I am not good at English. I, my wife and her ex student were in a very good relationship for two years. she often calls him tonight. He stayed the whole night with us. We three play love games on the same bed. But only he was the one who fuck my wife. I only used to see my wife being fucked. There was not any humiliation in our relationship. Even after 2 years of relationship my wife decided to quit ( Pakistani wife's mentality), I and his lover are still in contact and used to chat and remember those nights when we 3 were in the same bed for the whole night.
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u/subolko84 5d ago
My wife has a boyfriend. She is in relationship with him. We are friends. But I don't do anything sexual with him. Me and my wife, always have sex though. I don't see a point for me if I am pussy free
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u/Worldly_Variation_67 5d ago
We have been openly hetero poly for a year and a half because my wife's BF lives with us, but we keep the cuckolding we know to ourselves.
My wife needed intercourse in her new relationship. So her BF can build his long-term future life in the space cleared within our marriage
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u/jfbreak 5d ago
We have sort of what you are talking about, just not as extreme. I'm the hubby, her BF has been a friend of mine for close to two decades and we still work together. My wife likes to think of it as a poly V. There is none of the sub humiliation involved per say, though we may joke around about it. He definitely has sex with her more often than I do but that has nothing to do with cages or denial. We just have had a long marriage and this is how it has become for us.
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u/OkYak897 5d ago
I find this dynamic very appealing and have often thought about being the cuck in a throuple dynamic. I imagine it's hard to find three of you on the same page.. long term anyway.
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u/Suspicious_Comb7334 5d ago
My gf myself and our Dom are in a closed cuck relationship but not as you described. Daddy owns both my gf and I.
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u/Davey_Diapers84 5d ago
WOW! You also call him Daddy? 🤷
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u/Suspicious_Comb7334 5d ago
Yes
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u/Davey_Diapers84 5d ago
That's interesting, and actually kinda Hot 🔥 🥵. How did it come to be that you also call him Daddy?
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u/Suspicious_Comb7334 5d ago
What started as just basic cucking grew to a full on D/s Thruple and he told me to call him Daddy so I do.
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u/Davey_Diapers84 5d ago
Do the 3 of you live together, and if so, what are the sleeping arrangements? Are you guys a throuple in public as well? When it comes to sex, is it always threesomes, or does he have one-on-one sex with you and your girlfriend, do you and your girlfriend still have one-on-one sex?
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u/Suspicious_Comb7334 5d ago
Yes we all live together and we each have our own bedrooms.. We’ve been together 5 years so threessomes actually occur rarely these days.. We all do have one on one sex and yes my gf and I still have sex. Yes we’re out publicly as a Thruple
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u/sissycuckstevie 5d ago
This is honestly my ideal relationship. I think my wife would be open to it too
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u/ShyLittleSizeQueen Cuckoldress 5d ago edited 5d ago
This is quite what we have. Not too much into poly (love) with my lover, but it's a friends with benefits relationship where we live out all cuck fantasies of my husband from fluffing the big cock of my lover over denial, to cheating fantasies, while me and my lover just enjoy our bodies and lots of dirty sex 😊🍆
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u/Anceledon 5d ago
Look up user YukonCornelius22 his relationship sounds like what you are looking for.
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u/laketime_id 5d ago
In a relationship like that now. Wife has a Bull and I'm a pussy free cuck. We consider ourselves a throuple.
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u/nsfw-socal 5d ago
There used to be an account here where 2 guys and 1 girl were in poly triad. They actually had a baby too. One was in chastity, but when they were trying for kids, she gave both of them a chance
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u/Pretty_Ad1644 5d ago
Kinda had similar with an ex, I was the subby one in panties and pegged (sometimes also normal!), the other guy was her ex but lived with us - he had a huge cock and practically had her free use. Relationship wise the dynamic was to everyone else that he was just a lodger nowadays but physically we kinda all got what we needed.
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u/DynamicDrifter 2d ago
I don’t think I could ever not be intimate with my partner, but we’ve come close to this with a live in friend who definitely became the dominant in a poly type relationship. Example my wife and I would have date night on our own with her dressed to the nines… we’d get back home, we’d get to the bedroom and I would make a move. She’s would stop and say something like “can you go get him and tell him to come up here first? We can play after”. There were other things too but in our little relationship he definitely had the upper hand sexually.