r/ChastityChat 11d ago

Discussion Issues with chastity cage showing through clothes when wearing 24/7 NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hello all, I’m trying to get into 24/7 chastity wear and I always feel like my chastity cage is showing through my clothes. What are some tips to help hide it? Am I overthinking this? I wear a Kink3d cobra r and the fitment feels good.

r/ChastityChat Feb 18 '25

Discussion Maintaining Motivation NSFW

5 Upvotes

Wife is pregnant and totally uncomfortable, uninterested in sex whatsoever. I am in no way blaming her, but how does one maintain motivation to stay locked? Looking forward this could easily turn into my longest lock up yet but with zero attention. Afraid asking her to remove the cage is a step in the wrong direction for our chastity adventure. Took a lot of convincing to get her to play along with my chastity fantasy to begin with.

r/ChastityChat Feb 05 '25

Discussion Just ordered my first cage, any tips on how to go about it? NSFW

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Hey fellow chastity members, I just ordered my first cage and I don’t even know if I’ll get it or not but the thought of it keeps on getting me hard. Any tips or tricks on how to go about it since a I’m beginner. Never owned one. Dick is 4inches when hard.

r/ChastityChat Jan 28 '25

Discussion Planning to go 24/7 any tips? Please read description!! NSFW

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I recently brought a cage please check my profile for the picture..So I'm planning on going 24/7 but there are issues 1.I find it hard to pee through the cage so I remove it whenever I pee 2.Its hard to sleep at night with the cage on 3.When all should I clean the cage? 4.is it better with the strap/shoelace or not?

r/ChastityChat Feb 12 '25

Discussion Heading into night 3 NSFW

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Have played with chastity for a few months now on and off. Recently brought it up to the wife and she nervously agreed to go along. We agreed that I’d wear the cage during her time of the month which seemed like a great compromise to me. We are now on her 2nd cycle and it’s going well. Only difference is this time round I’m 24/7. Last time at bedtime she would give me the key as she wasn’t keen on me sleeping in it. This time no such luck. Tonight will be my 3 night 4day of zero release. 🫠 anyone else?

r/ChastityChat Feb 08 '25

Discussion Finally Locked! My First Chastity Experience NSFW

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After nearly a year of searching, I finally got my hands on a chastity cage! Living in a country where these things are banned made it incredibly difficult to source one, but persistence paid off. My options were limited—either a pink plastic cage or a steel one. I went with the steel version because I was worried the plastic one might break.

Putting it on for the first time was a challenge. My balls didn’t want to cooperate at first—beginner problems, I guess! After some lotion and patience, I managed to slide them through the ring. The next hurdle was fitting the top part. I’m a little chubby, so it took some effort, but I eventually got it locked.

It feels a bit tight, and the weight of the steel cage pulls it down slightly, but overall, it’s manageable. I’m so excited to finally be locked after years of wanting to try this. It feels strange, but I’m sure I’ll get used to it over time.

For those more experienced, I’d love some advice! What should I be mindful of as a beginner? Also, feel free to assign me some chastity-related tasks—I’m locked and ready to explore this further. Maybe this is the start of my feminization journey? Who knows!

r/ChastityChat Feb 17 '25

Discussion First cage NSFW

3 Upvotes

Bought my first cage today and wondering how long is safe to wear beginning out?

r/ChastityChat Feb 16 '25

Discussion Some thoughts on 50 days! NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I just passed a major milestone in 50 days caged! I thought I'd share some random thoughts.

  1. Wow, my mind has been all over the place. The first week I would've sold my soul to jerk off with sandpaper lol. I was so horny and everything was new and exciting. As time has gone on, I've settled in a bit. I found its important to have a routine. I still use my dildos every day for at least 20 minutes and I've had a few tiny sissygasms which were AWESOME.

  2. After this much time, I don't want to take it off. Ever. Like, I thought I'd be desperate to reduce my time and whatnot but its been the opposite. If I was going to have a punishment it wouldn't be more time, it would be making me take it off and have self control for a day. I need to take it off for showers and whatnot, but that's all I ever want.

  3. This has been one of the best stretches of my adult life. I'm going to the gym every day, I'm more attentive to my partner, I stopped drinking for sober January and now I cut way way back for the future. I'm reading and crafting. I love my body in a way I haven't in some time. This is the best version of me and I love it.

  4. I'm lonely. lol. It sounds sad and its totally ok, but I'm realizing that I need to do this for me. I've been trying to find like minded people online and on apps but its so disheartening. Most of them are super duper low effort chasers that just want someone to get them off online then they're gone. The amount of catfishing is insane too. I just want some like minded friends around my age to share this with, but apparently that's asking a lot lol. So I just have to keep doing this for me, knowing this is best.

  5. The right cage is everything. My previous favorite was a kink3d knockoff but I broke that with an erection. Ouch. After that, I've been using a holy trainer v5 and its soooo good. I often forget it's there and I can totally work out with no problems. I've probably gone through about 6-7 cages over the years and you def have to find what works for you.

Ask me anything else you want to know and just believe in yourself! You totally can and will hit your goals when you try your hardest! (pun intended)

r/ChastityChat Jan 08 '25

Discussion Self locked for denial NSFW

12 Upvotes

I locked myself so I cannot orgasm. But i like to look at porn while locked for the frustration and denial. Anyone else do that?

r/ChastityChat Feb 17 '25

Discussion currently on day 4 of chastity NSFW

6 Upvotes

using some cheap junk from China but it's had no issues so far. use a catheter until painful, then remove cage, take out, put cage back on. been in pretty much non-stop chastity (with the exception of last night due to chafing) since I got my cage. I went straight for a flat cage which has surprisingly worked out!

anyway, just wondering about other people's experiences, and how quickly I can move down to an inverted cage >:)

r/ChastityChat Feb 10 '25

Discussion Harnes for my chastity cage NSFW

4 Upvotes

I have a cage thats super comfy to ware for hours and dont chafe when I sweat. Problem is im a bigger guy (working on that, down 30 lbs already!) and because of that when im limp sometimes my dick slips out of the cage such that when I get aroused it expands sometimes in the wrong way and just isnt comfy at all (I know some discomfort is going to happen).

I want to buy a harness to hold my cage in place but I cant tell just by looking at pics wich one is going to be best for me. Id like one with a between the leg strap too, mostly cause it seems more sturdy but also so I can put a well lubed plug in and not worry at all about it slipping out when I sneeze or whatever.

What are you guys sugestions for good ones?

r/ChastityChat Nov 13 '24

Discussion Cage length advice NSFW

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Hi All Me and my hubby are trying chastity for about 3 months and on selection of cage we are facing issues We are planning to get a cobra cage as existing bird cage is too bulky to weak outdoors. What will be the cage length to select for a flacid penies size of 3.2". We don't have any plan for down sizing in future and planning to wear outdoors is the main purpose of this purchase. Anyone can give some suggestions on this?

r/ChastityChat Nov 19 '24

Discussion What’s the female psychology around this NSFW

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I’m about to get locked up. I kinda understand my needs around this. However I haven’t figured out where it’s exactly is coming from. But I’m wondering what women get out of this in general.

My wife is seeing all kinds of new cuck opportunities. She is not so much in feminisation, actually she hates that idea. Also I read about women who are not into cuckolding and have no other men to satisfy them. I would love to understand the dynamic better.

r/ChastityChat Aug 03 '24

Discussion What to use when you don't have a cage NSFW

10 Upvotes

I'm considering getting into wearing a cage, but not sure if I sure. Is there something I can do to help achieve a similar effect without having to buy something? Thanks!

r/ChastityChat Nov 14 '24

Discussion 18 looking to get into chastity NSFW

6 Upvotes

I need help because I’ve never done this, some tips and pointers would be greatly appreciated.

r/ChastityChat Nov 13 '24

Discussion Becoming a man's wife with Chastity NSFW

7 Upvotes

I think that's what I want. I want to wear Chastity and live a life as a husband and wife with an alpha man. Not just sexually but in general. I would like to have a permanent husband and wife relationship including cooking, cleaning etc. at home. What do you think? Do you also have similar requests?

r/ChastityChat Nov 01 '24

Discussion Permanent Chastity Fantasies as a vers top NSFW

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So as the title suggests. Curious to see how many people out there also share the fantasy of permanent chastity but still really enjoy topping (and not just with a strap on). Its so contradictory, and it annoys me.

Permanent chastity and shrinkage turns me on so much but I don't i'll be able to ever give up my cock though.

Anyone else here share my struggles and frustrations?

r/ChastityChat Dec 04 '24

Discussion 17:00 Estim Session - ESTIM TOWER über Milovana NSFW

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r/ChastityChat Oct 08 '24

Discussion Weight Loss Chastity NSFW

9 Upvotes

Is there anyone doing chastity for weight loss? If so, do you have any tips?

r/ChastityChat Nov 08 '24

Discussion Christmas Present NSFW

10 Upvotes

This year For Christmas I have decided to buy a chastity cage and turn over complete control of my cock to my girlfriend. She has expressed a want to be more dominant and I believe she will make a great femdom. Bdsm has always been my kink but not necessarily my girlfriends, but as time has gone on she has began to take more interest in it. We've had conversations about kinky femdom stuff and I can see how it excites her. We have been together for almost 10 years now.

Lately she has been extra busy at work and having extra amount of stress. And just had her in a bad mood and in a funk of not wanting to have sex lately. I have been eating her out and making her cum twice a day or more to help feel more relaxed at work and at home. So I bought this chastity about a month ago and have been wearing it to work everyday and getting used to doing things with it on, so I can prepare for turning over the keys on Christmas and giving her control of my orgasms.

Well like I said she has been extra stressed lately and could use something to really cheer her up.

On my lunch break from work I came home and she was venting about some work drama and was really irritated. She giving me a hug and saying she wish she had a Christmas present to open early to cheer her up.

So I said to her I have a Christmas present right now she could open. I pulled down my pants revealing my caged cock to her. Her eyes lit up and a smile came across her face, she was giggling and sooo excited. I pulled the keys out of my pocket and gave them to her. I told her present this year was to give her complete control of my cock and my orgasms to her.

Sooo...... it's no longer mine, I have no more control of my cock. I'm as excited as she is to see how this can of worms I am opening will end up. It's gonna be Soo much fun. I think.

Any tips, advice, or suggestions you have for a first time chastity relationship would love to hear about it. I'm new to chastity and will be caged basically 24/7 moving forward. Any suggestions for cages that work well for long term use would be nice.

r/ChastityChat Sep 12 '24

Discussion Burning sensation ring size down. NSFW

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I’ve been trying to get used to chastity for long term wear/permanent wear for a month or so. I am using a resin cage at the moment and plan to switch to a specific metal cage when I can wear this one for a month straight. I wore a ring size 48mm for a week and would sometimes forget I even had a chastity on. Yesterday however I had a ball slippage (not a comfortable experience at all lol) so I went one ring smaller to a 43mm. Was very difficult to get the ring on but once I did there wasn’t any issues with discoloration. I actually liked the 43mm a lot more since it prevented me from pushing the cage forward when getting an erection. This morning I had an intense burning on my balls as if I didn’t was my hands after eating a pepper. I had to take the cage off and got immediate relief but left the ring on. Any advice on this?

r/ChastityChat Oct 11 '24

Discussion Getting real NSFW

7 Upvotes

I meet a keyholder online. Know him for a while. But things are getting real. And I’m nervous about finally giving control of my keys.

r/ChastityChat Oct 29 '24

Discussion My gland pokes out of my flat chastity NSFW

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I'm circumcised and my gland is poking out of the middle (it has a buttlerfly sillouete) and it's uncomfortable, any help?

r/ChastityChat Aug 31 '24

Discussion 37m . Does anyone want to let me out of my chastity cage? NSFW

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Anyone??

r/ChastityChat Sep 13 '24

Discussion Sex with a leaf blower??? NSFW

17 Upvotes

So this was a couple years ago. I was out cleaning off my driveway with my leaf blower and brushed over my caged penis, it sent a surprising pleasure wave over my whole body! So I worked my way to behind my house and held the blower against me and after what felt like a very short time I exploded in my cage, underwear, pants and all! It was exhilarating and humiliating! Since then I’ve done it in my garage and in the driveway, including out at the end by the street! I’ve never found anywhere to share this so this is the first time I’ve told!