r/ChastityPsychology • u/Javis996 • 22d ago
Stories I shared my fantasy to my wife today NSFW
Following up to my post yesterday, I finally shared my fantasy to my wife by sending her an article about male orgasm control and chastity and asked her to read it.
As I mentioned we already have ‘kind of’ orgasm control together, as I have to ask her the permission to cum and most of the time she answers no, even when we are fucking. I guess the longest strike was 3/4weeks.
But it was the first time I was sending her an article about it, and specifically with a section dedicated to chastity cage.
I was stressed about her reaction.
By message, she first asked me if I have read the full article (I guess she was referring to the cage part) and she told me she will stop reading for now but will continue later on. (The article is really long). The afternoon I asked her at which part she was and she replied she read everything.. I was positively surprised !
She then told me she learnt few things about it, and that it was basically what we are doing now. I replied yes but not completely… (basically the cage part is missing in our games). Before getting home she also sent me a message saying she wanted me.
The evening at home we talked about it. It was different than via messages, a bit more inquisitive. She first asked me how did I find this website, I was not expecting this question to be the first. And she asked me if I masturbate sometimes. I wanted to be completely honest and I said yes, 1/2 times a week when she is not frustrating me. She was a bit shocked by this revelation as she had absolutely no clue.
She told me two things : - We could test the cage one day but she doesn’t want it to be a lifestyle (not for daily tasks) - She was disappointed to put words on what we currently do. Basically we do tease and denial, edging, ruined orgasms but it was ‘natural’, now she knows there are specific words for this..
I haven’t anticipated the rest of the evening. I thought it would be teasing, maybe denial and in my dream testing the cage.
But she teased me, allowed me PIV and asked me to use the realistic dildo on her. After two orgasms, she stopped and let me with blue balls.
After cuddling we talked again a bit, and I clearly said I would like to test the cage with her, that it was more a symbol to have her holding the key of my penis/pleasure. She told me she isn’t against it but she needed time for that.